differentiate  

: to see or state the difference or differences between two or more things

:  to express the specific distinguishing quality of

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regulate

: to set or adjust the amount, degree, or rate of (something)

:  to fix or adjust the time, amount, degree, or rate of -regulate the pressure of a tire-

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Robert, really this is quite a simple concept... so simple you answered your own question. Robert, should be invited by Duke University, as a guest speaker on this subject.

Keep repeating a lie long enough and it takes on the appearance of truth. Fox, MSNBC, Adolf Hitler, The Salem Witch Trials, The Spanish Inquisition. All use or have used the same method of brainwashing.  
 The "Hobby" as we call it could/would have a huge impact on many social and commercial levels of our culture. Dating, courtship, engagement, marriage, children, a mortgage for a home in the suburbs with the obligatory two cars in the garage. Repeat that 100 million times generation after generation and a pretty solid socioeconomic formula ensues. The 'church' has always been about controlling the masses, subsequently it has been in collusion with every government since the pre-Mosaic period.

America was founded by Christian religious zealots. Puritanism is our history. Any capitulation showing a woman can enjoy economic independence through voluntarily selling carnal comforts, or a man can satisfy his omnipresent sex drive without signing a fiduciary contract threatens government/religious control and the many levels of the economy built around it