I went for year without ever being bumped. Now over the past 12 months or so it has happened more than I wish. Maybe I was just lucky or maybe the hobby is getting more flaky.
And more often than not these cancellations are the day of... so, since there are so many great providers whom i have yet to see, here is how I have come to handle last minute 'bumps':
1. If she is the victim of something beyond her control; specifically, something that sounds convincing as opposed to a story having all the veracity of a fake orgasm ...for example, I had one awful situation where someone I was going to see one morning was beaten by a client the night before - she sent me the pics on her own, as i obviously would never ask... then i would absolutely reschedule
2. If it's to bump me for something more lucrative or a regular, or even a new client then I will not make another appointment with her
I don't have unlimited time for play as work keeps me pretty busy, and if someone bumps me on the same day for selfish reasons, then I'm likely out of luck play-wise for a while. It's not ego, although there's nothing wrong with having a healthy sense of self-worth - it's just that I don't have time to continually risk appointments with someone who proves to be unreliable so I will have to wish them the best and move on.
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