I can’t help, but notice some people think 🤔 providers are sitting around waiting hot & ready. I personally am never 👎🏽 available now. I need to do my own vetting it is not an easy process for those who don’t supply the necessary information in one email. 📧 I may have to drive to you, or get a hotel to accommodate an incall request this takes time. The actual time it takes to physically & mentally prepare for a date is the fun part. Hair and make up = more time to prepare. If you don’t do theses things your score here on TER will be greatly reduced when meeting a new friend for the first time.

you complain a lot. maybe it's time to retire.

I actually didn't see any complaints in what seemed (to me) to be a pretty reasonable post.
Takes all kinds, I guess.

Well maybe not a complaint about an individual, but just your run of the mill whining.

Caretaking responsibilities, work obligations outside of companionship, the type of incall, and a variety of other reasons might lead a provider to having an additional fee for a shorter notice date. I agree Bia, it all depends on the particular circumstances different companions are taking into consideration when determining if they can even be ready within hours of receiving an inquiry.

She has REALLY gotten under your skin! Bro, don't let anyone own you like that. On another note, will you be evicting QB from living in your head, and if not, will you at least begin to charge her? lol.

This general topic comes up every now and then.  
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Basically, the guys know that THEY have to prepare for a session. Maybe they have to reschedule a work meeting or adjust some other time sensitive events on their schedule (dinner with friends). Most guys know that they might have to shower and clean up before heading out for a session (stop at the gym to clean up before heading out). Some guys might have a regular routine of a haircut and maybe even a mani-pedi or other stuff. (Some gentlemen on the 60 and Over Board might have to pop a pill do some other preparation.)  If they can only arrange a session "at the last minute" (e.g., with a touring Provider about to leave town or text or email from a Provider about a last minute opening due to a cancellation) they might have to adjust their schedule to get to their barber and so on. And then there is transportation to the meeting place: some guys travel a couple of hours to get to a session.  
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Basically, we all know our regular schedules and what we have to do to accommodate our special interests.  We also know that SOME Providers do not seem to be aware of OUR scheduling issues and are not always prompt or on time. ("What's the big deal? I'm only 30 minutes late." Sometimes, it IS a big deal!)
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On the flip side, QB's post is a reminder that many Providers "are [NOT] sitting around waiting hot & ready." There are exceptions: AMPs, KMPs, AAMPs, agency girls who set up in a hotel for a multi-hour period, etc.. But many indies, like QB, need time to arrange their schedules and prepare.
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Each side of the coin (M, F) needs to be aware and respectful of the other side of the coin.

It all comes down to communicating and not assuming. Be it the provider or client. We all have lives and routines. Anyone can be making sacrifices or adjustments. Anyone may actually be available on short notice, while someone else is not.

I've become convinced that QB is somehow remunerated by TER for just keeping conversations going. But hell, I suspect that CDL and a few others are too. Why else would they spend every waking moment on a prostitution board?  

to be "sitting around waiting hot & ready" because it might mean her last customer just left a few minutes before I arrived, and obviously didn't get HER across the finish line before his time was up.  

I’m at the top of my game. Why would I ever retire again? I had the deed to my home and lived debt free retired for years before making a major comeback this is too fun to ever quit. I love my TER haters! 😊

I don't want to accuse without any evidence. Some people always spend lot of time here.. Even back in the good old days.  I have a small business to run.. I can't spend that much time here. Some people might be retired. More time on their hands.  Some suck cock for living.. Again, more time. LOL

Not as bad as you make it sound, but I do dislike seeing her name on the boards. I know it's some flavor of nonsense a 9 yr old would post...  What a low IQ individual.

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It takes a provider to prepare?  

All ongoing things like nails, etc......I would imagine 30 to 40 minutes between appointments would provide time to recoup after a session....basic like---shower---get cum cleaned up----also depends on how busy she has been-----should always schedule sufficient time between appointments to take care of necessities!    

I spectated at one with my ATF after a session while she prepared for the next one.  Squatted down in the tub, run the water and splash a bunch of it up over her cunt while she chatted away. I never was with her to find her less than clean though.

Depends on a provider. Not every provider is the same

I hate wearing make up, but I spend time painting my face because it improves my appearance to some people. Depending on the client I
May have to prepare physically & mentally prior to playtime. We are all so very different yes indeed.

I do not need to paint my face. Just put a bag over my head.

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a hand-held wand in the shower/bath rather than a fixed shower head.  It speeds the clean up after the session.

In addition, put on a sexy outfit as requested by the client, or use your own judgment.  

As a man, you simply have no idea how long it takes me to get ready. The majority of clients expect more than just “don’t smell bad”. I’m not planning on showing up unshaven with no makeup and wet hair to an appointment.   It takes me longer than 1 hour to get ready for my civilian job and I put more time and attention into preparing for a date with a client.

Except for not walking through the lobby in lingerie, outcall providers typically show up ready to go except for 5 minutes in the bathroom to change into something sexy and freshen their breath.  If a provider showed up without her makeup and hair done and said she needs an hour to get ready, I'd hand her a C-note for carfare and send her packing for wasting my time, but I have never had this happen, so my proposed reaction is academic.  

When I said "travel to hotel," I meant for the providers who plan to use the hotel as an incall, not for a provider going to an outcall. I have no experience with that as I have not yet booked an outcall (as I mentioned).

The girls come to your hotel room. Same thing in Costa Rica and Panama.

That could be a personal preference.  

...or car dates, you're right!  Strictly outcall...except otherwise, of course.  

I suppose there may be a few who do incall. But I've never come across one. Of course, it's been about ten years since I've been to Sin City so perhaps things have changed, though I haven't heard anyone say so.
I don't do car dates.

I can confirm that indeed incalls do exist in Las Vegas. I had an incall once in Las Vegas. All the rest though were outcall.

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....you're wrong about, lol.  Get a comfy chair and grab a Snicker bar, might be a while once you start being honest with yourself.

But now....

Which is exactly why I used them on him all the time. Just to piss him off.
I do exactly the same thing now with certain other board clown boys.

"Of course, it's been about ten years since I've been to Sin City so perhaps things have changed, though I haven't heard anyone say so."  Inicky46, 2025

All the things you cite, while true, have ZERO to do with the status of Outcall vs. Incall. And you seem to have missed the fact that others on this thread with more recent experience than me have confirmed that Outcall is still prevalent.
Why hasn't anyone told snafu that stepping on a rake is still better than sitting on one?

But he was a fan of saying "go fuck fuck yourself" when he was shown to be wrong about something

in vegas for 10 years.  Lot of incall available there.  I'm  out there 3-4 times a year and because I'm usually next door with other company personnel, most of my fun is by incall and not just K-orgs.  

Las Vegas is a unique market. I imagine its mostly outcalls because most clients will be on the strip, most clients will be tourists with their own hotel room, clients don't want to leave the strip and getting an apartment or condo on the strip is expensive. It just makes sense to show up to the clients hotel room. I doubt most clients are going to be willing to take a taxi to a Henderson Incall location. That being said some established ladies have an incall space and offer it as an option.

I hope to go back to LV at some point and I'd like to get to try that. Thanks.

Are you aware of how big the convention business is in vegas?  There's dozens of reasons dude in vegas on biz don't want to bring an escort into their room.  There's a long list of escorts that offer incall.  "I imagine" is where you veered off course.  Just as you doubt most clients don't want to take a cab to Henderson, they also don't want to their fellow worker seeing an escort walking into or out of their room either, or meeting her in the lobby to walk her up.  

....You began with the ridiculous statement that vegas is strictly outcall and now you're arguing that based on others speculation that outcall is still prevalent.  

Because you completely mis-understood my above post or you are just lying about it. I tried to give you an olive branch but now you can just.....