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Re: Covered vs Uncovered
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1076 reads
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I've never read a review that said BBBJ and then arrived and received CBJ. I also don't recall seeing any provider's website where specific services are listed and I would probably avoid any lady who listed BBBJ OR CBJ on her website.
Now, I have had ladies tell me that the CBJ is sometimes a judgement call that they make after meeting some customers. Obviously there can be a number of reasons for this

-- Modified on 7/8/2007 6:19:13 PM

twukdriver2364 reads

How come there are many reviews that show BBBJ and then you look at their website and it says covered? How are we supposed to know what we're going to get? It's not like we can ask on the phone or email. How do most of you deal with this? I don't care about CIM(I like it but don't need it) but can't stand a CBJ. I have notheing against a lady that only does CBJ but I don't like spending my money and then not getting what I want. Suggestions Please!

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Bostonguy571077 reads

I've never read a review that said BBBJ and then arrived and received CBJ. I also don't recall seeing any provider's website where specific services are listed and I would probably avoid any lady who listed BBBJ OR CBJ on her website.
Now, I have had ladies tell me that the CBJ is sometimes a judgement call that they make after meeting some customers. Obviously there can be a number of reasons for this

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ed2000685 reads

There are THREE basic reasons that a review mentions CBJ when her profile clearly states BBBJ

1) The profile is wrong. Maybe she started out with BBBJ and then switched to CBJ some weeks or months later. If it was mentioned on her website, I'd trust it.

2) She does offer BBBJ but the cover was at the request of the hobbyist

3) She does normally offer BBBJ but there was some question of hygiene.

If she does not refer to it on her website (and most do not) AND there is a discrepancy between her profile and reviews, then your next step is to look at all the reviews. Add up the quantities that mention BBBJ vs. CBJ. If the percentage of CBJ is low then it is most likely due to #2 or #3. If the percentage of CBJ is high then my money is on #1.

If the number of reviews is low, then you have to decide if you want to TOFTT.

It’s really all just common sense.


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marere4699 reads

I do know that some ladies switch to CBJ after learning about the risks within weeks or months after entering the hobby.. But I'd say reviews are usually pretty spot-on (haha, love the British slang)..

I personally do BBBJ for the time being, but that's not to say I won't change my mind down the road, say if I get into a serious committed relationship or decide to start a family, then it would become more of an issue to me. As is, I get checked regularly and am not too worried about it, but if someone else was in the picture my priorities might change. Also, I absolutely reserve the right to do a CBJ if someone is not clean or if there is any questionable bump or sore down there- it's not worth the risk (although I'm about 7 weeks into my "career" and have not had this issue yet; I've been lucky to see very clean and respectful gents thus far!)

XoXo,
Marea

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IMALLIN414 reads

If it is critical to you, then put it to her this way in an e-mail: I noticed a discrepancy between your TER profile regarding services provided and the detailed reviews. Could you please tell me which is correct? I seriously doubt any provider would be offended by that and will give you an answer. If she is not aware of the discrepancy, she may even want to correct it.

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CiaraPhx709 reads

full service or bbbj. I don't do bareback but I do bbbj.  Also, just email the provider and ask her if she likes to ride horses bareback or with a saddle, and if she prefers a raincoat for kissing in the rain. :)

Hugs,
ciara

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twukdriver635 reads

Thanx for the 2 ways to ask without offending.

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Ms. HumpAlot1039 reads

Just because she does it with 99% doesn't mean that 1% she will do it with??? ;) Remember, YMMV (your mile WILL vary) really does apply to everyone, and even to those hobbyists.

I always made that clear to everyone that I met. If I don't notice any scratches, bruises, rashes, or just anything unusual looking, then my preference is for bbbj. But, I always reserved the right to quickly slap on a cover, if anything looks suspicious. The difference is is that I was always updront and honest with my feelings, before agreeing to an arrangment, so there were no hard feelings.

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seansm547 reads

Is BBBJ from a provider a good idea? Being paranoid I figure it's a good way to get an STD. I always pick CBJ when offered the choice.

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