For those of you married gentlemen who like to book longer sessions, do you ever worry about being seen by a friend, relative, colleague, etc., while out on a dinner date with a companion? Do you only do dinner dates when traveling to avoid this?

Sure being caught is obviously a huge reason not to do a dinner date where you live.
Also for me seems like a huge waste of money.
I'm PAYING YOU to eat AND PAYING for WHAT you eat!!
Absolutely crazy thinking.

If a client is married, doesn't want to get caught, and does a dinner date with an escort on his home turf, he's legit an idiot. Personally, I don't even think this is a good idea when out of town, but at least the client is using some sense in not trying to be caught. But IMO, if he wants a dinner date, get a hotel and room service.

Room service only

For one, most dinner dates in this world involve private time before or after the meal, so you’re not just handing her money to eat with you unless that’s your thing. Escorts sell our time, so every minute you spend with us is paid whether sex happens or not. That’s what sets us apart from prostitutes.

You know that some people hire escorts for companionship not just the sex, right? Just because you don't subscribe to this thinking doesn't mean it's "crazy".

Because I am single I do not mind PDA. If you need discretion, or have an SO I prefer to entertain behind closed doors. We can make food arrangements. I usually cater to people who play when traveling, or out of town. I have never dated anyone in my city after residing here for almost two years.

j86568 are you here just start a problem?
Most of us here see escorts for sex so this message obviously is not for those who don't.
Also my statement says "Me" and "I" several times meaning I'm talking about how I see things.

I'm single (who would put up with me fulltime, right? Lol), but since I always book two hours for repeats, many of the regulars I have had through the years have gone out to dinner with me after a session OTC.  I took one OC provider to my favorite restaurant in San Diego, "Mr. A's" (about 60 minutes from South OC where I live), and as we sat there enjoying our cocktails, she told me to look to the side at a couple that walked in and said the guy sees her now and then, and he was with his wife because he showed her a photo once.  She didn't do anything to acknowledge the guy, but the next thing we knew, his wife was headed for the ladies room and he walks over to our table, and says, "Hi, XXXX", addressing her by her working name.  Well, she was embarrassed, but I wasn't, so I put out my hand, said, "Hi, I'm Joe.  I saw you come in and since you know XXXX, why don't you and your lady friend join us for dinner?"  He nearly freaked out stumbling for an excuse, but just mumbled, "they have already seated us over there."  Then I said, "In that case, we will probably finish before you, so we will join you at your table on the way out and offer you dessert and coffee, and you can introduce us to your lady".   Needless to say, when he met his wife back at the table, he helped her put her coat back on and they walked out.  We laughed every now and then throughout dinner.  To this day, I have no idea why the idiot came over to say hello to her while he was with his wife.  

Maaaaan. We fuckin! I can't be eatin no dinner before sex. Get all crampy and gassy. Food stuck in my teeth. Can't eat anything with garlic in it. GTFO!

with another man!

Umm, I don’t think you belong here. Iykyk.

Sweetie. Darling. Honey. The problem with the written word tends to be that sarcasm gets lost in translation. We now live in a world where snowflakes like yourself get triggered by the slightest comment they deem outrageous.

Is when weitas dont utilize the few spanish words they know correctly.  

Years ago, had dinner with a provider in a trendy and crowded Soho restaurant.  We had a great time, lots of PDA, lots of laughing, lots of liquor.  

It sounds like fun and I've thought about it. End of the day the risk is just to high. I have a select few high end providers or long time ATFs I would seriously consider doing this with. Never with a new meeting. However they are a few girls I get along with well enough that I would try it.    

and tend to see companions when traveling. So no, I do not typically worry about being seen at dinner with a companion. Similarly, closer to home I will generally meet in a nearby city (Baltimore and Philly are both about 45-60 minutes away); I have found this to be far enough to have very little concern of being seen by someone I know.

... for the obvious simple reason that I do not make dinner dates with escorts.  

Why would I go out to eat with a hooker?

Wow you’re so hilarious, I’m on the floor screaming.😐😐😐

The View from 'Mr A's' is one of the best in town. It's too bad the city has cut off some angles of it with new buildings.
Chef Voitzwinkler, has massive talent and the service is top notch. Great view and very cool place to watch the 4th of july big bang boom. Of course there are other restaurants  that are closer to the water, taking into account the amount of people there for the 4th,, getting out is alot easier if you watch it from Mr A's  

Huh?  I must have read your post too fast.  I missed the part where you were with a Provider and met someone you knew.  Or are you just shilling for the restaurant???

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But you can't sit out on the terrace in the hot summer months or you can smell the sea lion shit on the rocks below.  It's not as good as Mr. A's, but eating indoors offers good food and a great view of the bay.  The Eddie V's in Newport Beach near my home recently closed, but the chef there was not of the same caliber as La Jolla.  My favorite place to take the ladies in OC is Ocean 48 at Fashion Island.  Terrific seafood, and the largest and freshest raw bar you will find in the area.

Ok.  Why would a hooker want to go to dinner with me? It does go both ways

If you’re paying for her time and meal and being respectful, absolutely. Getting paid for a free meal and talking is peak.