Well now, I guess you're not the asshole I had you pegged for afterall.
2. She had something going on to prevent her from taking the week off.
I presumed a drug problem.
Could I have walked away? Sure. Perhaps I should have.
At the same time, I actually don't see a value in reviewing her. Or id probably just give a mediocre review but mask the real issue. I thought she was a nice woman and didnt really do anything malicious- just desperate. Agree with you that shes not a pro yet. She's still working out her game. There's a good chance she won't stay in the business. But in the near term, my detailed negative review on top of her few will probably hurt her fledgling business a great deal. And i think she learned a lesson. While I didn't walk out, my grumbling made it clear the whole thing was not cool and I would not be returning. I don't think i'm hurting the next guy. That's my call. I do make exceptions once in a while.
This will not get ever be reviewed officially.
So, for background, she had more than 5 reviews on TER, given she lists on bp, and they were all good from longtime mongers. She also runs her own website.
She's 28 yo or so. Artist type.
I call her for a 2 hr outcall to my hotel.
First cup - she bbbjs to a pearl necklace.
It was not bad. I was impressed when she aggressively walked in and pushed me down on the bed to deliver it.
Little did I know there could be another reason. Still no disclosure yet.
So , I move to strip her panties and DATY (yes I do sometimes, lol).
At that point, she waves me off and says she's on her period. Wtf!
She encourages me to try the p for FS because she says it's only light spotting.
I'm skeptical but it was a first time non-civvie situation for me.
Who was she kidding? It was like the My Lai vilage in there...I ended up bagging the sheets for the maid and tipping the maid extra. That was only from trying once.
Now there's over an hour left and one hole left.
It likely would be different with a Greek provider.
On one hand, these things happen and maybe she only just learned of her issue.
However, I feel like she tricked me somewhat from doing a walk away. Guess she needed the money badly.
And i doubt i could have walked away after being two cups up. (I finished #2 in a facial.)
It's not a total loss but im curious if I could've directed things differently.
Where does the responsibility lie?
I presumed it's always a partial lemon and I'm the one left sucking it.
Anyway, lesson learned, but I hope most ladies have a better protocol for these things.
No wonder Opie was bitching about how happy Aunt Bea seemed to be
I myself do not partake in ladies that advanced.
Hear that, TS?
Not even for bitcoin.
She sounds like a broke ho who can't afford to take a week off per month, so if you went for cheap, you got what you got. I find this story a bit disgusting, but you're naive to think most hourly hookers can afford to take off that week, unless they are doing this part time. The average provider in my circle, works only 10 days per month, if that. You should have sent her on her way to be honest, and yea... write the review, because that is just plain gross. Any possible STD risk just escalated in this situation, so not only is she gross, but stupid to boot.
5 reviews does not a pro, make.
1. She's not expensive for nyc but not bargain basement - $600/2h.
2. She had something going on to prevent her from taking the week off.
I presumed a drug problem.
Could I have walked away? Sure. Perhaps I should have.
At the same time, I actually don't see a value in reviewing her. Or id probably just give a mediocre review but mask the real issue. I thought she was a nice woman and didnt really do anything malicious- just desperate. Agree with you that shes not a pro yet. She's still working out her game. There's a good chance she won't stay in the business. But in the near term, my detailed negative review on top of her few will probably hurt her fledgling business a great deal. And i think she learned a lesson. While I didn't walk out, my grumbling made it clear the whole thing was not cool and I would not be returning. I don't think i'm hurting the next guy. That's my call. I do make exceptions once in a while
Well now, I guess you're not the asshole I had you pegged for afterall.
2. She had something going on to prevent her from taking the week off.
I presumed a drug problem.
Could I have walked away? Sure. Perhaps I should have.
At the same time, I actually don't see a value in reviewing her. Or id probably just give a mediocre review but mask the real issue. I thought she was a nice woman and didnt really do anything malicious- just desperate. Agree with you that shes not a pro yet. She's still working out her game. There's a good chance she won't stay in the business. But in the near term, my detailed negative review on top of her few will probably hurt her fledgling business a great deal. And i think she learned a lesson. While I didn't walk out, my grumbling made it clear the whole thing was not cool and I would not be returning. I don't think i'm hurting the next guy. That's my call. I do make exceptions once in a while.
I'm most definitely an asshole. Lol.
Off topic, but I got irritated with this newbie with no posting history on the ny board who put up a random porn pic with just the title "approved Sunday pic". For one thing, it's sexagenarian's schtick. Wtf is this tard to do it? Then, he calls me a troll for questioning his post. anyway, he's still spouting mother jokes- guy has no debating game at all. Sounds like he's in high school. I call him chucktard
- not as good as Udolt but whatever.
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HooktardGold lets me. Lol.
Nice use of split quoting btw.
I think it is kind of you to refrain from posting a review. A detailed review like that could certainly hurt her business badly, and even if it didn't, it would almost certainly embarrass her very much.
Without any input from the provider, none of us know what really happened. It is possible that it had just started, and she genuinely didn't know how bad it was (i.e. thought it was just light spotting) or she thought you wouldn't mind. Some guys really don't think it is that big of a deal; others will freak out at the sight of a tiny spot. Most fall somewhere in-between. It's possible she may have issues unbeknownst to us that don't let her take a week off (I can think of some, not necessarily drug habits). Of course, it is also possible she just is kind of new and doesn't understand that it is definitely not something gentlemen are happy about paying for.
Either way, it is clear she needed your business very much. I just feel sorry rather than disgusted by someone in that position.
One thing that kind of sucks about getting your period (especially if you're like me and have no idea when it will come) is that it's a lose-lose situation. I had a client once get very upset when I had to cancel on him due to mine starting, but if I had showed up with it, he would have been even angrier.. Just not a fun situation for anyone involved.
I do agree that she should have let you know in advance, so you could decide whether or not you wanted to proceed. That's the only logical move, I think. A discount on the session, or more time added on would have also been a smart idea. But, I am glad you have some compassion for her and have refrained from writing a lurid review. Everyone makes mistakes, and I'm sure she now knows to stay home during that time of the week from now on.
2. She had something going on to prevent her from taking the week off.
I presumed a drug problem.
Could I have walked away? Sure. Perhaps I should have.
At the same time, I actually don't see a value in reviewing her. Or id probably just give a mediocre review but mask the real issue. I thought she was a nice woman and didnt really do anything malicious- just desperate. Agree with you that shes not a pro yet. She's still working out her game. There's a good chance she won't stay in the business. But in the near term, my detailed negative review on top of her few will probably hurt her fledgling business a great deal. And i think she learned a lesson. While I didn't walk out, my grumbling made it clear the whole thing was not cool and I would not be returning. I don't think i'm hurting the next guy. That's my call. I do make exceptions once in a while.
Wow. That is some crazy shit. I always call a date if there is a hint of a problem that might interfere with any expected point of access - it's his call whether or not to proceed.
Posting about the situation here is one way to get the message to her, but you might consider contacting her directly with your feedback. It's too late for your benefit, obviously, but you might be helping that future monger who sees her under similar circumstances!
As I posted above, I clearly expressed my discontent.
Skip the story and visit the clinic ! Unreal ..and a big WOW to her "running" her own website , knows thats an achievement ! When's the fireworks show ...
So, for background, she had more than 5 reviews on TER, given she lists on bp, and they were all good from longtime mongers. She also runs her own website.
She's 28 yo or so. Artist type.
I call her for a 2 hr outcall to my hotel.
First cup - she bbbjs to a pearl necklace.
It was not bad. I was impressed when she aggressively walked in and pushed me down on the bed to deliver it.
Little did I know there could be another reason. Still no disclosure yet.
So , I move to strip her panties and DATY (yes I do sometimes, lol).
At that point, she waves me off and says she's on her period. Wtf!
She encourages me to try the p for FS because she says it's only light spotting.
I'm skeptical but it was a first time non-civvie situation for me.
Who was she kidding? It was like the My Lai vilage in there...I ended up bagging the sheets for the maid and tipping the maid extra. That was only from trying once.
Now there's over an hour left and one hole left.
It likely would be different with a Greek provider.
On one hand, these things happen and maybe she only just learned of her issue.
However, I feel like she tricked me somewhat from doing a walk away. Guess she needed the money badly.
And i doubt i could have walked away after being two cups up. (I finished #2 in a facial.)
It's not a total loss but im curious if I could've directed things differently.
Where does the responsibility lie?
I presumed it's always a partial lemon and I'm the one left sucking it.
Anyway, lesson learned, but I hope most ladies have a better protocol for these things.
But before I could, she waved me off.
Your English is getting a little better because I kind of understood you that time.
Sort of. Lmao.
Your gagambler LR crap on the NY board is sad ....! but continue to claim to be "da man" its quite entertaining ! LOL and ROTFFLMAO !
Your English is getting a little better because I kind of understood you that time.
Sort of. Lmao.
To be compared to GaG and LR.
Must be something be being you.
Btw, funny you "like" your own posts as soon as you write them. Lol
Why would ANY providers change their "PROTOCOL"! And "YOU TIPPED THE MAID" bet she laughed her ass off and the maid too ! And enjoyed the money ! Did you make the bed too and vacuum the place ?
Want my reply ? Wtf , booked and don't need this shit . Hun , take a week off and get your act together ! Thanks for wasting my time ...l8r ..and don't worry i won't bitch , moan or write a review ...but if a guys asks I will be truthful and recommend someone else ! Thanks ...
Your English is getting a little better because I kind of understood you that time.
Sort of. Lmao.
Need the Rosetta stone to read these. Lol.
She was ON DRUGS TOO ! no your a donidiot ! Yup , new spoty ! LMAO...
Your English is getting a little better because I kind of understood you that time.
Sort of. Lmao.
Was the nope no need already took your $$$$$$ ! Yup a doniot ....
.....I you did some of her drugs blame it on that..or start taking some you need it ! I doubt your even a guy , your NY posts smelly fishy and that means a woman ..
...
Your English is getting a little better because I kind of understood you that time.
Sort of. Lmao.
It happened to me once. The lady felt bad and I was not inclined to make her feel worse. Move on.
She probably felt bad because the sponge runneth over.
Went to see my ATF.. we text almost every day..5 days before she told me that she was having her period ...Ok, time passes... I'm seeing her like 5 days later.. the night before she texts me and says she's not sure if she's done.. WTH.. I say.. I love to see her.. (she is 180 miles from me).. I get there the next day and she's fine.. I was prepared to deal with it without panic.. another time, with someone else.I reach down her thong to her crotch and she's got a pad on., she said she was finished.. just being careful.. . we are fucking later.. (of course, with condom) I look down and her bed is a mess.. That's different.. there was no DATY of course.. only women bleed..it's natural..
OK...sure hope you're paying her a shitload to deal with that bullshit. Or I suppose she just loves you?
Women do menstruate....but not when you're paying hundreds (or thousands) of dollars to fuck them. Jesus H Christ....what is wrong with some of you people? The hooker can't afford to take the week off when Auntie Flo is visiting?
Yep....HooktardGold is spot on once again with her assessment of the State of HookerLand. Did your ATF hooker pal at least discount the session? I doubt it...and you were OK with it. Sheesh!
Wasn't my ATF..I said that was soem one else.. My ATF was finished so no issues..
Women do menstruate....but not when you're paying hundreds (or thousands) of dollars to fuck them. Jesus H Christ....what is wrong with some of you people? The hooker can't afford to take the week off when Auntie Flo is visiting?
Yep....HooktardGold is spot on once again with her assessment of the State of HookerLand. Did your ATF hooker pal at least discount the session? I doubt it...and you were OK with it. Sheesh!
A pad? Who the hell still wears those things, much less shows up to a session wearing one? This is your ATF? You should just make her your GF or adopt the girl and teach her about tampons and the sponge. That's some funny shit there, boy! Reminds me of the strip search scene in Dirty Love where the cop sees her pad, and is like "What is that... a mattress?" LMAO!
I said IT WASN"T MY ATF.. it was someone else.. that's all.. the subject was all about the time of the month and I have had it hit twice in the last 6 weeks or so..
Shit happens: One time (not a plot - just a true story) a guy's cock started bleeding mid-session. He was absolutely mortified. I gave him 1/2 the fee back and we parted ways. (Turned out all the enthusiastic oral action injured his poor urethra.)
Bullshit happens: He knows he's bleeding and see's me anyways - hoping I just won't notice.
Not the same shit at all.
It was a plot.
Unless you took a bite of that kielbasa, the guy had some lurking std.
Was he excessively sensitive to your ministrations before the incident?
He might need CPA's sponge too.
LOL! He was so apologetic that he sent me the doctor's report, including STD testing. I thought he was going to do one of those skywriting messages, he was so apologetic. "S..O..R..R..Y A...B...O...U...T T...H...E B...L...O...O...D...Y B.... J...
In all fairness, it was some pretty hardcore play, and - much as I wish I did - I don't have one of those porn-star throats that a pounding kielbasa slips into without a struggle.
In all fairness, it was some pretty hardcore play, and - much as I wish I did - I don't have one of those porn-star throats that a pounding kielbasa slips into without a struggle.
Make sure to carry this in the trunk on all sessions. Then she'll have no fucking excuses.
Aunt Bea is also available for doubles. Just make sure that Nicky hasn't left that string of pearls.
Surprised no discount or concessions either.
She might have snuck it in the pooper once. I wouldn't tell. Lol.
Nicky gonna need that sponge in Vegas.
I've also got a medicine cabinet for him including the ol shoulder shot
I could fuck you up the ass with my strap on routine? lol
Just because you're the one paying, doesn't mean you only have to do what you like.
...and if you did, you could qualify as a ten. ![]()
The pooper.
Asked and answered- no.
Lol.
flows arrival. From what I understand, most ladies can judge pretty well when this will happen each month.
Where did you find this provider and was she highly reviewed?
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Do not assume all ladies know when it is going to occur, I have never known. I do let confirmed appointments know if it shows up, make them aware not everything is on the menu and let them make a decision. Of course, I don't makr any further appointments until the coast is clear.
Where did you find this provider and was she highly reviewed?
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But she had more than five legit reviews.
As I said not an established pro but she did have reviews.
I agree 100% with you and doubt the "lifelong " monger nonsense ....Your correct ...have a great new year ....l8r
Where did you find this provider and was she highly reviewed?
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I, honestly, never know. It can sometimes be 2x/month, every 6-8 weeks, etc.
I have never been able to judge, that's me and I have always had to live with it. Believe me, I have found myself in some embarrassing moments and I'm not speaking about the hobby.
For the OP, though, you should have been informed and made the decision. This just happened to me on Friday, I had 2 confirmed appointments and I wake up Friday AM and am " What the hell? " I contacted both clients and let them decide. One kept the appointment, the other choose not too. Obviously, I didn't make any other appointment. Sunday AM and I was already set to go again, some of us are just like that.
My guess is she thought she was so great at BBBJ, you would want her to keep doing that vs. covered FS.
Its happened to me several times. All with providers I knew. Fortunately their aunt arrived while we were having dinner. They always informed me of the arrival before the fun began and offered me some options. Most of the ladies I know will offer FBSM during this time if they want to continue to work. Its strange but I know what time she arrives for several of the ladies I see.
You would think in a industry where communication on these kind of thing is better she would have said something sooner.
Bad form on her part
