Manginas always talk about buying ATF holiday presents, flowers, chocolates, teddy bears, and shit. Where I work, dem dudes selling the shit gets the clients gifts not the otha way aroun. Do manginas buy gifts for dem accountants, doctors, bagger at walmart, and car salesmen too? Why pay dem and on top of dat, showa dem wif gifts, ain't that a bit pathetic?  

That your accountants, doctors, bagger at walmart, and car salesmen gave you a BBBJCIMSNNQABCDEFGHIJKLONOPQRSTUVWXYZ?  
Hmmm......
Just a thought.  

While both may enable you to plant your seed, it is there that the similarity ends between a hooker and a garden tool. Perhaps this simple rhyme the nuns taught me may help you remember:

In the civvie world, I often bring a gift for my date. I think the last time that a lady reciprocated was for high school prom.

......took a while ,  but I had a feeling NEG was seen here before......... It's the closing " Your thoughts if any ? " , that confirmed it.....along with many other bits that I'm sure everyone loves....plus I do love the over the top dialect......

I don't think anyone uses the "words" NEG typed in this thread.

Doesn't matter if it's a paid date or a civie GF. I don't want to start any superficial trends between myself and the woman I choose to spend time with.  

OTC lunches/dinners.  Unfortunately, nada from my accountant, doc or lawyer. Go figure, the gals have bigger hearts, and I appreciate them.

But personally, I don't care which one.  As for the "your thoughts if any" it's just as likely to be some minor league trickery. So what?

I'm like so what?... I'm drunk!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6y_4_b6RS8

I agree. Unfortunately, times and situations are different.

once a troll always a troll and once a mangina, always mangina.

Do I bring a gift to Walmarts for the bagger? No. Don't myself go there often, but don't gift in such situations.

But since that appears impossible...

Sounds like you are describing a real life troll.

it is exceptionally childish....

And along with outsmarting the other (which might just involve oneupmanship) is the skill of tuning into the dynamics and the changing them. Sometimes it's a game of timing--doing the wrong thing at the right time.

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Comfy for ya, babe?  
Do you prefer an electric chair instead? LO

This topic, as frequently as it comes up, has rarely actually been about the act of gift giving. Instead, it almost always comes down to the guys own issues with paying for a service. And this industry certainly takes a poke at those insecurities, if you have them.  

Wimbledon?

I don't get it either. Many of these softer guys just wanna be loved by someone and they feel like there chances are better if they shower these gals with gifts.

Not trying to burst your bubble, I am sure you are well aware that there is an exception to every rule.

he calls himself King of the Manginas.  Those who know him agree.

You put a lot of thought into your response and I appreciate it.  

Sometimes guys feel that by not showing their gentler side, women will rush to reveal it to them. They try to make themselves a challenge, just like women do when they play hard to get. It works. Even here. Of course, here it's just some lady offering to meet the poor beggar at a nominal rate so that he can "discover" what a "real" encounter can be. Of course he's had plenty of real encounters, but another "first real encounter" is like popping the cherry over and over.

Where he gets that notion, I have no idea. Every pair of shoes, every dress, every bag, every piece of jewelry, lingerie, lotion, potion, or bit of candy I have ever received has been thoroughly and utterly appreciated and enjoyed. I have never personally known a girl to be so contemptuous towards her gifts or clients (even the ones I thought were toooootal fuckin bitches), and the PO board is always celebrating one thing or another... There are cases of disrespect on both sides don't get me wrong but I think the vast majority of us fall into your line of thinking.  

Never said "every woman" sweetie. Go back and read my post. In your haste to reply, you misquoted me. I said "many." Many girls do throw away gifts. Sorry to burst YOUR bubble. Its a fact.

like "mangina" -  that's schoolboy stuff

For sayin what you mean - and owning it!

I'm not new to the game... Actually, I will refrain from even beginning that very long sordid tale of being a SW... (for now.)
Fortuitously enough for myself though, I have managed to stay somewhat sheltered from the ungrateful type of people we are discussing-  
and I do wear my rose colored glasses....  

Just viewed as an interaction between people, a unique characteristic is that it is all about the moment and each other. Except for intense pain, I can't think of anything that puts a person more in the moment, a chance to just be a human being like a seagull is a seagull. No memory, no plans, nothing else working the mind. So, IMO, it ought to be approached with trust and openness. Just being pleasant with each other beforehand goes a long way.

Hahaha

"Napal?" Huh. Hope your 'friends' don't see this. Especially if they're Gurkha's.  

I'm still waiting for the one from the other reviewer.

to think that gifts = better performance

Yes on occasion I have been known to give gifts to providers I have seen. I also give gifts to my employees, and others that render service for me. Yes, I have given gifts to bag boys and waiters as well. I believe in treating people with respect and around holidays and birthdays a small gift goes a long way in letting people know I appreciate them. It isn't a big deal.

.......you'd probably be disappointed.

The jerk-offs with the toughest alias's are usually the type that are shy and quiet mommas boys when confronted face to face.

Best response to this type of post I've ever seen.

My respect for you is doubled.  Of course you know your words are wasted on an ignorant moronic turd like NEG.  But know they have power and meaning to those of us who know what this game truly about.

I would assume to many gifts would be a burden for a provider who is traveling.

I once gave to a SW a dozen mylar balloons... I told her to release one for every guy she serviced that night. The next time I saw her, to my dismay she wasn't holding any more balloons... I asked her what happened to all the balloons I gave you?... She said I did what you told me to do... My ego was left felling completely deflated... so I asked her where is all the money you got from giving away all of my balloons?... I couldn't believe what came out of her mouth next... Get this, she says she spent my money on another dozen balloons!... The only thing I could do after that was to rock her world.