WTF are you complaining about??? OLD Topic.

BBFS happens all the time (beats a rubber doesn't it?) , and FYI this has been discussed 2000 times.

BBFS is more common now than any time since the early 1980s. Because of AIDS drugs, and a horrible economy, many many more girls offer it (quietly) and roll the dice. Some charge a premium for it, but most don't. It's become very common with top level touring girls. If a girl is ugly and scores 10s all the time for performance, odds are not bad she offers BBFS.

To the OP - On another note - YOU participated in the BBFS willfully and if the girl is an ATF, why would you NOT see her again (with or without a rubber)???  

FYI - Cipro doesn't cure 75% of STDs including AIDS.

Telling us how bad & evil BBFS is. Very predictable. Next we'll get the usual guys posting STD stats & graphs.

I don't do bbfs and I get tested every month.

The third being, don't worry I wont cum in your mouth.

She was doing privates to privates massage and the condoms were in the bathroom. We were teasing and joking about it and then she started begging for it.  Before I knew it I was in.  Nature took over and I kept at if for 10-15 seconds until the big head regained control and I slipped out.  Freaked me right out, but a small part of me was very turned on...Does that make me a very bad bad man?

Chewing Cipro and considering whether I'll ever go back.  On the one hand we've been together several times and this is the first time she ever did this, but on the other hand, we are still relative strangers and she still did it, which I know means she's done it before.

I'm guessing this happens in the industry far more frequently than is discussed, but this was a first for me.

and you can't go back in time, so nothing you can do now.

reccomend getting tested and stay away from others sexually untill you get the results because there is a good chance you  now have an std even after 15 seconds.please please please for you own saftey stick with  safe sex and not bbfs.

Agree on the "odd" coincidence of uglys with 10, and you're right, she didn't force it on me, but it did take me by surprise.   She has historically been very safe, so it would be good to know why the change in behavior.  

To all the finger-waggers, I'll be tested and have already cancelled my date for this weekend.  

Whats done is done.  I'd probably have finished BB and then worried about the consequences.  Don't need to worry about rugrats since I already had that problem snipped.  Go get tested.

To be honest if you got an STD in fifteen seconds then you contracted something even a cover wouldn't have stopped. If you are in the hobby then a test is always a good thing but freaking out over 15 seconds is overblown. Thats my two cents.

Both were very high-end, highly reviewed providers, so it took me by surprise both times.  The first one may have suggested it because it may have seemed like I was having trouble getting off.  She asked that I pull out in time and come on her back, and I complied.

The second, I really think was because #1 she trusted me and #2 because she herself wanted to be more in the event and didn't like the feeling of latex.  She made me promise that I'd been "fixed".  I lied.

And yes, I know that I really need to get the larger head in gear on this issue.  It's like playing roulette.

At least she caress about her health as many of us do.
Darling, it is very sad when top rated providers have to
go that kind of an extra mile so that no one else will see
her clients.

In June a client I never met gave me references. His board
ID was reviewed and his reviews told me enough but he did not
review that he really had BBFS with her. He told me this just
before the raincoat was affixed.

In this industry some providers will tell another provider that
they are sick. Kitty sick. As in vajayjay sick . It puts alot
of providers at risk to even BBBJ someone who has
been playing like that. Maybe it is time to cover it all up
from start to finish its getting to the point where men are
not much concerned about themselves let alone us.


Angela

Has not happened to me, at least yet.  But I can see going along with it and even finishing in the heat of the moment.  At that time, all the blood has rushed from my big head to my little one, and I'm pretty susceptible.  If it were me, though, I would not go back to this particular lady.  Whether "everyone does it" or not  (how the Fuck does that make anything smart or not?), it is still a dangerous practice and it is not likely that she got carried away just with you.

Certainly get tested, and keep getting tested.  While the stats I've heard (no, I have not researched this) on aids is about 1 in 200 from this (for you), the incubation period is 6 months.

I had a regular also that on one of our visits it just happened. I was alittle freaked at first but yes it felt wonderful. My regular assured me I was the only one that had happened with and proved she was clean by showing me updated STD results.

I've only been hobbying on a regular basis for about a year now and this has happened to me twice already.

Both times I absolutely loved it. Reckless? Yeah. Stupid? Yeah. But what are you gonna do? When you're in that situation, hot & heavy with a gorgeous girl, grinding private-to-private and - oooops! - it slips in there, I don't know too many guys who have the self-control to push her off. Based on the other responses here, it sounds like my experience isn't all that uncommon.

Luckily, I didn't catch anything either time. And, yes, I was scared afterward. But, in the moment, it was insanely hot and felt ridiculously great. And, yeah, I've been back to see both girls again and again.

Is that why some providers do it? Guess so!

Maybe because I make my living in a "worst case scenario" industry or have had certain life experience, but I just don't get carried away to that degree.

I hope you and your lady friend are both OK and that neither of you make this a habit.  Remember, it's called gambling because you could lose.  

What about the fact that you could end up making her pregnant ?

Are you prepared to be a father of her kid ?

I don't you will have a problem paying child support after seeing one of your posts.

I don't think you will have a problem paying child support after seeing one of your posts.

not unusual at all if you have been hobbying for a while, it's bound to happen.  the provider will always say you are the only special one she does it with, don't believe it.  happens more often with higher price GFE types than high volume low priced providers in my experience.

So how is this all the provider's fault?  Where did you abdicate all responsibility for your own actions?

"Nature took over", is a bad excuse.  

You were already engaging in risky behavior doing the "privates to privates massage" and then you turned it up another notch with actual penetration.  

Yes the provider should share some of the blame for what happened but you should shoulder half of that yourself.

and make sure to include her current contact info.









Just kidding. couldn't resist that one...

HH

Me, too, and, being a doc I should know better.  It's happened to me a few times in the past year, and with well-reviewed providers.  It's the Deep Dark Secret of this game.  And don't be fooled if she says she gets tested monthly.  If she's doing BBFS she could have picked something up the day before.  Do what you want to do, but don't kid yourself about it.

Yup. Eyes wide open. If I catch something, I catch something. I'll go see someone in your profession, try to get it fixed, and hope it's not a lifetime issue and/or not fatal. Worst case scenario ... well, at least I had a lot of fun before checking out!  

Indeed. I'd like to scold her in person sometime! Bad girl!!  

an accidental pregnancy is not far fetched. most of the clients on here are 100k salary bracket so i assume you have money to blow off for regular visits. assuming this is a price provider i'm quite sure she is aware of your finances if you been a regular for at least a year. thats a quick way out the game. child support. i mean really how you gonna explain that to the judge? "your honor she was an escort that just got carried away"? ain't that much "Fun" in the world. it ain't worth it.

That's true. But it's also true that guys who make 100k-plus, myself included, are very employable and have lots of job options, including gigs that take you outside jurisdictional lines. Babymama might have a hard time tracking me down, if it ever came to that!

Whos is she?  I must go see her and tell her what a bad girl she is and then personally show her how BBFS can lead to creampies............