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dickus 545 reads
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I'm not a big fan of cats but I respect those who are and I fully understand how attached we can get to the furry little bastages.  Kitty had a good life in a good home with people who loved her and she had the luxury of leaving the world that way.  I salute you, sir.

showmecal1956 reads

I was not going to post anymore about this but I received a pm so I thought others may be curious about how today went.

Last night my precious kitty slept with me like she always does. I am going to miss that.  I spent the morning petting her as she rested comfortably.  The vet and her assistant came to my house. My mom was here and actually my second ex came over because she spent several years with kitty and also loved her.

I got kitty and we sat in the recliner just like we do every morning and she loves that so she was comfortable from the start. The vet gave her a shot to fall asleep.  We sat and talked about her for a few minutes while waiting to make sure she was asleep. Kitty was so peaceful in my arms. She has slept like that on me so many times before:) I tell you it is that cat human bond thing, it is powerful and unique. Anway she gave her the final shot and that was that.  We all cried a little and I held her for a few minutes and she was so peaceful. It was an honor and a privilege for my kitty to die in my arms in my house doing one of our favorite rituals. I will never be able to thank the vet enough for taking the time to come out to my house for this.
It was sad, moving, spiritual, and strangely beautiful to watch her pass from this world to whatever realm of existence she went to. I know its a good one.

One more thank you to all of you for your touching stories of your pets and dealing with this. You gave me the strength to do it right and my precious kitty deserved to go out just like she did. I have a lot of adjustments to make. Tonight will be one of the few times I have slept alone in 20 years. She won't sit in the chair with me tomorrow morning. But she lives in my heart and I will find peace in that.

OK TER can return to normal. No more precious kitty posts:)

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KariPleases477 reads

Allow yourself time to grieve.  Don't be surprised if you glance up one day and see her sitting the chair. It may not really be her, but I swear my dog did that to me for years.  It was like she was just saying "hi".

Good luck to you. Remember that every day will get easier and soon you will smile more often than cry when you think of her.

Kari

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HaleyOrlando164 reads

just thinking of the memory of my cats and the empty bed I sleep in now.

Know that you will feel her in your home forever and all the wonderful memories live on with you.

Rest knowing that she thanks you for your love and kindness.

Kisses Haley

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CiaraPhx626 reads

God bless and good rest for your little fur baby!

I will be thinking of you in this moment of sorrow, thankfulness and tribute to your cat. I wish I could draw a picture and send it to you.

Hugs,
Ciara

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lungman428 reads

Been through the same thing myself.Shortly after,went out and got a kitten.It really helped ease the pain.To bad more humans don't show unconditional love,like our pets do!..Sorry about your loss.

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dickus546 reads

I'm not a big fan of cats but I respect those who are and I fully understand how attached we can get to the furry little bastages.  Kitty had a good life in a good home with people who loved her and she had the luxury of leaving the world that way.  I salute you, sir.

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h8traffic294 reads

Don't feel bad if you have a few days of second guessing yourself.  That's a natural reaction to the loss and separation.

With all the support and feedback here, and in person, take comfort in making the right decision, as difficult as it was.

The healing process is just begining, and will take some time, but it will happen.

(not a therapist)

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butterflydust427 reads

i do feel that you made the right choice... but that does not mean that it doesn't hurt, you know?  it is okay.  you are allowed to grieve.  and you post away if you are struggling with that grief... we are here for you always! *hugs*

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sweetnicole1455 reads

it is hard to make choices as we do for the pets we love at times, but you made it and you will get through this even though its difficult lonely and feels strange to be without your friend.  Feel free to post away as stated if needed we have all been there in one form or another.

Nicole

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rosemann537 reads

Sounds like you gave her a great home & a wonderful life; Think of all the kitties just roaming the streets out there..scrounging for food & trying to stay alive..

You are gonna be fine..You did the right thing..

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CDL1101 reads

No words will comfort U but Hang in There!

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livie724 reads

I had the same situation it will be 2 years this xmass. My dog had gotten cancer no chance for recovery so I did what I thought was  right. Given the dog was all about love never having a mean thought in her head she deserved to go in peace. For a long time I did as some one here stated I would see her in the form of my  blk leather coat draped across the couch and for a second I would light up thinking it was her. for a long time I missed her companionship but couldn't even think of getting another no other could replace her. The more time past the more I missed having that happy to SEE Me little thing wagging it's tail and dancing around the kitchen waiting for my touch. So  started thinking about getting an other. So given that there are so many animals in shelters longing to be loved I found not one companion but 2 (brother and sister) Didn't have the heart to separate them. It's been a year now and I would be lost with out them... You obviously  have the love to give don't let it go to waste when the time comes. Till then best of wishes for you and Kitty wherever she may be. Live.

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osirisdon126 reads

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

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Devin Taylor592 reads

but I still read the boards sometimes(I do not work anymore). Your post the other day moved me and I prayed to my higher power for you and your pet friend. This morning I will hug, talk and brush my two monsters :)even more. My heart is with you and your kitty.You did a good job. You loved and were loved back.

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AzMajicman433 reads

Never say never....

I have read about you and your "Kitty". I am sure it hurts very deeply. And my most sincere condolences are with you.

I lost my little girl awhile back. Unfortunately it was due to the Vet. and the pills he gave her.

Our little loved ones are a part of our family, and the unconditional love that they give to us is a gift from the heavens.

My "Lexi" was a 16 1/2 month old baby black chow when she died from the pill "Rimadyl" that the vet. gave her.

We will never forget our little friends and family members, and the pain does get lessened over time, but we will always remember their love and their smiles.

http://www.andrewgellert.com/lexi.html

Bless you for having the courage to share your love with all of us.

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