Wow, that often? The once a day, i could handle, but 2-3 times per day, well, maybe if i were younger. It would be fun trying though...lol
I think most men would be pleased if their women initiated sex more often.
If you were not an escort and had a SO, how often would you like to have sex. ( with your SO )
Just wondering if you have a,
1) high sex drive
2) normal sex drive
3) below normal sex drive
4) or your just an outright Nymphomaniac.
Preferably 2-3 times a day but at least once would be fine.
I had a boyfriend once who said he felt emasculated by how often I initiated sex- that was just a clear case of not being compatible in terms of sex drive but you get the idea.
I prefer a partner with a high sex drive; if I'm in a relationship I feel entitled to it but more than that if I genuinely care for someone I just want it all the time because I'm attracted to them.
If its just a fuck buddy I can get by with a couple times a week otherwise I get bored fast.
Wow, that often? The once a day, i could handle, but 2-3 times per day, well, maybe if i were younger. It would be fun trying though...lol
I think most men would be pleased if their women initiated sex more often.
Depends on how good he is . The better he is the more I want.
the night, morning..... lol I guess you could say I am a Nymphomaniac!
Hugs and kisses
TL
that some may be exaggerating on how often they really wanna have sex. ( in a civee relationship )
I can understand that some feel it may hurt biz if the truth were told, but most of us guys realize you are human and not some kinda damn machine.
Just thought i get an accurate insight into your sex-drive, when your not working.
Really though, it is none of my biz.
Also, if your not in a relationship with someone, i may be hard to for you to determine, how often.
BTW, i'm not calling anyone a liar. ( for those who have already responded )
Say what??
Providers they would have jobs and headaches every other night and PMS two weeks out of the month.
Not always true. When I was married, we had sex minimum once a day, sometimes more, & a BJ whenever he wanted one, & many times, I would just do it out of the blue. Not ALL women can be categorized into one box. I learned long ago, that if you are not taking care of the man of the house, someone else will... and any woman who does not recognize this & act on it, will get cheated on, period.
I was married twice, and it was the crazy not the lack of sex that led to divorces bwahahaha. If a woman is not giving it up at home, the problem might just be the man in question. Thank goodness for p4p eh? I blew my ex in the parking lot of a Copeland's AFTER we signed the divorce papers. Sex was not the issue nor seldom is...a good excuse though.
There is some truth in what you say. However, it's unfair that it places the onus or burden on the woman to ensure that her husband does not cheat by acting to satisfy his every sexual whim.
I say the burden should be equally placed upon the man. He should have the discipline to resist his base sexual urges to cheat on his wife simply because she does not cater to his every sexual whim.
Any man who can't do this should NOT be married in the first place and is better off in the long run being single.
I second that!!
This is true, it is a 2-way street. Hence, why I strongly believe that people should not only have sex plenty before they get married, they should also live together for a period of time(over a year) before getting married. This will let you know if both your sex drive & personalities are compatible, as if you are not in sync, it will eventually lead to ill feelings. Many times, women withhold sex as "punishment" when they are mad as their SO for something.. while men use sex to make up, lol. I understand over time, sex drive & personal wants may change, but as a team you need to work through that.. at least come to some sort of compromise. He wants sex everyday.. her sex drive is low... OK, so compromise with sex 2-3 days a week.
It is the wives that completely stop being intimate with husbands that I was more-so referring to. And not just with sex.. sometimes it is emotional intimacy is guy is looking for, & his wife has just turned cold turkey... how is that fair to him?
I say the burden should be equally placed upon the man. He should have the discipline to resist his base sexual urges to cheat on his wife simply because she does not cater to his every sexual whim.
Any man who can't do this should NOT be married in the first place and is better off in the long run being single.
I completely agree that people should live together in a "trial marriage" before actually getting married. It's not a question of morality but practicality nowadays to know what to expect before committing to spend the rest of your life in a monogamous relationship.
If the woman is no longer willing to provide her husband with emotional or physical intimacy, then the marriage is in trouble. The man's having an affair does not solve the problem, but merely mitigates it with a short-term solution.
It is the wives that completely stop being intimate with husbands that I was more-so referring to. And not just with sex.. sometimes it is emotional intimacy is guy is looking for, & his wife has just turned cold turkey... how is that fair to him?
Ahhh.. but there's the difference. An affair could truly be devastating to a marriage & most of the time, the wife ends up finding out, as the mistress gets tired of being the mistress & emotions & feelings are involved, etc, etc. Now, in P4P, the gentleman's sexual & many times, emotional needs are being met, to the extent he can go home to his wife afterwards, & continue on with his marriage, & as long as he is seeing well-reviewed ladies, the chances of a provider going nuts & telling the wife are slim.
I even know of gentlemen who are no longer interested in sex, but want emotional intimacy(cuddling, kissing, caressing, etc) that the wife is no longer willing to provide. They can get this temporarily from a provider, & I have seen men where there marriage is being held together by this small gesture.
If the woman is no longer willing to provide her husband with emotional or physical intimacy, then the marriage is in trouble. The man's having an affair does not solve the problem, but merely mitigates it with a short-term solution.
It is the wives that completely stop being intimate with husbands that I was more-so referring to. And not just with sex.. sometimes it is emotional intimacy is guy is looking for, & his wife has just turned cold turkey... how is that fair to him?
While the man's having an affair is a short-term solution that mitigates the larger problems in his marriage, it is not the ideal long-term solution. Whether it's a true affair or P4P with a working girl, the man's wife is not likely to see the difference. The wife will only be concerned with the result: that her husband cheated on her with another woman. And most wives will make their husbands (and possibly the other woman) pay dearly.
In the end, the man should either learn to lessen his need for physical and emotional intimacy to accommodate his marriage or he should divorce his wife and find another woman who can satisfy his desires. It's the cleanest, simplest solution for all parties involved.
I even know of gentlemen who are no longer interested in sex, but want emotional intimacy(cuddling, kissing, caressing, etc) that the wife is no longer willing to provide. They can get this temporarily from a provider, & I have seen men where there marriage is being held together by this small gesture.
If the woman is no longer willing to provide her husband with emotional or physical intimacy, then the marriage is in trouble. The man's having an affair does not solve the problem, but merely mitigates it with a short-term solution.
It is the wives that completely stop being intimate with husbands that I was more-so referring to. And not just with sex.. sometimes it is emotional intimacy is guy is looking for, & his wife has just turned cold turkey... how is that fair to him?
SO for me are like chips, can't have just one! I like variety and frequency. But not to the point that it gets too routine or watered down. Boredom is a no-no and there has to be lots of attraction and creativity to keep me at high level. If my SO couldn't keep up with me, then it's time to add more to the mix. Interpret that however you wish! 
5 days a week- the other two i want relax time and just cuddling....and i'll take care of myself in the morning! HEHE
Just wondering if you have a,
1) high sex drive
2) normal sex drive
3) below normal sex drive
4) or your just an outright Nymphomaniac.
sex addiction is very real, and it's definitely not sexy.
Some of these women were just "fuck buddies" with no ulterior motive- they just wanted to go home satisfied. Many times we'd make a weekend of it and only leave the house for meals.
So if these "civie" girls wanted that much sex, why would it be unreasonable that providers would be any different? After all, they got in the business.
When you're truly attracted to your lover you want to fuck them all the time...I don't understand why that is such a preposterous concept.
I guess when you're jaded and you've been married and you toss a couple of careers and a few kids and some animosity in the mix...maybe that isn't the case.
Personally, I'm 27 and I have an extremely high sex drive in my personal life with my lovers and boyfriends. This isn't unique- a lot of girls with dudes they're still attracted to feel the same. Maybe not the majority of women but enough of us for it not to be something totally incomprehensible.
I can say when I was married I was eager to give it up, BUT I was not with either of them over a year either lol. After 10 years of banging the same dude, and only the same dude...it might get old and I would just trade him in. I would not cheat though...not original enough.
your question implies many things...that an escort having a Mate effects their sex drive; that actual sex drive and need for sex are related, etc.
for example, my Husband and i engage in some sort of sexual contact almost every day, though we may only have intercourse 2 or 3 times a week. i would like for him to use me even more often, because i know he has the desire to do so but doesn't want to feel he's overwhelming considering the other duties (both sexual and domestic) to which i must attend. however i would probably describe myself as having a low-average sex drive, if it's defined as actually horny anticipation/selfish desire for sex. but my need to actually have sex is very great, and it needs to be frequent in order for that need to be fulfilled. it is a need based more on a massive drive to please and satisfy men, and to be used, and not a need based on something actually arousing me.
Oh, since I've reached a (ahem) "certain age," I can do it once a day! That was not always the case, however. Between the ages of 20-35, I was a "maybe once a week if he's lucky" kind of gal. I think I must have hit my sexual peak in my mid 30s.
Marie
Some peoples High sex drive is someone elses low sex drive, you know what I mean?
But here's my story~
Pre-escorting my SO were at it 2 or 3 times a day everyday without fail...
The SO and I didn't work out, and the sex drive has doubled since then, so ya