Very good riker! I think evry guy, at some time or another, has imagined what it would be like to be a provider.

I don't think most ladies fully appreciate the opportunity they have, simply because they have a vagina and guys are stupid.

What an incredible fantasy it is to be able to spend all day and all night having sex with attractive, interesting, successful women, while they pay me 350 an hour to bring them pleasure. Oh sure, I'd have to put up with, and put out for a few sweaty old bags now and then, but damn it would be worth it!

Working for myself, make my own hours, run my own business, see whom I choose, pull in 1.3 mil a year, cum every hour. Have sex, then more sex, woman after woman. I could retire after a couple of years, but I would never retire. No schooling necessary, no job interviews, no worry about getting laid-off, only about getting laid. Only requirement is a vagina, (breasts optional)

These ladies live this fantasy every day. Now, I know the ladies will say, "it's not all it's cracked up to be. It's hard work and you have to deal with a lot of crap." I'm sure that's true. But every provider I've spent time with has told me that their overall experience with clients has been pleasant. (except for a few rip-offs I've encountered, who bring misery on themselves.) If half of these ladies clients are anything at all like me, I have no doubt they're enjoying themselves (or at least, it isn't a nightmare for them, as they count the cash.)

Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy my life, but there's nothing I wouldn't do for a role reversal.

seething with jeleousy,
riker


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of being a working girl.  Sure the money is good, but there is a flip side.  When you are a provider/escort unless you know some really open-minded people it is very lonely.  If you meet someone outside of "work" and start to like them, what do you tell them?  It takes a very strong individual to accept the fact that my girlfriend is an escort.  Sure it is just work and you love you boyfriend as opposed to the relationship you have with your clients, but nonetheless there are times where you will have intimate contact with other men.  I am not saying it can't work but it is not easy.  By the way most women do not seeing being a provider in the same light that a man would.  Sure a guy thinks oooh great I get to bang all these women, but for a women it is a little different.  This may sound corny but sex with someone who cares if you are sick, depressed, happy, healthly, cranky, crabby, bitchy, or whether you live or die is different from hobbyist/provider sex.  I'll go one step further and mention porn stars.  Male porn stars can walk away champions, they can lead a normal existence in the corporate world.  Female porn stars have a difficult time shedding that image.  The more things change the more they stay the same.  I am 27 right now and  have had some college and I am planning on going back to complete my education.  If it were not for the fact that I needed some extra funds I do not think I would have become an escort.  But let me say this, I have no regrets.  I have met some very nice men.  With that, I wish everyone on the board a pleasant day.

next time you are out in public look for the butt-ugliest, 50+ year old woman and now imagine you're an escort and she shows up at your incall with $$$ so you're gonna spend the next hour DATYing, rimming, f**king and DFKing her. It takes a special lady to make an old, fat fart like me feel like he's Brad Pitt. I couldn't do it.

I have a different take on the situation than you ... it's not all peaches and cream for guy escorts ... I know 2 male escorts and some porn guys (not referring to the stigma).  Hmmm.  you might just get tired of it real fast, especially when the men come after you or when you get lonely for a girlfriend ...

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I came to this hobby and this site about 2 years ago--before that I was under the impression that for a pretty girl, escorting was a way to earn "easy money".   After reading posts on these boards, hearing stories form some of the girls in person or in the chat rooms, etc, I now see how wrong I was.

I for one, know that I could not hack it as a provider.  It involves far more than just "getting paid for having sex".

Dear 2k1

You nailed it.  Sometimes it's so hard being a provider and hearing about what an easy job we have; we usually dont talk about the stuff that comes from the angry jealous men who want to hurt us.

Thanks for the post.  I know that you didnt write it for me, but it makes me feel better, anyway.
 
xoxo
FF

Pssst.  You are such a beast.  You like women, dont you...can we meet under the bleachers where I can do bad things with you?? A man who LIKES women is such a turn on!!! Yowee!

...and thank you for the "beast" reference (I'm feeling very virile right now).

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oooh and can I at least watch?

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I couldn't have said it better myself.

..in your post you asked "You like women, don't you...", so my answer was "No...I LOVE women..."

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You aren't Brad Pitt?!  You had me fooled!

XXXOOO Ashley

Amen!!!

You also dont want the element of danger from LE and no goodnicks.  But as a fantasy, well yeah!  



xoxo

let's see ... to be an escort you'd need to:
-- deal with all types, including mostly upscale educated types but also the occasional unpleasant types
-- screen everyone you come in contact with
-- put yourself in constant hazard of contracting diseases
-- keep your head while your client is awash in emotion (like fear) or strong sensation (like pain)
-- be perceived as a fantasy object by everyone who knows your job
-- deal with the fantasy blame if you don't do your job exactly the way the client expected
-- face serious problems with the law if you make one bad decision
-- become emotionally exhausted by it all
-- make tons of money, have clever investments, and pay no taxes.

as far as i can tell, being an escort is probably most like being a surgeon. i have no desire to trade places with a surgeon.

If you think I'm Brad PittI have two words for you -- Lens Crafters! LOL

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