TER General Board

re: bbfs example
Buckyfan 3390 reads
posted
1 / 20

I know this has been discussed ad nauseam, but I have wondered many times how prevalent BBFS is and how did it end up happening. I am a relatively infrequent flyer, once or twice per year for 20+ years. I admit I have done BBFS 3 times.  All of the bare encounters have been over the past two years, also making me wonder if it is becoming more common.  Most, if not all providers I see are well reviewed, highly rated and are relatively high end, meaning no back alley or car appt. girls and none of which had any indication of such activity in their reviews. I never have gone into an encounter looking for or even desiring BBFS.  And no, I am not insinuating that I am some fantastic lover and the girls couldn’t control themselves. It just happened for various reasons.  
The first time, it was a provider from a well respected agency I used before. She initiated it when after giving me a BBBJ, she just moved up and mounted me cowgirl without a cover. My mind was racing but I couldn’t stop and ended up CIP.  
The second one was a very young provider. We fucked some with a cover, then she went back to BBBJ. When I asked to fuck again she asked if it was ok without a rubber. Being the man of limited self control I am, I said yes and ended up having the most memorable encounter ever. When we started, she just asked that I don’t CIP which I obliged.  
The third time was with a well established, very highly rated provider. After DATY when she was on her back, I moved up and started rubbing my bare dick on her wet pussy, gliding back and forth and teasing her. She was into it so I I went a step further and flicked her clit with the tip. She started pushing up harder against it and it “just went in”.  She kept thrusting and moaning so I kept going and we did a long, multi position session uncovered. I requested CIM at the end so I’m not sure what her thoughts were about me CIP.  
So, while I had the worries over the next month every time I had a little itch down there, I have doubts I will be able to say no in future situations in the future.  
How many others have found themselves in similar circumstances and ended up doing unplanned BBFS and how did it come about?  

3579655 3 Reviews 114 reads
posted
2 / 20

Never happened to me with a provider. Momentarily and inadvertently with a body rub girl 10 years ago during Nuru, no harm, no foul.

HIV, pregnancy, std's all kept me from doing it, as well as respect for the provider.  

Never a good idea.

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 153 reads
posted
3 / 20

I have noticed that SBs do bare. A lot.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 191 reads
posted
4 / 20

To each their own. I don’t judge, but never should a professional provide BBFS unless already previously discussed & all parties agreed upon. Risky factors to consider. STD’s & pregnancy are primary concerns. I know a couple providers that are BBFS & many guys have shared similar encounters that they assumed would be covered. I don’t know how this should be handled because it is a violation.

helixir 54 Reviews 85 reads
posted
5 / 20

I had a provider offer that.  
I looked at her like she had a second head growing out of her neck.
Then I put on a rubber and gave her a proper shtupping.

3579655 3 Reviews 122 reads
posted
6 / 20

Yep, this is true. A risky business.

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
Re: Bbfs
I have noticed that SBs do bare. A lot.

3579655 3 Reviews 126 reads
posted
7 / 20

Mea Culpa, there was 1 occasion with a Japanese provider , after which I got tested.

Posted By: francesouimet18
Re: Never
Never happened to me with a provider. Momentarily and inadvertently with a body rub girl 10 years ago during Nuru, no harm, no foul.  
   
 HIV, pregnancy, std's all kept me from doing it, as well as respect for the provider.  
   
 Never a good idea.

Mstrchf117 6 Reviews 87 reads
posted
8 / 20

Happened twice. First was basically a Christmas present so went along, never done it before. 2nd time was kinda weird, started with a cover, even oral was covered. Idk if she took it off or it came off but when I finished it wasn't on, and was on the floor a few feet away.

Boobsman100 21 Reviews 100 reads
posted
9 / 20

To minimize problems make sure you choose your providers carefully, and hope for the best - still a risky gamble however anway you look at it.

girlfan1959 48 Reviews 111 reads
posted
10 / 20

In my experience, SBs are willing to be or even prefer to be bare only when when recent test result have been exchanged and birth control has been discussed. There is usually a measure of exclusivity too if not complete exclusivity during your time together, although neither of you can be sure.

3579655 3 Reviews 88 reads
posted
11 / 20

Yes, been there, done that.  

I've been comfortable in several SB relationships exchanging results, and discussing BC beforehand. It's worked out well for me, with a few hiccups along the way, none fatal.

For me, a much better way to go.

CurlyW-NatsFan 94 reads
posted
12 / 20

I feel it has always been there, but it used to be a very controversial topic back in the day.. Now not so much..

wanderer48 105 Reviews 83 reads
posted
13 / 20

Years ago I saw a local provider who let me fu k her ass bare. Probably wasn’t the smartest thing I have ever done but I enjoyed her ass a number of times.

jpj 16 Reviews 128 reads
posted
14 / 20

Don’t listen to the bullshit from many on this forum.  BBFS has been around for as long as people have wanted to fuck.
I’ve mongered for 40+ years, and I’ve sometimes partaken of BBFS from day 1.   It’s a decision between 2 people… nothing more, nothing less.  Some ladies offer it to anybody who wants it without hesitation.  Some ladies absolutely refuse to offer it.  Some ladies only offer it under specific conditions (recent full panel test results).  I’ve encountered all 3 scenarios.  I always prefer BBFS, and have done so many, many  times without any issues.
And I know for an absolute first hand fact that ladies who swear on their websites they won’t do BBFS … did BBFS with me.

usd2binsfv 141 reads
posted
15 / 20

This is actually weirdly an instance that happened to me recently of the past year too. My ATF for the past 5 or 6 years had  wierded out on me late last year. Got really b---y to me all of a sudden. On the couch talk, she was still dressed in pajamas, hair not made up, looks like drunk or depressed, and started to take smoking pot heavily in front of me, maybe she was depressed and took it out on me. And this a top 20 ter listed provider on one of the metro lists that has been around with reviews here since 2010 or so. Actual model quality and such a fine lady I adored her so much. But not that night. Finally in the bedroom, she just shucked her clothes off and got in position on the bed wanting me get in her from behind. Didn't even care to get or condom or ask or check if I had a condom.  

I mean yeah, it was uncomfortable. And so in another life, I would have been her bf, heck even wouldn't minded making a kid with her marrying her and family and happy ever after with her, because i'd adored her so much in these past few years. But I chickened or got uncomfortable, or mish is hard for me to get off, because I'm screwed in the mind during sex too often being single for my life. So I hesitated and asked for the usual humping outside her, or going for daty or the rest of this, and she probably got pissed about that too, as the session got worse, and she quit on me several times, ranted and drawled to me, and kept criticizing me on any thing i did or said for the rest of the session. like on daty, 'you're doing it wrong' to pushing me away, and quitting on me again and for good, making me get ready to leave after over an hour ( i paid for over an hour) of this nonsense wasting.  

So yes, strange how this BBFS dangled in front of me too in an instance. Maybe everyone, providers included is feeling this world is going to rot and world war soon. Everything's falling apart. The good old days of the 70's , 80's when the world was so much saner, without all this social media rot and propaganda, social engineering, but cabal elite screwing over 99.9% of the world population while they play their virtual risk-world games with each other starting off wars etc. Everyone depressed, feeling no sane future anymore , family structure destroyed. Ok, other than the BBFS example, maybe never mind me and this post. I'm late nite can't sleep feeling crap about my life and hobby life (maybe quitting it , since it's not even the good or same anymore unless one can afford 2k/hour now , instead of cutting back to once or twice a year since eight years ago for me.

STARFLASH7 335 Reviews 151 reads
posted
16 / 20

I live in the San Jose South Bay Area of California.  There are many organizations that offer slim and pretty Korean ladies as providers called K-gals.  Over the recent two years, it seems the stakes for customers has started an all out pussy war to get clients.  Ads are now posted with the term GFE/PSE as thy type of service which means BBFS available.  Look at tll the reviews for these ladies and BBFS is in the majority now. Amazing.  

So, it seems BBFS has moved to being near normal now for that type of provider.  It's crazy, but true.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 100 reads
posted
17 / 20

Anywhere else GFE/PSE does not mean BBFS is available.

 
I'd rather see a "war" based on price and not BBFS.

MellowSoul 120 Reviews 117 reads
posted
18 / 20

Id rather see a war based on price as well. But bbfs is a commodity that hobbyists obviously want, so here we are.

slipry 115 Reviews 131 reads
posted
19 / 20

I wasn’t going to comment on this subject but I’ll be honest I’m 65 and not getting any younger and would likely go for it. I’ve got Medicare and am not afraid to use it. But truthfully I’m having health issues and would likely find the one with the gift that keeps giving. I cannot finish in a cover or a bbbj. I’d be better off just going to a spa that offered happy endings. But I know from experience with a long term relationship BBFS will do the job and fast. Back in the day I could go on indefinitely with a cover on and did too many times wearing out my play date until she has enough and finished me off with a HJ. So heaven forbid it’s ever offered or an option because I don’t think the HJ would be enough knowing I could get a BBFS experience. Not worried about kids, I’ve been fixed and shoot blanks now 😂 but I like finishing outside by my own hand. Ok that’s a bit of TMI I know good night  

Cya
Slip

3579655 3 Reviews 130 reads
posted
20 / 20

Hey Slip, I hear ya.

Same, same. Used to go forever in the cover. Not so much anymore. Very tough to finish that way....a handy does the job.

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