i do not like using toys on myself during the session usually unless i know it really turns on my partner  
i prefer the real flesh lol

no need to ask.  But if she's planning on using it on me, I'd appreciate her checking with me first.  

Reminds me of a date awhile ago where the provider told me she would like to use a Magic Wand in multiple ways, with each of us using it on the other. I tell ya, she was a master with that thing. And she enjoyed it immensely also.  

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If you're using it on yourself, go for it. If you plan on using anything on me, you damn well better ask first! 😊

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....and both times it was awesome. I have a quick release trigger, so using a vibrator on me will have me climaxing way too soon, so it has to be used with caution.

But I also enjoy using them on providers as well....and what woman doesn't love a nice vibe session to go along with that DATY?

I have thought about bringing my own toy to playdates, but I never remember when the time comes. I guess I gotta keep a 'pocket rocket' in my car's glove compartment for that next special occasion.

As we hit the bed. I found out over the years that's where many providers keep the toys. If I find anything, I usually ask if its for her, me or us.

Hair pulling, slapping or finger in butt for hookers, something you should ask first.

I've never had the vibrator treatment, but I've been in a few situations where her fingers have gone exploring without notice. I've reacted differently on each occasion, not always well. I definitely want to be asked so I can either decline or prepare myself

I ask first...

I always have toys with me but I do ask the gent first before pulling it out.
I like to use toys on myself sometimes and will use them if the gent is into it.
But some gents do not like toys so for that reason I ask.

Meet with a provider who while in K9 whipped out a vibrator which she proceeded to use on herself.  I thought it was fantastic.  Nice sensation.

Busted out toys hobbyists and sex workers.

Enjoy toys.

surprise and felling that a vibrator gave during session

I'm planning on a session sometime where I sit in a chair.  She sits on my cock with her back to my chest.  I reach around and use a vibrator on her so that I can feel her pulsing on my cock when she cums.  

a lady uses a favorite toy when she is with me. A vibrator, a (not too huge) strap on, restraints, anything that pleases her makes things so much more exciting for me. She is inviting me into her space and this is a generous gift to me.

I was starting to get interested in the transsexual women, but wasn't sure I could take it.  So I mentioned it to my ATF, and she was quite happy to "train me in" with vibrators and strap-ons.  It really turned her on, too, and she would go buck wild on me.