Seriously; what does p4p lack, for you, that your gf/so/wife gives you? I'm spoiled so i won't chime in. We've all answered the reverse question of what p4p offers that you don't get at home. Try the opposite for a change. I'm guessing the answers with revolve around romance.

Since my wife years ago indicated that she just didn't enjoy and didn't want anymore sex, I can only say that the only lacking part of p4p for me is that you have to get up and vacate the place after awhile rather than rolling over and either falling asleep or turning on a football game.

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Is real emotion.. And I prefer slow, passionate lovemaking over fast & hard fucking, but most of the time it just ends up being the latter. In one of my last sessions I did feel more of a connection than with any other provider, and she asked me to stay several hours extra. That was my best hobby experience so far. Nothing turns me on more than a woman actually wanting me, and that's the biggest thing that is missing for me in the hobby.

The emotional connection you have with your SO, unless your SO is a real c@*t.  I have only seen 10 girls so far in this hobby, and I narrowed it down to seeing just one girl because along with the great circus sex, we seem to have real chemistry. My 90 min session went for 2 1/2 hours and she never asked for more money (though I did slide her some extra while she wasn't looking). All the other providers ranged from dead fish to accommodating. I prefer interaction when having sex, otherwise I would save my self a bundle of money and just masturbate when out of town.

I usually enjoy sex more with my wife than p4p, even the better p4p experiences.  The comfort level is there and all.  Also, though she's my age and I ain't no spring-chicken, I can afford to have let her have some pretty decent cosmetic procedures, so she's still pretty hot.   Still, certain things factor in to choosing to enter the hobbying field.  Probably most important is simple variety and the excitement of experiencing a new, beautiful woman.  This is probably why I will never have some ATF that I solicit more than a couple times.  Secondly, although sex with the wife is still great, it can sometimes be pretty rote.  There are certain things that she just doesn't do or take the time for.  A good provider looks at herself as a professional with a responsibility to make things complete, exciting, and ultimately fulfilling.  This is especially important to us old guys, whose mechanism may falter a bit at times.

Life is too short to be dealing with riff-raff.  I always make sure I am buying time, social entertaining, escort, or some legit service.  I don't pay for sex.  

But sometimes, I must admit, that I do pretend I'm with a hooker.  Its gets me hot, imagining the escort I am having sex with is a prostitute.  But that's all fantasy.

An escort who books me cannot guarantee that we will have sex during that visit. Sometimes, shit comes up and I just don't have the time; other times I may have other priorities.

Because this could occur with any escort I see at any time and unpredictably; it is impossible to establish a quid-pro-quo of sex for money.

This is one reason I make sure any lady I see is someone I would enjoy outside of the bedroom -- because that is very well where the appointment might occur.

So, no, I've never seen a hooker.

Tell me ... what's it like?

Somewhat discreet blowjobs with thousands of people about. Both of you wondering if it was a sting. Nerve-racking and exhiliarating at the same time. Wouldn't go that route anymore, but there are a couple of ladies I've met that I'd love to take to the park!

My first time was in 1986 in a parked car just south of the Javits Center, not far from the Lincoln Tunnel.  Once was enough.

Q. Ever have sex with a Hooker?

A. No.

Q. Seriously; what does p4p lack, for you, that your gf/so/wife gives you?

A. My wife gives me a lot that I don't get from P4P. Not one of those things is anything to  romance. Yes I do get romance from my wife, but I can get that from P4P on longer dates, with the right provider if I so choose.

Hear is a small list of what I get from my wife that I can't get from P4P:

1. True acceptance. In P4P I pay the lady to do me sexual favors and for companionship. If it was not for the money she would not even be there let alone do anything sexual with me. I also have to be at my best if the provider is to want to be there even if there is an envelope full of cash for her with me. Ladies in this business never get to see me all depressed, angry, drunk, or in any other not so good state. If they did they would likely leave and put me on there DNS list and they should as I am not much fun to be around in like that.

My wife on the other hand has seen me at my worse. She knows all my dirty laundry, weaknesses, and vices, yet still is with me. She seen me in scary bouts of depression, in furious rages, and in moments of utter selfishness, and yet still cares for me. She tolerates all my bad habits. Yet, despite all of my faults she loves me anyway. And despite the fact I am very unattractive, obese man with crooked teeth she still finds me sexy and wants to fuck me. I can't find that in P4P. She understands me better than anyone paid to be there could, and often better than I myself do, and still I am her man and she is my woman. Nothing is better than that.

2. My son. I don't want any children from P4P and I doubt any sane provider would carry my child for money anyway. My wife gave me my son.

3. Unwavering support. My wife was there for me when I was in a coma for three days. She sat by my side hardly leaving it until I awoke and was out of the woods. My wife was there after I caused the accident that killed my mother and I was so depressed that I completely withdrawn from everything besides work. She waited for me to come out of my self hatred and supported me during that crises. No one paid for P4P would do that for a man that is just a client. My wife has always had my back and I hers.

4. True love. My wife often puts my needs before her own. If I am having an asthma attack at work at 2AM and run out of medicine, if I call a provider and ask her to go to the all night drug store and pick up my medicine she would likely hang up on me. If I call my wife she would get dressed go to the store and get my medicine than stay with me until it works, if it does not she would get me to the hospital as stay with me until I am released or until I am admitted. She often (but not always) puts my needs first. A sign of true love.

These are the things my wife gives me that no paid provider would or even could give me. I give my wife these thing in return. I don't give them to anyone I pay.

Sounds like you found someone very special.  One more reason to get up in the morning and face...well, you know.

I consider myself the luckiest guy alive. She could of landed almost anyone yet for some reason she chose a fixer-upper like me. I owe her much.