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clammuncher 2606 reads
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What do you do when a provider falls asleep? For instance if you go out enjoy dinner(with wine) and then back to the hotel room and then she falls asleep completely naked with her legs wide open.

Knowing you do not have all night(as a hobbyist), do you let her sleep for a while? take advantage? call it a night

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 1042 reads
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1st off, why did she fall asleep? That is the bigger question. No matter how tired I am, you won't find me falling asleep during a meeting. Of course I don't get drunk (during meetings) or use drugs. She'd have to be really burnt out on lack of sleep for this to happen (minus what I mentioned).

Never take advantage. If a gal fell asleep on me, I'd more than likely curl up next to her and let her sleep for awhile.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 969 reads
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FlaSailorRon 24 Reviews 934 reads
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Either let her sleep, at least for a while, or wake her.  Sorry either scenario could be a bad date as she may wake upin a bad mood and you get nothing, or you let her sleep a while and she decides your time was up.  Ideally, she wants a good reputation and takes good care of you after she wakes.  Your last choice of taking advantage of her is called rape.

Peppermint 848 reads
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You must be a boring date lol.

No, you do not take advantage, numnuts.

Reminds me of the post where the escort fell asleep in the middle of a BJ.

cineaste 8 Reviews 904 reads
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I would...

Let her sleep
Read a book
Discuss a mutually acceptable solution when she wakes
Doubt my reputation as a raconteur.

no_email 3 Reviews 723 reads
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joebunda90 12 Reviews 1038 reads
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I had one long encounter that ended well after midnight.  We wore each other out and it ended with us cuddling and chatting.  She drifted off to sleep.  I covered her up, turned out the lights, gave her a kiss, and let myself out.

Now if it had happened closer to the start of the date I probably would have awakened her with some DATY :)

JB

WondersOfTheWrld 859 reads
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discuss the best resolution. Most likely she doesn't want to ruin her reputation, so she'll offer a redo date (hopefully alcohol and drug free). I wouldn't recommend paying her to sleep.

WondersOfTheWrld 762 reads
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BellaRoseKisses See my TER Reviews 768 reads
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wake that ass up lol....jk....or maybe not let her sleep since you've probably got her drunk anyways lol

mrfisher 115 Reviews 819 reads
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It was New Year's Eve.  We went out and had a large dinner, then came back to watch the ball drop on TV.  I had brought along a bottle of Champagne to toast with, but she ended up drinking the entire bottle (All 5' 2" and 90 pounds of her.)

Needless to say, she entered the land of nod pretty quickly and I knew she wasn't going to be getting up anytime soon, so I left a note and went home.

I called to ask about scheduling a make up session, but she said that was a session.  I demurred and now we don't see each other.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 892 reads
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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 868 reads
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Not quite the same situation as yours, but it was interesting (until TS trainwrecked the thread lol).

Retired-Guy 722 reads
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Posted By: clammuncher
What do you do when a provider falls asleep? For instance if you go out enjoy dinner(with wine) and then back to the hotel room and then she falls asleep completely naked with her legs wide open.  
   
 Knowing you do not have all night(as a hobbyist), do you let her sleep for a while? take advantage? call it a night?  
   
 

lilli 829 reads
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It was during my regular weekly overnight date with a friend. we would customarily go out...dancing, shooting pool, a few drinks, and spend time with his friends (much of his goal was to show off publicly). on this particular evening i had a bit too much to drink, which always results in my promptly falling asleep. so that is what happened...we got to our room, i flopped on the bed (fully clothed...nice slacks and silk camisole top), and basically passed out. i didn't wake until 8 or so in the morning, and immediately realized with horror what had occurred. he was lying right beside me, wide awake, with a hand around my waist. and he was smiling! he appreciated my apologies, but claimed that he actually enjoyed holding me and watching me sleep. and yes, i was still fully clothed. it just reinforced to me what a gentleman he was, and we had a very good morning. :)

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 740 reads
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Back_In_Black 903 reads
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Unreal ! Thanks MT u took the words right out of my mouth on this idiot .  Fucking disgusting .

Dr Who revived 847 reads
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harborview 10 Reviews 713 reads
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We had a nice dinner at her place, hippie style on the coffee table with our backs to the sofa.  I convinced her to let me massage her (she was dressed).  With her prone on the soft carpet, I reached under her top & released her bra & slid her pants down to the split of her butt & proceeded to give the promised massage with me straddling her.  She enjoyed it & eventually went to sleep.

As a condition of the activities, I'd promised I'd not go further than she agreed.  She certainly had not consented.  I knew she had her contacts in so I had to wake her before I left.  

As for the OP, I'd give her a reasonable chance to sleep & then wake her to finish what we started.  As a hobbiest, the situation is opposite of my earlier co-ed experience.  
If I'd already popped once that would be different, I would probably call it a night.  

I recall a buddy with a real hottie wife.  But she would sometimes fall asleep during the act.  Presumably she had previously consented though we never discussed it.  On one occasion he was in the dog house...  apparently he'd gone ahead & got his jollies (in her) while she was sleeping...  and she was P-I-S-S-E-D.  I never quite understood how it was possible but never asked more.  They divorced a couple of years later...

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 734 reads
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Posted By: MT91151
 
   
Posted By: clammuncher
What do you do when a provider falls asleep? For instance if you go out enjoy dinner(with wine) and then back to the hotel room and then she falls asleep completely naked with her legs wide open.  
     
  Knowing you do not have all night(as a hobbyist), do you let her sleep for a while? take advantage? call it a night?  
     
 

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 823 reads
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A tipsy head and full tummy do not make for a great date, and reviews confirm it. I would never invite a guy BACK to the room after I got piss ass drunk and ate, because damn right I would fall asleep on purpose.  

What should you do? Take off and review her.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 789 reads
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That's my protégé -, RodTidwell  :D

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 736 reads
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escalade1964 65 Reviews 874 reads
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called "rape" I don't care if you paid her or not.

If she falls asleep. Leave.

Back_In_Black 812 reads
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Her toes ? Or put shaving cream on her hand and tickle her nose with a feather from a pillow ? Or roll the bed into the elevator and hit all the buttons ? Ummm I'm done .  
No , get her credit card and go crazy on qvc  ! Now I'm done !

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 866 reads
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But she was naked, and I didn't have to "insert here" sibce she fell asleep with my dick in her mouth already

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 839 reads
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Had this happen with a provider once, turned out to be the best session ever.  We started off talking, I was the last appointment of the day, and I guess I just kept yapping too long.  Her head was on my shoulder, and the next thing i hear is a light snoring!

Same position as you, what the hell do I do?  We're on the clock, the minutes are ticking away - but I figured I would just enjoy the snuggle session as she looked so cute napping away naked next to me.  After about half an hour, she kind of startled awake and had that 'lost and dazed' look and started apologizing profusely.  She was so sorry, but I said it was ok, must have been a long day and to go back asleep.  She sincerely apologized and said that never happened before.

I figured she looked at the clock and realized how long she had been asleep - had that initial scared look fo what happened, did I do anything to her, etc.  Seeing that she was 'safe', she said if I didn't mind if she closed her eyes for a few more minutes if that would be ok.

Guess it paid off to recharge her batteries, as the time went waaaay longer than the allotted time with a lot more activities and "add-ons" from GFE to PSE to just, hell what a great experience.  Lot more extras were given on subsequent visits.  Best experience ever.

Just my one time experience with it, but my vote is to let her sleep.  Its actually kind of nice to have her fall asleep on you in a lot of ways.

aragorn69 53 Reviews 843 reads
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The provider passed out in the bathroom and when I checked on her she came to but was still messed up. She said she was feeling dizzy (I think she was high) so I carried her to her bed, tucked her in, and stayed with her for a while. I didn't want her to choke or anything. She woke a little later and said she was sorry and that she needed more rest. I said it was ok and then left since he was ok

CountryBoyAtHeart 3 Reviews 702 reads
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Just wanted to say that a sleeping woman is an attractive sight. I'm glad you also mentioned what you had on because I think nice slacks and silk cami is a hot combination. Glad your experience was a positive one.

onyx_percula 5 Reviews 740 reads
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Fall asleep super easy, especially after a few drinks.

The first time we had fun before she fell asleep. I woke way before her in the morning. Knowing she had very sensitive breasts I woke by gently stroking her breasts. She woke up and said "I can't believe how horny I am right now!".

We talked about her tendency to fall asleep at the sight of my bed, lol. I received her permission to wake her up in anyway I wanted to, but to be sure she was awake before anything too serious happened as she would be major pissed if she missed it.  

It got to the point that she would get sleepy anytime she got horny, or maybe got horny every time she got sleepy, we never quite figured that one out. I am still in contact with her close to 20 years later, and yep she is still the same way, I get a couple morning phone sex calls a year from her.

Moral to the story, every woman is different, what I did with this GF could have been received very badly, but I knew her well enough to be comfortable with that first time. In the end talking about it and having boundaries clearly set (for both us as sometimes I fell asleep on her, nothing like waking up in a beautiful girls mouth!) we found a extra little something special that improved her sex life for a lifetime.

PCell1337 52 Reviews 828 reads
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I like the way this guy thinks HAHAHAHA!

books47 24 Reviews 846 reads
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Several years ago, I was seeing a woman I really liked. With some difficulty, I arranged my first overnight appointment. Nice dinner, great conversation, a few drinks - and then she asked for a bottle of wine as we sat outside chatting - Back to the room and she called room service for another bottle of wine. When I came out of the shower, she had passed out. I lay beside her all night, really feeling abandoned. I was a gentleman - but it sure was a lousy date.

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