Given the fact you see this provider on a regular basis and you are practicing "SAFE "sessions I think she would appreciate a heads up on this gentleman and let her make her own decision as to accept him, if she is gettin a reference from talktotrees I feel like its his responsibility to state the facts im sure she will be discreet with the info
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Just remember that your ATF may well have a boyfriend that she sees and has sex without a condom.
Every one starts taking chances when they get out of bed in the morning.
Posted By: TalkToTrees
A good friend of mine who is also a hobbyist recently saw a provider who gave a BBFS, which shocked me because he was always ranting about 'being protected' at all times. He tells me that he found her on BP and the session went great. He strongly urged me to try her. I told him, "No, thanks!". He acted all pissy at me for turning this lady down, but I told him, "I am not taking chances here".
As far as I can tell through my research here on TER, this unknown BP provider isn't on TER or one other review site that I go to.
Now, he tells me that he's planning to see my ATF provider (well reviewed here in TER) She's one of my ATF providers who I have seen for about 5 years. He has not met my ATF provider previously, so that will be his first session with her.
Question for you ladies...
Should I say anything at all to my ATF provider as to what this hobbyist did in regards to getting a BBFS from this unknown BP provider?
Or...
Should I stay out of it?
We are talking about a potential health issue and being protected (on both genders) at all times. I am more concerned about my AFT provider getting STD if I don't inform her plus she'd be infecting other hobbyists, including myself. I know that's the right answer, but I want some feedback from the ladies.
The Forest Waits
Of course you need to tell your ATF...she's counting on you. She has NO idea that any guys are going BBFS with their SO...or heaven forbid other hookers here.
I'm also absolutely sure that YOU'RE so concerned about HER health and those who are a degree or two or two of separation from her 
Of course get involved...everybody want's a whiny little bitch telling them how to run their business. And who better to get involved but a putz like you...because you're a really sincere johnny boy.
You do realize that most johns and hookers are indeed going BBFS with someone. Just thought I'd give you that tidbit...but you know better. Not your ATF...she told you that she is a good girl LOL
Nice attempt at a cock block BTW 
The Rainforest waits...still!!
Posted By: TalkToTrees
A good friend of mine who is also a hobbyist recently saw a provider who gave a BBFS, which shocked me because he was always ranting about 'being protected' at all times. He tells me that he found her on BP and the session went great. He strongly urged me to try her. I told him, "No, thanks!". He acted all pissy at me for turning this lady down, but I told him, "I am not taking chances here".
As far as I can tell through my research here on TER, this unknown BP provider isn't on TER or one other review site that I go to.
Now, he tells me that he's planning to see my ATF provider (well reviewed here in TER) She's one of my ATF providers who I have seen for about 5 years. He has not met my ATF provider previously, so that will be his first session with her.
Question for you ladies...
Should I say anything at all to my ATF provider as to what this hobbyist did in regards to getting a BBFS from this unknown BP provider?
Or...
Should I stay out of it?
We are talking about a potential health issue and being protected (on both genders) at all times. I am more concerned about my AFT provider getting STD if I don't inform her plus she'd be infecting other hobbyists, including myself. I know that's the right answer, but I want some feedback from the ladies.
The Forest Waits
But what I'm really concerned about is, if he's going to rat his friend out to his trees. We all know he talks to trees so, what if he tells one tree and the rest of the trees talk to each other? By golly, the whole forest is gonna know about his friend's bbfs incident and his ATF just might avoid barebacking trees too if she stops seeing guys who are friends with guys who talk to trees.
maybe this conversation "branched" out elsewhere, but let's keep in mind the "root" of the problem is that just when our little Moses syndrome buddy disappeared another one pops up thinking he's gonna change the world with his heroic WK actions. Do you think she'll let him pick her up and call her a preeeety laydee? or should he just make like a tree and leaf? lol
Tell your hobby friend to get tested. Tell him that you would prefer that he not see you ATF until after he does. Note that he should wait about 6 weeks after he went BB with the backpage girl, to make the the agar in his petri dish is fully dosed. If he blows you off, then tell him you are going to tell your ATF not to see him. You don't need to go into specifics - just tell her you would prefer that she not see your buddy. She can make her own conclusions.
What people don't realize seems to be that every time you have sex with somebody, you are both having sex with everybody else that your partner has slept with. It's your health you are looking after, not just hers.
It amazes me that some of the douchbags on this board get so wrapped up in bashing each other's personalities or opinions that they lose sight of a serious health and safety issue that affects us all.
If anyone honestly is that dumb to think that all of the P4P is covered...shame on them.
Let alone not realize that most hookers and johns are going BBFS with someone.
But of course the BBFS troll post is always good for posters to bloviate about the STD risks.
Thanks for playing!
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
Tell your hobby friend to get tested. Tell him that you would prefer that he not see you ATF until after he does. Note that he should wait about 6 weeks after he went BB with the backpage girl, to make the the agar in his petri dish is fully dosed. If he blows you off, then tell him you are going to tell your ATF not to see him. You don't need to go into specifics - just tell her you would prefer that she not see your buddy. She can make her own conclusions.
What people don't realize seems to be that every time you have sex with somebody, you are both having sex with everybody else that your partner has slept with. It's your health you are looking after, not just hers.
It amazes me that some of the douchbags on this board get so wrapped up in bashing each other's personalities or opinions that they lose sight of a serious health and safety issue that affects us all.
Notwithstanding the fact that reading comprehension is clearly not your friend, you just made my point.
Thanks!
Posted By: ChgoCPA
If anyone honestly is that dumb to think that all of the P4P is covered...shame on them.
Let alone not realize that most hookers and johns are going BBFS with someone.
But of course the BBFS troll post is always good for posters to bloviate about the STD risks.
Thanks for playing!
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
Tell your hobby friend to get tested. Tell him that you would prefer that he not see you ATF until after he does. Note that he should wait about 6 weeks after he went BB with the backpage girl, to make the the agar in his petri dish is fully dosed. If he blows you off, then tell him you are going to tell your ATF not to see him. You don't need to go into specifics - just tell her you would prefer that she not see your buddy. She can make her own conclusions.
What people don't realize seems to be that every time you have sex with somebody, you are both having sex with everybody else that your partner has slept with. It's your health you are looking after, not just hers.
It amazes me that some of the douchbags on this board get so wrapped up in bashing each other's personalities or opinions that they lose sight of a serious health and safety issue that affects us all.
Guess you realized that the OP is a troll...just not till after you posted your drivel.
And now due to your embarrassment, the only retort is to not answer the question.
Hey...thanks for continuing to play. If you care to join the members area that sends out troll alerts you won't get fooled again. Thanks WHO!
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
Notwithstanding the fact that reading comprehension is clearly not your friend, you just made my point.
Thanks!
Posted By: ChgoCPA
If anyone honestly is that dumb to think that all of the P4P is covered...shame on them.
Let alone not realize that most hookers and johns are going BBFS with someone.
But of course the BBFS troll post is always good for posters to bloviate about the STD risks.
Thanks for playing!
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
Tell your hobby friend to get tested. Tell him that you would prefer that he not see you ATF until after he does. Note that he should wait about 6 weeks after he went BB with the backpage girl, to make the the agar in his petri dish is fully dosed. If he blows you off, then tell him you are going to tell your ATF not to see him. You don't need to go into specifics - just tell her you would prefer that she not see your buddy. She can make her own conclusions.
What people don't realize seems to be that every time you have sex with somebody, you are both having sex with everybody else that your partner has slept with. It's your health you are looking after, not just hers.
It amazes me that some of the douchbags on this board get so wrapped up in bashing each other's personalities or opinions that they lose sight of a serious health and safety issue that affects us all.
As is obvious in my original reply to this thread, I am well aware that most of the sex that happens in the "real" world is BB. My point is that if you are playing in P4P and seeing a girl for the first time and you decide to go go bare back, you should absolutely, without fail get a current STD test. Instead of acknowledging that, you jump right into type and go off topic to insult just about everybody who posted here, in the most stupid and incomprehensible manner possible.
Your definition of a troll seems to be anybody who disagrees with you, or posts a question about a topic that bothers you. It doesn't really matter that the OP may be fabricated, it raises an important issue on a more or less public discussion board and everybody here has a right to reply with their own opinion, not necessarily yours. You don't need to be insulting or even reply to such posts.
I don't know or really care what your personal issues are. You almost always come off as a complete jerk. I get that I am one of your favorite targets of opportunity and that bothers me not one iota. But you really should realize that you aren't helping your image here by doing what you do.
Its funny that whenever I mention douchbag, you are right there to respond. Its like a dog whistle. Hmmm.. maybe the universe is trying to tell you something with that dynamic.
The OP asked about his cock blocking position. YOU had to bloviate about the dangers of STD's. Plenty of info on STD's on the newbie board which is often taken from the CDC site.
Sounds like you're the dude that the OP is asking about. Or is the OP's ATF your ATF as well and you're also into cock blocking?
Sounds like you did get fooled again. Thank you WHO.
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
As is obvious in my original reply to this thread, I am well aware that most of the sex that happens in the "real" world is BB. My point is that if you are playing in P4P and seeing a girl for the first time and you decide to go go bare back, you should absolutely, without fail get a current STD test. Instead of acknowledging that, you jump right into type and go off topic to insult just about everybody who posted here, in the most stupid and incomprehensible manner possible.
Your definition of a troll seems to be anybody who disagrees with you, or posts a question about a topic that bothers you. It doesn't really matter that the OP may be fabricated, it raises an important issue on a more or less public discussion board and everybody here has a right to reply with their own opinion, not necessarily yours. You don't need to be insulting or even reply to such posts.
I don't know or really care what your personal issues are. You almost always come off as a complete jerk. I get that I am one of your favorite targets of opportunity and that bothers me not one iota. But you really should realize that you aren't helping your image here by doing what you do.
Its funny that whenever I mention douchbag, you are right there to respond. Its like a dog whistle. Hmmm.. maybe the universe is trying to tell you something with that dynamic.
In my original reply, I expressed my opinion as to what he should do - talk to his buddy, etc. I get that you're the type of fellow that would consider people who are acquainted talking about a possible STD being spread among them as a "cock-blocking" issue. Believe me when I tell you that most of us are concerned about the health issues implicated in this thread. I suppose I could have just posted something like "see the newbie board for info on STDs", but I didn't. If that in some way upset you, too bad. There is a reason for the "ignore" button for people with lack of self control who are unable to that on their own. Please consider using it.
Question: Who is the "WHO" you keep referring to me as? You apparently think that calling me the World Health Organization is an insult. That makes perfect sense. Otherwise, what the fuck are you talking about with that?
Lastly, I don't know who the OP, his buddy or his ATF are or where they may operate. That underscores the importance of the health issue as applied to our anonymous little world doesn't it?
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Truncated canary bus...
Massively undeserved ego... He thinks he invented the wheel.
Jury is still out on whether he's a provider.
Angry so angry all the time.
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
In my original reply, I expressed my opinion as to what he should do - talk to his buddy, etc. I get that you're the type of fellow that would consider people who are acquainted talking about a possible STD being spread among them as a "cock-blocking" issue. Believe me when I tell you that most of us are concerned about the health issues implicated in this thread. I suppose I could have just posted something like "see the newbie board for info on STDs", but I didn't. If that in some way upset you, too bad. There is a reason for the "ignore" button for people with lack of self control who are unable to that on their own. Please consider using it.
Question: Who is the "WHO" you keep referring to me as? You apparently think that calling me the World Health Organization is an insult. That makes perfect sense. Otherwise, what the fuck are you talking about with that?
Lastly, I don't know who the OP, his buddy or his ATF are or where they may operate. That underscores the importance of the health issue as applied to our anonymous little world doesn't it?
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Don’t know when to quit gracefully instead digging deeper and deeper.
Continue to dig.
Says Mr Pot to Mr Kettle
Posted By: anonymousfun
Don’t know when to quit gracefully instead digging deeper and deeper.
Continue to dig.
You really do need to get out more...it's a bitch having to explain all of this to you.
Save your bloviating on STD's for the newbie board...some there might appreciate it. However whenever a BBFS thread shows up here there are those like you who need to go on a rant. Congrats...you accomplished whatever mission you were on.
As for the ignore button...I'll leave that to those who are incapable of simply not reading a post. Seems that is popular with the under 15 crowd?
I look forward to your babbling on the "Is my dick too small" thread. I suspect you'll have more scintillating advice for "us". Perhaps you have firsthand (pun intended) experience with that topic?
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
In my original reply, I expressed my opinion as to what he should do - talk to his buddy, etc. I get that you're the type of fellow that would consider people who are acquainted talking about a possible STD being spread among them as a "cock-blocking" issue. Believe me when I tell you that most of us are concerned about the health issues implicated in this thread. I suppose I could have just posted something like "see the newbie board for info on STDs", but I didn't. If that in some way upset you, too bad. There is a reason for the "ignore" button for people with lack of self control who are unable to that on their own. Please consider using it.
Question: Who is the "WHO" you keep referring to me as? You apparently think that calling me the World Health Organization is an insult. That makes perfect sense. Otherwise, what the fuck are you talking about with that?
Lastly, I don't know who the OP, his buddy or his ATF are or where they may operate. That underscores the importance of the health issue as applied to our anonymous little world doesn't it?
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None of it is very impressive. I especially like the usual bully tactic of throwing out an insult and then trying to "cock block" a reply by accusing me of not "bowing out gracefully". I think we have the makings of a new award: DBOTY! We got about seven months to go, but don't forget to vote for these three very obvious candidates!
Guess it's tough for you to see what a naive sort you are.
Won't get fooled again...yes you will!
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
None of it is very impressive. I especially like the usual bully tactic of throwing out an insult and then trying to "cock block" a reply by accusing me of not "bowing out gracefully". I think we have the makings of a new award: DBOTY! We got about seven months to go, but don't forget to vote for these three very obvious candidates!
It's been more than 4 months & he got tested recently. He is disease free!!! He also mentioned his buddy doesn't know his monger name! He thought that was pretty funny.
Way too convenient and nobody in their right mind believes in coincidence. Whether its bullshit in him sending you a PM (why you, at best a total stranger, just like the rest of us) or what he told you - its been four months and the OP decided just now to bring it up? - None of it passes the smell test.
Oh, by the way, your mother called me, she needs some cash...asked if I was up for some bbfs, I told her I would pass. I prefer safe sex with younger providers.
And hoping you'd take it literally.
that the "others" aren't interested in the health of themselves or their providers who they see.
the "others" are only interested in continuing their playground antics and refusing to grow up.
"cock-blocking", what the fuck? I am only concerned for the health of the provider in question. I couldn't care less if my friend ended up with STD, I don't want my provider getting it. It has nothing to do with me preventing her seeing other hobbyists, it's about stopping the spread of STD.
why isn't that a hard concept to grasp among the "others"?
Jinx, you're the only one that has posted a smart and responsible post in this thread.
The Forest Waits
Posted By: Jinx_The_Cat
Tell your hobby friend to get tested. Tell him that you would prefer that he not see you ATF until after he does. Note that he should wait about 6 weeks after he went BB with the backpage girl, to make the the agar in his petri dish is fully dosed. If he blows you off, then tell him you are going to tell your ATF not to see him. You don't need to go into specifics - just tell her you would prefer that she not see your buddy. She can make her own conclusions.
What people don't realize seems to be that every time you have sex with somebody, you are both having sex with everybody else that your partner has slept with. It's your health you are looking after, not just hers.
It amazes me that some of the douchbags on this board get so wrapped up in bashing each other's personalities or opinions that they lose sight of a serious health and safety issue that affects us all.
lol
