wherein the info is questionable at the very least.  I research a lot prior to an appointment.  Recently I saw someone who had 8s or higher for appearance and whose photos looked great.  I was afraid, very afraid.  The girl looked sick and I don't mean with the flu.  I wrote a less than stellar review and the agency changed her photos shortly afterwards.  But I was nice in the review because of the potential backlash.  I looked after reading your post and she is still getting 8 + for appearance.  I don't get it, unless everyone is afraid what the ladies will say after they put up a bad review.  In the case you site - I fully understand.  I almost posted a reply a couple of days ago when someone said something about a lady I really like.  But some other jumped in before I said anything.  Bottom line - it can go both ways and unfortunately we can't rely on everyone here to be honest.

I too take issue with inaccurate or false reviews and I also believe that critical opinion can be written without being unjustifiably vitriolic.  However with that being said as I read your post, I can't help but wonder if in fact the other guy posted an inaccurate or false review.  Is it possible that he just had a different opinion then you (or her)?  Is it possible that everything he wrote is true relative to his experience and feelings despite them being contrary to yours?  Is it possible that his latter defenses against those who were openly critical of his review were in fact justifiable replies because with the absence of evidence that he was flat-out lying, who has the right to dispute his subjective opinion of his encounter?  

My other thought surrounds the provider herself.  Unless she was new, I don't think a single poor review will have a long term negative impact to her business. Most hobbyists (and I realize not all) examine the total history of a lady's reviews when they research.  Well informed hobbyists seek consistent feedback in the reviews they read.  A lady with several positive reviews and a singular outlier poor review is not immediately cast aside for consideration.  In fact the reviewer who posts the review that is most unlike the others (be it good or bad) is usually the one who is suspect.  While I understand that any slow down in business is cause for concern and I can also understand how this situation may upset the lady, I firmly believe that if she is as you and other supporters feel she is then she will have no problem putting this behind her.

Agree 100%. However, there are situations where the provider probably ws having a bad day (for whatever reason). If this is the case one would think it is a prudent business practice to cancel appointments for the day..Just my .02 worth..

No offense but I don't think you will find anyone here that thinks we SHOULDN'T write accurate reviews. The guys that slam a lady intentionally have an agenda, whatever it is, and nothing we say will change that. Was she wronged? Maybe.  The truth is only two people know what happened during the appointment. The guy may very well be full of crap. I know some grade A ladies that are still always concerned about getting a bad review because they refused BBFS or some other foolishness. It happens, there are some real a-holes out there. Bottom line is if she is a good provider with a history of good reviews she will not be hurt by one bad one.

Kind of like gymnastic judgeng.  Throw out the high score and the low score and avg. the rest.

BTW, keep your pics coming.

One of the things that ladies could do to prevent some of the fallout from inaccurate or misleading reviews is to be absolutely sure that they are accurate with respect to their weight and age.

Recently someone called one of my ATFs fat! lol!  the lady is not fat (not even baby fat) - but she is proportioned!  that is nice Boobs! with a Great waist and then real hips.  The lady is also very attractive... and is somewhat mature... but NOT old !!!  in fact she is young, but not 18 - NOR does she claim to be.  Her pictures are more than accurate, they are a very fair representation of the atmosphere that she creates... and yet some dude out there, wanted to hurt her!  why?  Oh, and in case you think that I am being somewhat biased?  ON our first encounter - we went to a restaurant where the hostess complemented her on her incredible good looks... and the table next to us had a group of business men sitting there, and they could NOT stop staring at her...  (I should add that she was dress very appropriately and not in any way to bring attention to herself, but rather a normal evening dress...)  

Let's face it - there are folks out there who get great joy and pleasure from causing others pain.  I've seen it before and I guess I will see it again.

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All of your comments are very good and shed light on both the reviewer and the reviewee's perspective.

However, in this instance the "gentleman" continued to make statements about his meeting with the provider like, "I would rather have a tooth pulled that go and see her again."

He would rebuff other reviewers. This was not on TER but another Board and the reviews on that Board did not all link together.

I can only surmise by his behavior (in writing) that he had a vendetta. As well as a lower class way of expressing himself.

We need to write accurate reviews and move on!

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I persoanlly am VERY careful about writing my reviews. I usually wait a week or so so its still fresh but I can more objective. However, I am careful to give a really bad review, ever. Most of my reviews fall between 7 & 8 with a couple 9s & 10s for exceptional quality and a couple bad ones 6 & below. I try to picture whether we just didnt hit it off, I had other things on my mind or she just wanted her money and for me to "hurry up and get off"
looks to me play NO PART in my service rating. seperate entirely. I am not 1 who is likely to give a more attractive woman a better review just becasue shes hot. I have had overweight not so pretty providers give me the best services ever. Those I would go back to in a minute becasue I dont need a hot 20yo who thinks her farts smell like roses..I would rather have a woman who enjoys spending time with me, looks don't matter. YMMV