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Re: Confess it all to your wife, She will fix you ass. EOM
JLWest 146 reads
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yazmann1314 reads

So after eight years in this hobby. starting at age 48, I am heading to therapy tomorrow with a nationally recognized psychiatrist.  I am married, have built and maintained a very successful business, raised 3 beautiful sons, have a wonderful wife, and am consumed by this "hobby". At it's peak now it consumes about 6-7k per week, I see up to 5 girls, am a ridiculous tipper, and just can not say no..I have somehow managed to keep this life secret, but the emotional and physical cost is as bad as the financial...Hope I get the help I am looking for, or I can only think of one alternative. Ladies from Boston, to Vegas, Ca to Fl, mostly New England, what a mess.  Any words of wisdom welcomed....

ICallBullshit428 reads

Don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out.

I don't believe you for a fucking minute. No reviews, and your second all time post. You expect us to believe you have just been hanging around here, spending thousands per week and JUST NOW decided to post as you are entering therapy.

BULLSHIT

"I don't believe you for a fucking minute. No reviews, and your second all time post"

Don't give him any ideas . He'll be writing fake reviews next week.

Christ, I wonder if you live in a nudist colony as when would you even have the time to pull on your pants?

In any case, giving you the benefit of the doubt, and also to anyone who finds themselves addicted as this fellow does, I wish you the best.

The hobby is fun and I think it is positive for the vast majority of its adherents, but like anything else, it can be abused.

All this time...and no reviews?
Wow. Thanks for helping out the collective.

We're all happy for you, your nationally recognized psychiatrist, your successful business, wonderful wife (who you fuck around on), and that you can afford 6-7 grand a week on this little diversion.

Save the world some time.
Take the alternative.

(yeah. this should add to my fan club....lol!)

hobbyAddict271 reads

1. Get your self involved with community service.

2. Start reading the book of proverbs from the Bible, pick a chapter for the of the month.

3. Workout a 3-4 times a week with weights, swim 2-3 days a week in the pool.

Have fun and report back the results. I must warn you that if you take a break from #3 for a few days you will be wanting to fuck like a rabbit. Make sure the wife is available so you can release your sexual tension, lol.

yazmann262 reads

Posted By: hobbyAddict
1. Get your self involved with community service.

2. Start reading the book of proverbs from the Bible, pick a chapter for the of the month.

3. Workout a 3-4 times a week with weights, swim 2-3 days a week in the pool.

Have fun and report back the results. I must warn you that if you take a break from #3 for a few days you will be wanting to fuck like a rabbit. Make sure the wife is available so you can release your sexual tension, lol.
Whatever, you guys are amateurs, catchup someday,  it's a difficult lifestyle.

yazmann162 reads



Enjoy it while you can.....Someday Tiger and I will have a foursome...Right Ricky Ricardo?

hobbyAddict151 reads

I spent all my house down payment on the hobby ($51,000).

that enables you to spend the type of $ you say you spend. 6k a week 300 k a year, for how many years? I wantna be in that business. Must be recession proof business. Have you ever posted on the Erotic Highway, you know the LG answers questions for free. Good luck

ICallBullshit132 reads

I don't spend 6k a week, but I blow at least a 100k a year just traveling to hobby. Unlike the OP, I am not sniveling about it. I don't begrudge a single cent. Truth be told, I love every minute of it.

I just don't fucking believe him is all.

Why a man who can afford to blow hundreds of thousands a year on pussy all of a sudden decides to post on this board that he has "seen the light" is beyond my tolerance for bullshit.

He doesn't want to bring attention to his real user profile is what I am guessing. And yes, some people make enough money to hobby like that, I have met some and I am sure other ladies have as well, especially here in Vegas.

Seeking help for an obsession is a good step, but why post about here? Why not just follow through with the plan and begin deleting your accounts? No need to even say goodbye to all of your lady friends, we are used to it, unless you are particularly close to one of them. But my suggestion is that if you truly want to make a break for it, it's best to just do it. Talking about it is only a setup for failure.

Good luck!

How hell u do that being married, I am not married so its easier for me.yeah but 7k a week thats crazy, why tip so much,i need only 1 or 2 a week and I am younger. 5 a week is alot, why tip excessively, I know addiction you view your biz probably like hobby as business, I stayed away for 2 weeks ,i  guess I am no addict, good luck

Posted By: yazmann
So after eight years in this hobby. starting at age 48, I am heading to therapy tomorrow with a nationally recognized psychiatrist.  I am married, have built and maintained a very successful business, raised 3 beautiful sons, have a wonderful wife, and am consumed by this "hobby". At it's peak now it consumes about 6-7k per week, I see up to 5 girls, am a ridiculous tipper, and just can not say no..I have somehow managed to keep this life secret, but the emotional and physical cost is as bad as the financial...Hope I get the help I am looking for, or I can only think of one alternative. Ladies from Boston, to Vegas, Ca to Fl, mostly New England, what a mess.  Any words of wisdom welcomed....

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