Ok, so I was told my post wasn't allowed because it was off topic. So, thusly, I'm starting my own. But this is a segue from the Marketing 101 string....

Honestly, I think a lot of the nit picking amongst ourselves (providers and hobbyists) would be circumvented if sex work was decriminalized in the first place. This would, in turn, allow more transparent advertising and more precise filtering on both ends. There's nothing wrong with someone having a desire to do whatever (as long as it's consensual and of legal age) and having a provider willing to match that need. The problem is that marketing platforms have been put in such a stranglehold by the government, that they have either shut down completely out of fear of legal persecution, or restricted the usage of explicit language to such a degree, that advertisers no longer have the ability to transparently specify what they offer. So both providers and hobbyists are more paranoid and frustrated then ever now. Hobbyists can't find what they are looking for and end up unintentionally insulting providers because they're blindly approaching them and providers are frustrated at the wave of uneducated hobbyists contacting them with requests that are outside of their level or comfort zone.