Has anyone ever had any luck with Adult Friend Finder.Com

Yes I have had a ton of success there...but then I am a provider. I get some of my best dates through there service and find that they are usually gentlemen and are interested in full evening or at least several hour appointments...as far as you men go look at the site statistics before bothering to join...the male to female ratio is hugely skewed...that why I think it has been so good for me.

As a provider (and I'm sure there are others), how do you recommend we respond to an ad that we think might be a provider?  I have tried to state "I'm financially secure" or "will spend $ on right things.

Any suggestions?

I was wondering if you find dates or clients? I am just curious I am a provider as well.
Be safe,
Kisses & Licks........
Mara of San Diego

As a hobbiest I have had mixed success. Providers are relatively easy to spot. They are looking for "generous gentlemen". The problem I have had with AFF is you have to sort through dozens of spam posts that lead you to pay sites or collect your address for mailing lists.
Whenever you respond just put generous in there somewhere and they will take it from there.
The one very large problem I have had with AFF is their e-mail system. It absolutely sucks! You would have a better average success rate with carrier pidgeons! I've had to send an e-mail as many as five times to get one through!
Good luck.

I just let my membership lapse, and I will not renew.  Here's why:

1.  Too many false posts and too many posts (looking for relationships, etc.) to muddle through.

2.  Many of the provider-type ads I came across struck me as rip-offs in the making and I just don"t care to chance this.

3.  TER is far and away a better place to do my shopping.  I post reviews so membership is free, and after a while I got the gist of what reviews really mean.

On the other side of the coin, I met probably the very best provider on Long Island through AFF, and continue to see her from time to time ( I also met the worst provider that doesn't fall into the rip-off category).

Good luck!

yes they are clients but they tend to feel more like dates than the clients I get from my other ads. When posting an ad there you have to be very careful about your wording or they will reject it....it's too bad because alot of men don't seem to get it and you have to sift through alot of e-mail to find the good ones...when you do they are usually great. There are alot of spammers there and I even had two accounts of mine high jacked by some hacking spammers so I was unable to send mail for weeks. The new mail system is terrible so I always insist on having there regular e-mail address.

Are there any other sites out there that providers use like AFF?

Thanks

Same here I get a majority of my clients from there also...I love it....and I'm a provider also..

There is a site called Escorts.com that opperates like AFF but all the lady's are providers so you know what you are getting. The operator's do a good job of verification so you don't have the SPAM to pay sites like you would on AFF. The e-mail system is annon and reliable. I don't know if there is a membership fee to join or not, but I think you get full access for free.

I tried for several months to hook up with someone using AFF.  The only woman I saw ended up being really scary looking (really old photos).  I am a reasonably good looking guy and normal.  Gave up a few months ago.  I enjoy the hobby instead....