
Raging desire to needlessly get laid, would ANY of you mongers opt for it?
Suppose there are absolutely no significant side effects and it isn't some permanent surgical procedure, but a passive one you can control. If you really think about it, getting laid isn't a necessity and men are very much dominated by our hormones in a way that nearly took complete control over our thoughts in so many ways that we can't really explain. Do you actually know why you NEED/WANT to get laid when you aren't even looking to reproduce? It's not a necessity to hobby especially when you already have an SO or if you have a sex addiction problem that most mongers won't admit to. Food, air, water, shelter, saving up for future, and maybe even having good health are necessities. Saving some money and reducing risk of diseases could also be a good thing for many mongers. So if there was a safe natural way to tone down your raging erection every time a hot babe walks by, would you give it a try and see how much money you end up saving every monthI think they call it "masturbation." Saves me a bundle.
...that if there were a way to turn off sexual desire (in a non-invasive way like you suggest) it would save me a lot of time, money, aggravation.
I could have bought this or that, a new car, or a boat. Or saved up for something else. Then I asked myself, why am I spending as much as I am spending on escorts?
Typical answer is that it's a given and human nature. Well, so was our lifespan of 30-40 years before people started living much longer.
What would we do without y'all? Work in boring, thankless jobs for bosses that don't respect us. LOL
Keep the cialis, viagra and injections flowing!!! And, masturbation causes hairy palms, don't ya know?!
Men's "playtoy".
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J/K
Btw, the above line was borrowed from BIB.
Dear Ms. Valentine:
More than likely you would continue your education and become professionals and mainstream business women. If you asked this question 15 years ago, then you guys might become domestics or gravitate to typical occupations that women would have. However because you have become women of the underground demimonde, you now have a nice to where you can make a nice tidy sum of money while maintaining your health for business purposes. Also depending on where you are you can also write off certain expenses on your taxes as well.
Well, I have kept my day job....medical/dental/life/401k etc. I'd have to go back to cleaning toilets & vacuuming offices at night and selling my plasma. Plus, I like Stina Valentine...she's a lot more exciting and prettier than me.
More than likely you would continue your education and become professionals and mainstream business women. If you asked this question 15 years ago, then you guys might become domestics or gravitate to typical occupations that women would have. However because you have become women of the underground demimonde, you now have a nice to where you can make a nice tidy sum of money while maintaining your health for business purposes. Also depending on where you are you can also write off certain expenses on your taxes as well.
and usually called "old age"
Unfortunately the cure is much worse than the disease as it is 100% fatal, with no one ever getting out of this life alive.
and not to be a dick, but your questions are getting dumber and dumber. I am beginning to understand why you have attracted more than your fair share of detractors and outright stalkers, as this is one of the stupidest OP's I have ever seen on a fuck board. It's like wondering out loud if life would be better off without God on a Bible thumping web site.
The question is "how much does your libido inhibit your life by not giving you time to invest in family bonds, business goals and achieving your dreams?"
Sheesh! The guy was just thinking out loud. You guys need to get Laid more often to get rid of your Frustration and Anger Issues.
going broke and blaming it on the hobby.
Mostly likely, you need to see you psychologist about your issue. Venting it in here isn't going to solve your issue.
The Forest Waits
Suppose there are absolutely no significant side effects and it isn't some permanent surgical procedure, but a passive one you can control. If you really think about it, getting laid isn't a necessity and men are very much dominated by our hormones in a way that nearly took complete control over our thoughts in so many ways that we can't really explain. Do you actually know why you NEED/WANT to get laid when you aren't even looking to reproduce?
It's not a necessity to hobby especially when you already have an SO or if you have a sex addiction problem that most mongers won't admit to. Food, air, water, shelter, saving up for future, and maybe even having good health are necessities. Saving some money and reducing risk of diseases could also be a good thing for many mongers.
So if there was a safe natural way to tone down your raging erection every time a hot babe walks by, would you give it a try and see how much money you end up saving every month?
Having also begun to cut back a bit out of financial considerations, I find that I mostly miss the lifestyle that comes with hobbying.
It is a whole process that begins with making a date and getting ready for it. Then the day of the meeting and the preparations and driving to their home or hotel.
I truly enjoy the social interaction especially with those I've known for many years, and I enjoy dining with the ones who allow me that.
And yes, I can still get it up at least once (sometimes twice), and I love the physical sensations in all their many dimensions.
I find things to do on my bye weeks, but it's just not the same.
Is this an addiction? Hard to say, but it has some similarities.
Masturbation helps a little, but doesn't fill the hole, so to speak. Being on TER helps out a bit however, for which I thank you all.
It is a whole process that begins with making a date and getting ready for it. Then the day of the meeting and the preparations and driving to their home or hotel.
I truly enjoy the social interaction especially with those I've known for many years, and I enjoy dining with the ones who allow me that.
And yes, I can still get it up at least once (sometimes twice), and I love the physical sensations in all their many dimensions.
I find things to do on my bye weeks, but it's just not the same.
Is this an addiction? Hard to say, but it has some similarities.
Masturbation helps a little, but doesn't fill the hole, so to speak. Being on TER helps out a bit however, for which I thank you all.
I guess you might say that the hobby is sort of a religion for me. I find comfort and caring within it, and that's mostly what religion means to most people who follow one.
So I did two things that have improved my libido dramatically. First, I changed my diet, started exercising and got my BMI down to normal (thank you for that suggestion, mrfisher!) which gave me a LOT more energy for everything.
Next I saw my urologist and told him that I wanted a tune-up. He put me through a full lab screening, put me on testosterone, B12, D3 and a couple other things to rebalance me. He talked with me about my other meds and we tapered off a number of them that could have been depressing my libido. No problems in discontinuing any of them.
Returned me to horn-dog status, but now I have acne from the T. At least my blood pressure is where it was when I was 30.
for my desire to hobby :p
at home I've got the typical girlfriend drama to deal with - women in their late 30s have always been attractive to me but they are some of the most intensively dramatic.... it's a part of their charm but it is wearing....
with a provider I can get straight to making out and all that follows without discussing the details of the day any household drudgery or relationship drama - (and yes I do my share of the household chores and am very open supportive when I don't have a hard-on....)
I don't visit pros to talk - I get that at home :p
I will admit though that I get better head at home than with most pros- but sometimes quantity trumps quality.....
I find myself fucking everything. Yesterday, I fucked the outlet. It stung a bit but it was an electrifying experience. The day before, I fucked the pillow and the water bottle. rofl jk
I spent a bit too much on escorts the last few months... So just thinkin
MAKE MORE MONEY!!!
You didn't honestly think I was going to suggest that you cut back,now did you??? rofl
So that I can give my favorites 30% tips... to the point of tipping over and capsizing. rofl
The new board run by providers for newbies recommended I never negotiate and pay full price so I anticipate that I'd have to make more than 50% more.