Curious what the best way to catch a lady's attention  is in sending emails... I always have been curious and would love to know how many emails you ladies receive in say a day.
I don't want to be passed over or trashed!!
What should the subject  of the email be to catch your attention to read further and  hopefully  lead to your reply and then some?

Don't be cute. If you put in your subject line:

I'm your stud-muffin, Tabu!!

I'm going to think you're crackers or a 15-year-old boy.

If you put:

Possibility of appointment March 3 at 8pm?

I'll open YOURS first!

Successful providers' mailboxes are afloat every day with:

"Wishful thinking" emails (When will you be touring to Sitka, Alaska?)

"Maybe her IQ's dropped" emails (You don't know me but I'm in Room 178 at the Day's Inn; can you be here in a hour?)

"Please get me off" emails (Hey, baby, I've got a big hard one for you. Can you handle my 10-incher? Call me now!)

"I'm a cop or clueless or both" emails (Do you offer BBBJ, multiple shots and can I bring a buddy?)

and so on....

My advice-- be pleasant, business-like and think about the impression you're making.

After all-- your first letter is like a first interview. Make it count!


kisses,

Tabu of Hollywood, FL

Very good advice, Tabu.  I did have a 'hard' time reading it while trying to keep my eyes off of your gorgeous picture you added to the post.

Thanks for the info and the view.

Swim

Well said. I'm going to be much more likely to respond to your email right away if you include ALL the verification information I ask for, specify where you are and the day and time you'd like to see me. If you include all that information and I know that I will be available when you requested, I'm going to not only get back to you, but I'm probably going to go ahead and pencil you into my calendar.

EDIT: And honestly, I rarely ever pay attention to the subject line.

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I'm very interested in this topic as I emailed a well reviewed provider in Tampa last week using her form, making sure to fill in all the specifics - date/time, etc., with 48 hours notice. No comments other than my TER handle, white-list reference, and date-check reference, and didn't hear a thing back from her.

I've had good luck keeping it simple, just by putting, "Date Request," in the subject line. That seems to get the lady's attention. Then just be sure to give all the information she asks for, always, always be polite and respectful. A brief description of yourself might be a good addition.

Great! Thank you all for the  good advise
I bet my mail box will be soon over flowing with responses!

If the lady has a contact form on her website, fill it out.  Follow any contact instructions she specifies on her site.  Put "appointment request" in your email title and specify date and time so we know you are serious.  Be a gentleman.

Emails likely to get ignored (at least by me):
-one liners
-"Can you come now?" at 2am
-being explicit

I got me a big tool... and I wanna see if you can handle it (if ya knows what I mean!).  

I was hoping that you would be touring Moosejaw Alaska in Jan or February?  I think you would enjoy seeing me and as we have raised almost half your fee, we were wondering since when you come you wuold be in a place you have never been before if you would give a 50% discount as you could count this as your vacation.

Please call me at 123-456-7890 so that we can further our acquaintance.  There are 6 of us here who think you are real good lookin and we were wondering if you do bukake... Law enforceement should not be a problem as the only hotel in town is over the deputy's office.... (but he is one of the six)

We would like you to wear a bikini as we would love to see your hard nipples... when we "do it in the snow"!  do you like that?  

So when can you cum... git it?

Oh, you did meet up with me in 2003 when I was a working as a taxi driver - in LA and you got into my cab... I remember that so well cause you were so purty... and afterwards I smelled your smell for a long time... in my cab...  I think you will remember me too as you commented on the boil on my neck... and you seemed to like the card I gave you cause you said you would keep it always....   so when can we get naked and ....


yours always...

Big Tool

Dear provider,

I would like... blah blah balh...

I am a 60ish fat balding white guy with flaky pasty skin....  I usually remember to trim the nose hairs.. but I do forget at times...   I fart a lot and sometimes don't always get junior out of the pants before I pee... so...

yea.... I'd get all hot and bothered over that... get me some.

I got bushy, uncontrollable hair, a multicolored beard, one green eye, one brown, I'm old, and I'm so skinny that I only have one side.

well, i have to be the odd girl out and say that i ALWAYS instantly delete any email from a new person stating a "date request" or that he'd like to get together on X date at X time. that's just way too cold and business-like for my taste, and as this is not a job for me but rather a passion, i'm looking for gents who are on that same page. something like

"hi, my name is Bob, i'm a 46y.o. MWM, in (my general area). i saw your ad on (site) and it really touched me. i work hard on a stressful job, take good care of my family, and no one ever takes care of ME anymore. i'd love to have the opportunity to meet you sometime and be pampered and catered to and worshipped...just feel like a man again. give me a call and let's talk."

oh yeah, i'm definitely responding to that one! i want to be able to tell that he's actually interested in me as a person (i.e. read my ad and fits my requirements and interests), and the unique sort of service that i provide, NOT some guy who just saw a hot photo and clicked.

We dudes... Do actually read your websites (or at least some of us do...).  See the response below by me on FloraFauna's web site.  heck, forget the sex, I just think that she is way cool... that is putting a lot of herself "out there!"

I have traveled to meet providers who I have casually flirted with on this board... after going to their web site and reading their words... so the hot picture helps... but there are a lot of hot pictures on the web....

but the reason for the quick business like e-mails are - simply what I expect in MY BUSINESS....  if someone writes to me and says... I'm networking to get a better (or better paying) job... and I was wondering if we could speak - I am much more likely to talk to that person than the suck up who writes...   "I came across your name in the Gazette and was truly impressed.... and I am now going through... our company was.... and did you know so and so????  and so on and so so.... "

I just don't have the time so those that don't waste my time... well - they get first priority.

That is only what I would put in the subject line. I do make a point of writing a nice little note about who I am, when I might like to meet the lady, and always mention the website that made me contact her in the first place. I do LOTS of research, and never, ever just click because of a hot picture. I contact ladies largely because of something they may have said on their sites, as well as the way they look.

oh, i realize the smart guys do actually read our websites and ads. but there's nothing about a down-to-business type email that would let me know that. also, i realize that the way i operate in this hobby differs drastically from the norm...most providers likely will respond to a first email from a guy asking if he can book an apt. mar. 8 at noon, because the bottom line is that it IS a business for most of these women. but it is not a business for this lil chickadee, i put a great deal of passion, care, time, energy and thought into serving the men who see me for no other reason than simply because i feel it is my natural place to do so, and it fulfills me greatly to provide such a service to those who NEED it. so, i have no reason to respond to an email like "i'm Bob, here are my references and stats, would like to book mar. 8 at noon." i don't know what Bob needs or desires, what Bob is looking for, what led Bob to me in particular, or whether or not my personality and type of service would be compatible with Bob's personality and needs. it's not unusual for me to speak to a gent for 2, 3, 4 weeks or more before even discussing booking a date...because it takes time, conversation, email exchanges, etc., to get to know one another and and see whether or not we'd be a good fit.

now, is this the way to make six figures or keep clients steadily streaming in and out of my door? definitely not. and i quite like it that way.

First e-mail

Yo,
I just finished whacking my 12" schlong off to your hot pictures, you are soooo pretty!!!   I would love to meet you and give it to you real good baby.  I can't afford the whole donation but I am so good in the sack you probably won't charge me anyway.

Follow up

WTF! how come you haven't replied back, must be a stuck up b***h
or something.

Personally for me (since I travel to various towns), the subject line IS important.  And what I like to see in it is the name of the city you're inquiring about.  For example:  

ATLANTA
or
ATLANTA APPT

I get plenty of subject lines that say HI.  When my box is full of HI's...how am I supposed to know which ones are appt. requests and which are just there to flirt, chat, or introduce themselves for a future time?

Second thing that I like is to list (if you're not going to fill out my reservation form), the same info. I ask for in the form...such as:

a).  day, time and length of meeting you're seeking
b).  the names and info. of your references or a screening site you're on and the ID for that.
c).  tell me how to contact you.

That's a great start.  I personally, don't need a description or a picture.  

All the above cuts down on message tag.

What I would probably not respond to...would be in someone wrote in their initial email something like:  

"don't worry, I'm not a police man."
or
"I am not affiliated with the law."
or
"I have no references, and promise I'm not a cop."
etc.

Tia
from Austin

...you're Lex Luethor. Works wonders for me.

I prefer that too because I get loads of spam.

It is easy to spot

Myrtle Appointment
or
Myrtle Meeting
or
Myrtle

Instead of HI

fishnets hugs and kisses
sexymaddy