Bey, this might be your calling. LOL. Perfect answers. You should go for it! Why not?
I am absolutely positive you have thought about this before. How would you run your business? Do you go on blind dates, or do you need to be physically attracted? Is vetting for your safety important? Would you have specific requirements?
Please share. What kind of hoe would you be? 😆 How to be a hoe by Velvet Jones. One of my ATF SNL shows...
But if I did, my pimp would be Velvet Jones.
This guy could fill us in:
Here;s who you need to hook up with...
It's hard to really imagine as someone who is paying to fuck, what I would be like if I was the one getting paid. My math says if she is attractive and good in the bedroom, free would be a HUGE net positive from what I pay now lol.
And no, I have never thought of this because it's so far from reality. Okay, maybe not so far. When I was 19 I had an older broad offer to pay me for sex and I said yes. When we were finished she asked if I still wanted payment and I said, "No, I'm good." So, I sucked at it the one time I did it.
But if the money is good, I can handle a woman I am not physically attracted to with limits. Good hygiene, not drunk or on drugs, not sickly looking, and not really bad skin. By really bad skin, I'm talking pimples all over. I can handle a small reasonable amount. I can handle overly skinny, on the heavy side, and even disabled.
Vetting for safety should be important, but if I'm a dude being booked by ladies, I'm a little less worried than if it was the other way around. I used to hook up with randos on Myspace and Craigslist back in the day. This wasn't pay for play. This was meet and hook-up. I didn't vet them for safety. Nothing went terribly wrong.
I would definitely be low volume. If I fuck too much it might hurt my dick lol. Also, I feel like orgasms would be less pleasant if I'm having multiples a day, every day. I had girlfriends where we fucked like rabbits in my late teens and 20s. But I'm no spring chicken any more. I'd probably want 2-3 clients a week tops. I would also prefer longer sessions.
Batta,
Thanks for playing. If you're going to be low volume, you're going to need a "sell". What's gonna be the center of your advertising?
-K
I’m already well versed in side hustles, so I surely won’t rely on income solely from escorting. Also, as a man with 3 degrees, I will certainly market my ability to be a great public date no matter the occasion.
You haven't mentioned age. Would you have an age limit? You might not NEED as much of a side hustle as you think... I strongly advise them or you'll go insane and/or become a drunk or a druggie. IMHO.
The 3 degrees will help with PILLOW TALK/ BFE. I don't care how others see you, if I think you're a dunce and can't converse with you then it'll be a short session.
Overnights? Trips? If you're only giving it up 2-3x/week, what are you gonna do if they want to take you for a weekend or longer? You're gonna end up like that Deputy Sugarbaby 🤣🤣🤣
btw, I see your answers as honest. 🤷🏾♀️
I would be very flexible with age but not limitless. If it were guys I would probably not want to deal with under 30. But you ladies mature much younger so I’m thinking 21. The upper limit, I’m not sure I would have one. At least not to start. It’s not like I have experience banging 80+ year olds. But I think I can handle it.
And yes, absolutely will help with pillow talk. I’m educated, don’t do drugs, and hardly drink. BFE would 100% be part of what I would market.
And overnights, weekends, and longer absolutely are on the table. Those fit into my longer sessions model. But it cannot be fucking 2-3 times a day for an extended period of time. I would need recovery for my Johnson.
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Bey, this might be your calling. LOL. Perfect answers. You should go for it! Why not?
If only it were that easy. The volume of ladies that are interested in a 54 year old dad bod would not be enough. Sure, I would probably work harder to get more fit. But I actually have a good job with good benefits.
But it's just a side hustle... ONE is a profit... So, go for it. People would be amazed the bodies that people wanna see.
With the ED, one flare up and you wouldnt be making any cash dude! You didnt think this through...
I'd never go against the Queen. Nope. 👎🏾
But I legit think that they've never thought about it. Give them a chance! I love this game! It's like a good cocktail convo or M&G question.
btw, in the past few days, you've been KILLING it with the threads! Keep it up!
Your Greatest Fan, Stan, j/k. (couldn't help myself)
Love you Lady, Katie
I'd be terrible. Unless I had a penis implant or all my clients were at least an 8/10 I'd couldn't perform.
I would definitely charge a hefty sum. At least a cool grand per hour. No doubt. Five hundo in advance just to secure the date. I only bang nines and tens. Sorry. I have standards. Untouched photos while holding up a copy of that days newspaper as proof. A la carte offerings such as GFE, foot massages, you get to give me a BBBJ, you have the honor and pleasure of having me plaster your face with my spooge, etc.
Never give it away when ya know what yer worth, baby!
I'd probably be the Gentleman Next Door (GND) or Girlfriend's Husband I'd Like to Fuck (GHILF) type. I know to pull out a lady's chair for her, to open a door for her, and to dress like a professional (when everyone else at work had switched to casual, I was still wearing tailor-made suits), and I can hold a conversation about anything short of nuclear physics. Ive been in terrific shape all of my adult life and I like to think I have a warm smile and kind eyes, so while I'm not going to make People's Sexiest Man Alive, I think I might get consistent 7s and 8s. I'm a pretty good listener and observer, so I think I'd score high on being attentive and responsive to the lady's desires. And (presuming chemicals could get my dick to work like it did when I was 19), a solid fuck and MSOG would be on the menu.
But here's the problem: I have a male ego. As much as I'd like to think I'm above the judgments of others, the first time I got a 5/5 ("He was plain, he told Dad jokes, he wasn't packing a baseball bat between his legs--what kinda black guy is this?--(although he laid pretty good pipe with what he had), and he only fucked me twice in 2 hours. And bless his heart, but his DATY barely got me wet."), I'd be done. I just know I don't have a thick enough skin for anything like this. You women are way tougher than most of us guys. Hell, I barely made it through most of my performance reviews at work, and they were uniformly great. Being graded is tough on the ego.
So, I'd be a thoughtful, giving, fun-to-be-around, hardworking GND/GHILF man-ho . . . for about a week.🤣
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I have a clarifying question. Do we assume we would be women providers, or are we going to be male gigolo’s? If I was a woman and a provider, I’d be a dominatrix provider.
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I’d wear a lot of latex and leather. I also would never get penetrated. The only ones getting penetrated would be my clients. They’d be getting pegged by my gigantic, black, plastic/rubber strap-on cock. I would specialize in name-calling and degradation. I feel like pro-dommes have the best deal. Most of their clients are loaded, they charge top dollar, they can be selective, and many times they never even have to fuck their clients. It may be mentally taxing and being a good Domme isn’t easy but I think it is one of the best jobs in this line of work.
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If we’re still men then the only realistic response for any of us is gay escort. There aren’t many women willing to pay a man for sex but there are a lot of gay men willing to pay a man for sex.
Just clarifying & I love your honesty. Domina 😈
Well, that literally changes everything I said lol. You did not say that in your original post. I assumed I am still me, which is a male. Maybe now we understand why you didn't think my answers were honest and they actually were.
Complete honesty, I could not imagine being a woman provider. Too much I don't know about being a WOMAN to honestly answer that question.
It's like, I'm paying for sex for so many reasons of what it means to be a man engaging my desires with women. But if I was a woman, if I wanted sex, I wouldn't not have to worry about the same things. Maybe different things. Maybe things that wouldn't naturally cross my manly mind. But now I am also supposed to suspend my horny ass desire to want sex bad enough to pay for it and be able to restrain my desires, or not have the same desires, to the point where I command money for it. The very idea is blowing my mind lol. We are not built the same.
It's too much of a leap here. Like he hits said, everything we know about sex is thru our experiences as males with all our hormones and biological advantages/disadvantages
Would I even be so much of a sex addict if I were female? Tough to say. Would it be great to experience a female orgasm? I bet. But alas.
This is why I think you really should keep it to a seller/buyer relationship. Keeping it to seller/buyer prevents sellers from playing the misogyny card, as many don't like to take accountability as a seller and instead rather pretend people have issues with who you are rather than how you do business.
Whereas most clients issues in this biz are overwhelming seller/buyer issues at their core. False advertising, ghosting, outing of pii, deposit scams, rates etc have absolutely nothing to do with gender and everything to do with how business is conducted.
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Good day all
I just knew reading this, I would see the word “ I would definitely charge a deposit”.
I was looking for “ I would charge a cancellation fee splashed everywhere in this thread”
Happy Sunday
I would be the organized one. Have clear forms to set up contact with a price list. Also I would do a request menu option so it’s clear what I will do and not do. Also require everyone to do a consent screener which would let me know what my client is into or what’s a hard stop. Do it online pre meeting. Deposit and screening are a must. Reference preferred.