of hobbying end up greatly diminishing the sex with your wife / SO?

I was chatting with a fellow TER friend and his comment about not wanting to have boring sex with him wife.   Now the intense sex from a real GFE is so hot he finds her non response just easier to ignore.

Maybe she feels the same way about him

So...anybody out here just too overwhelmed with the GFE that are available?

No, the hobby has no effect on my sexual relationship with my SO.
The hobby fulfills a fantasy for me.

the change in her husband's desire for her or even sex.

This is a red flag for most women and might get them wondering if something is going on else where.

A provider should be a diversion from the norm in your relationship and hopefully doesn't interfer with your personal life at home.

It does take two to Tango...One can do the quick step while the other trips and falls..A good dance partner can teach you new moves that will work with every partner your with..Go ahead and be the dance teacher at home but introduce things slowly..

Kisses Haley

When you haven't had sex in years, it doesn't effect it one way or the other.

and even longer since we've had "intense" sex.

Over a period of years she lost interest and was very forward in admitting it to me.

However, back in the days, our sex was so intense, I have not yet had a provider experience at the same level of intensity.

I do believe it might exacerbate an already boring sex life at home, but I doubt that it would actually cause it. Of course I have a very short attention span, which is one of the main reasons I have been so happily divorced for over fifteen years now.

I am having the best sex of my life right now from my two ATF's. However sex at home became boring and unsatisfying long before I met either of my favs. The fact is it was boring before I even started paying for GFE and spent most of my extra curricular sex life parked in dark alleys and in strip club VIP rooms.

I guess everyone may have a different take but it was boredom at home that drove me to escorts. Not escorts who made me bored with what was waiting at home.

there has been little change, if any, in the sex with my SO, but if I had to go one way or another, I would say that it has gotten a little MORE intense.

The hobby is about variety for me. I want sex far too much to be able to afford the hobby to meet all my needs. I appreciate sex with my SO even more now.

K

I agree with kingofcounty. If anything, it's better with the wife. You can use hobbying to increase the variety you crave, and find that the wife is an amazing alternative. At least, if she is amazing.