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Re: Distribute the blame?
firelocks See my TER Reviews 2470 reads
posted
1 / 28

It happens once in a blue moon ,but it does and can happen for a provider to recieve a scathing call from the wife or GF of a Hobbyist. How do you guys handle it  ever happens to you? I recently had a guy call me  and tell me to "talk to his wife,we've been found out." WTF??? I understand about distributing the blame  evenly but was there ever a "us"  Does this  sound crazy to you guys and how many of you guys would do this?

will645 19 Reviews 896 reads
posted
2 / 28

He's been found out.  He sees hookers.  He's not having an affair.  You are just (one of the) the hooker.  

Posted By: firelocks
It happens once in a blue moon ,but it does and can happen for a provider to recieve a scathing call from the wife or GF of a Hobbyist. How do you guys handle it  ever happens to you? I recently had a guy call me  and tell me to "talk to his wife,we've been found out." WTF??? I understand about distributing the blame  evenly but was there ever a "us"  Does this  sound crazy to you guys and how many of you guys would do this?

Back_In_Black 904 reads
posted
3 / 28

He should move in with you. Seriously, and if a true mangina your now a couple ( of what ,who knows) but you ladies created him so he's yours. A real man lies ! Yeah they do and their good at it. Now the up side is ( there really is none) is he'll continue to shill for you. And he can play tough like the guys escalade sees ? Hmmmm or dies he .I mean how does 1 know its he bf or hubby. And what's 5150 I don't do drugs. Well gd luck .

MasterZen 34 Reviews 746 reads
posted
4 / 28

You're not to blame, if there isn't an "us". Thus, there is no distribution of blame - other than what falls squarely in his lap. I don't know the specifics, but it's one thing for him to tell the So about you and quite another if she discovered is "references" on a website. Sorry to hear you're caught up in his drama.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 765 reads
posted
6 / 28

go over and see his wife, and tell her to keep her hands off your client.

Be sure to record it and put it up on You Tube.

Here's the skinny on 5150

joebunda90 12 Reviews 670 reads
posted
7 / 28

Sorry if I sound harsh, but....  This dude needs to seriously cowboy up.  What he did was not "sharing" blame, but trying to shift it all to you.  He did not have the balls to look his SO in the eye and say "yes I did it".  What comes after that for him is HIS business, not yours.  If he sincerely apologizes and they patch things up, or if he moves into a motel while she hires a lawyer has NOTHING to do with you.  He made a choice, he knew the risks (or should have), and he needs to own it.

It would be like getting caught speeding, calling the Lexus dealer, and saying "talk to this cop, we've been found out".

sexymarafouru See my TER Reviews 846 reads
posted
8 / 28

I dated a cop, I'm not one.  And, I don't have personal experience just stories passed on to me

Back_In_Black 798 reads
posted
9 / 28

I'm relieved your not 5/0. But do have have a pair of cuffs ? Could be fun.xoxo

Posted By: sexymarafouru
I dated a cop, I'm not one.  And, I don't have personal experience just stories passed on to me.  
   
 

Back_In_Black 691 reads
posted
10 / 28

What is going on here. And he calls the lawyer to sue Toyota the owner of Lexus. Crappy cars by the way. The Germans lost the war but won the auto battle along with the Italians. Have a nice weekend

1192967 45 Reviews 827 reads
posted
11 / 28

...this is on him all the way not you. He said, ..."we've been found out". Wtf! We who? He saw an escort not had an affair.

I am not married (divorced) so this isn't an issue for me but Ain't no way way I would have called or let her call in a situation like this.

Back_In_Black 623 reads
posted
12 / 28

He didn't go through with it. He couldn't perform . He kept saying he loved you. He couldn't get hard .it was like a fruit roll up unrolled ,flat. And he's taking you to Lexus ( now we know y, the pedal get stuck ). So make love not war. Bet this guy had ONE phone and some fucked up apps. Well gd luck.

sexymarafouru See my TER Reviews 753 reads
posted
13 / 28

For what it's worth for the longest time I thought 420 was referencing an interstate or route and wonder if I was near it to be considered friendly!  LOL, I find it much easier to score Grey Goose at the liquor store so I have no need to look for anything else.

Back_In_Black 686 reads
posted
14 / 28
firelocks See my TER Reviews 642 reads
posted
16 / 28

Posted By: Back_In_Black
He should move in with you. Seriously, and if a true mangina your now a couple ( of what ,who knows) but you ladies created him so he's yours. A real man lies ! Yeah they do and their good at it. Now the up side is ( there really is none) is he'll continue to shill for you. And he can play tough like the guys escalade sees ? Hmmmm or dies he .I mean how does 1 know its he bf or hubby. And what's 5150 I don't do drugs. Well gd luck .
5150 is code  in LE and ER for a nut case...and  no way is he moving in with me,he can stay with that battle ax hag who called me..ug I can see why he cheats,she alsomentioned he will now have to go to his jewish mothers grave site and tellher what he did. WFT???!!! Norman Bates in Pscyco,this man needs to grow a pair....creepy creepeton all the way!!

firelocks See my TER Reviews 680 reads
posted
17 / 28

Posted By: MasterZen
You're not to blame, if there isn't an "us". Thus, there is no distribution of blame - other than what falls squarely in his lap. I don't know the specifics, but it's one thing for him to tell the So about you and quite another if she discovered is "references" on a website. Sorry to hear you're caught up in his drama.
My thoughts too and how weird the wife said shes taking him to his  jewish mothers  grave site to tell her what he did.LOLThe mother is dead and probably was cheering him on for getting some tail.I truly believe you let goof allyour earthy judgements when you hit the big sky and see things from a different persective,like getting tail from hot chicks is brownie points time

firelocks See my TER Reviews 594 reads
posted
18 / 28

Posted By: mrfisher
go over and see his wife, and tell her to keep her hands off your client.

Be sure to record it and put it up on You Tube.

Here's the skinny on 5150
LMAO Love it BTW on the phone she was calling me a whore and her husband a "really nice guy" LOL  it doesnt get any better than that.

hotplants 825 reads
posted
19 / 28

has already pulled out a virtual revolver...pointed it at his foot, and cocked the trigger. When he blows off his own toe and wakes up his wife in the process, this is not your problem. Ignore, and block any future calls

escalade1964 65 Reviews 662 reads
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20 / 28
Back_In_Black 592 reads
posted
21 / 28

And photos ? Of that is , we already saw his. Xoxo

Back_In_Black 665 reads
posted
22 / 28

For granted. Work hard , provide and live in exile in their own homes.subjected to frumpy women bitching and complaining . There is a reason getaways are offered by travel agencies, to bad wives don't take time to book them for themselves and their SOs. Just sayin

Posted By: hotplants
has already pulled out a virtual revolver...pointed it at his foot, and cocked the trigger. When he blows off his own toe and wakes up his wife in the process, this is not your problem. Ignore, and block any future calls.  
   
   
   
   
   
   
 

hotplants 716 reads
posted
24 / 28

rrange for a getaway for the two of them, he never would have been sneaking around in the first place. So there wouldn’t have been anything for his wife to be pissed off about. Hence, no need for him to call a provider and ask her to explain the situation to his wife.  

Is that blame shifting strategy documented in the hobbiest handbook?

‘Cause that’s good. If a wife isn’t already pissed-off enough to want a divorce after catching her husband seeing providers, telling her it’s actually all her fault because she didn’t plan a vacation getaway should seal the deal....lol...

Back_In_Black 597 reads
posted
25 / 28

Here by guys about what they want from their wives.it takes 2.now am I going to say all men here who r married won't cheat ? No but what I am saying is if he couldn't get hard because the Mrs. Kept him drained he wouldn't cheat (as much) and married women use the pussy like a hidden treasure. Its out there until the ring goes on then they bury it. I've had relationships sour when the well was used as weapon. Fuck that or not.

Posted By: hotplants
 
  arrange for a getaway for the two of them, he never would have been sneaking around in the first place. So there wouldn’t have been anything for his wife to be pissed off about. Hence, no need for him to call a provider and ask her to explain the situation to his wife.  
   
 Is that blame shifting strategy documented in the hobbiest handbook?  
   
 ‘Cause that’s good. If a wife isn’t already pissed-off enough to want a divorce after catching her husband seeing providers, telling her it’s actually all her fault because she didn’t plan a vacation getaway should seal the deal....lol....  
   
       
       
       
       
 

VanessaDarling See my TER Reviews 662 reads
posted
26 / 28

I was seeing a client that had actually become a pretty good friend and he had discussed with me a few times that his wife was 5150/ Pink Padded Cell Crazy / Nuts. Through phone records she traced the number he had been calling to my address.

To make a long story short, his wife shows up banging on my front door. I asked who it was and she said ---'s wife. I almost ---- myself! She was screaming at the top of her lungs if I didn't open the door she was going to tell all my neighbors (own my home in a Mr. Rogers/Desperate Housewives Style new community) that I am a Prostitute! So in a panic (feeling like my possible life was in danger) I open the door, grab her by her throat and literally drag her through my living room, kitchen and into my garage, all the while choking her as hard as I could. I let go of her neck and she started swinging at me and a full blown fight ensued. This felt like forever and well, I guess I can't even describe the things that were racing through my mind. I was able to basically wrestle her down to the ground and pin her arms down.

She then began to beg me to let her go and that she would never bother me again. I was thinking "Oh God, I really don't want to have to explain this to anyone!" Especially the cops! I got off of her and we both just sat there completely out of breath, exhausted and sweaty. The rest of the story is so long but moral of the story... Providers watch out for what can be traced back to your personal life!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 620 reads
posted
27 / 28

Posted By: Back_In_Black
I'm relieved your not 5/0. But do have have a pair of cuffs ? Could be fun.xoxo  
   
Posted By: sexymarafouru
I dated a cop, I'm not one.  And, I don't have personal experience just stories passed on to me.  
     
 

justanillusion 695 reads
posted
28 / 28

After that fight did you kiss and make up? Sorry I could not resist. Yeah, that would be very scary.

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