Since we posted deal breakers below, what are some of the things that would make you see one lady over another?  Here are mine.

1. Good board banter.  A lady who is playful and interactive on the boards, will tend to be in person as well.  I love the flirty exchanges.

2. Reviews. Consistent reviews with good performance marks.  Appearance is subjective and means less to me.

3. Good website.  Clear pics, clearly posted rates and some articulate content that lets me know that we will be able to converse a little before and after.

4. The absence of my deal breakers, which totals two.

Ladies, what are some of the things that make some guys your ATF's?

1) Long/ formal emails- it gives me a sense of what he does for a living, his age, and his personality.

2)Guys that actually have read my website and reiterate that in the email.

3) Men that show up on time

and the biggest one!!!!

4) Great conversation followed by great play!

Two communication. A lady being willing to schedule future appointments. Clear headedness by her during phone or email conversations.

see me a second time,  then a third, then a fourth, etc,  etc.

and you can have a third and fourth and fifth and......

You sound like my type. Maybe we should talk