I saw an agency provider and things was going well in the session. After my first pop, I still have about 25mins left in the session and I was still horny. So I ask for a second pop and offer another $100 ( A lot of agency provider want 1pop and they are done.... they will massage you or talk to you, her rate was $400). Anyway, she said sure with the 2nd pop and we went at it again, and this time during miss, we were really into it and the condom broke (this was a second condom of course). I honestly did not know that it broke till I was pumping hard and my johnson slip out and we noticed that the tip of the condom broke. And obviously she freak out...We stopped and she ran to the bathroom and washed up. She knew it was an accident but she was upset. I appolgized and told her that I am clean (I am). Anyway she wanted both of us to get tested, she called her agency right away. I wanted to be a gentleman and said ok. So the next day, I came back picked her up and took her to a clinic and she wanted both of us to get tested ( that was another $650 with rush results ). The provider was touring and did not know the city at all, so I spend another day getting tested and the results came back in 2 days. Any we saw each other again after we got our results and we swap test results (the text results went to our own emails). All of my test were negative and she was relief. And we had another session and I paid another $400. And we said our goodbyes after. 2 weeks later, I saw another girl from this agency and the tip of the condom broke again...WTF, I told her you can call the agency and check with them, I was just tested 2weeks ago and I am clean....But this time the girl was pretty cool and she did not freak out ( her english was not the best ). My question is does this happen often...Condoms breaking? I am curious to think what other providers' think about what I did or did not do......and what the guys think....? I have been hobbying for about 3 yrs and the condom broke only 1other time with a regular provider. I am not sure if the agency girls uses cheap condoms...? Anyway this has put a damper on my hobbying lately.......I want to be up front that it is not my intension to have bbfs... I enjoy sex and want safe sex.....
1) When applying the condom be sure to pinch that weird nipple thing so there is some “slack” at the tip. This allows room for your head to swell (which is inevitable just before release) and also acts as a reservoir for the resulting baby batter.
2) Use more lube! Friction undermines the integrity of condoms. Even if a lady says she doesn’t need it, the condom does! You can easily grab a handful of the single use lube packets from any adult store in any city. The packets fit easily in a pocket/wallet so you aren’t constantly wasting money on full size bottles of lube. Ideally bring 1-water based & 1-silicone based because women have different preferences.
You are having tragic accidents which are most risky. Check the brand and quality of the Condoms,Friction is the main reason for Condom break and other reason oil based lubricant applied on latex condom makes it venerable for breakage.Good luck and be safe
To add to this, use condoms that fit. I used They Fit condoms from the UK until they became available in the US as My One. Condoms are one size fits all. XL doesn’t get larger in diameter, just longer...little help to a gurthy guy. These companies offer many sizes.
I don’t have issues anymore with condoms slipping off, cutting off circulation, lack of feel or breaks. When they fit correctly, they’re great. Throw on a drop of lube before putting it on too for a more natural feel. It’s after and feels better. It’s a win win
Posted By: MadisonMalone
Re: Couple of simple condom tips 1) When applying the condom be sure to pinch that weird nipple thing so there is some “slack” at the tip. This allows room for your head to swell (which is inevitable just before release) and also acts as a reservoir for the resulting baby batter.
2) Use more lube! Friction undermines the integrity of condoms. Even if a lady says she doesn’t need it, the condom does! You can easily grab a handful of the single use lube packets from any adult store in any city. The packets fit easily in a pocket/wallet so you aren’t constantly wasting money on full size bottles of lube. Ideally bring 1-water based & 1-silicone based because women have different preferences.
STDs take at LEAST 2 days and UP TO 2 weeks to show up on tests. You cannot have unprotected sex and get tested immediately after, if you were clean before you will still be clean. You need to wait at least a week if not to to know whether you really caught something.
Wait a second... You said, " I have been hobbying for about 3 yrs and the condom broke only 1 other time with a regular provider. I am not sure if the agency girls uses cheap condoms...? "
If you have been doing this regularly for 3 yrs and only had this happen once before AND used agency provided condoms both times they broke, it seems there is a high probability they are using cheap condoms or those condoms are old or should be recalled. I would contact the agency and let them know this happened twice and perhaps ask them if they have been giving out the same brand condoms to all of their ladies. Also let both of those ladies know it happened twice, so they are at least informed and can get their own protection. The agency may may be unaware of the issue. For everyone's safety, please let them know and perhaps bring your own protection if meeting with any of their providers from their agency for your own safety.
I am a certified professional test counselor and the window period is 3 months after an exposure, for HIV testing. If you have a condom breakage go to your DR within 72 hrs and get a 28 day supply of PEP which is the same medication as PREP, Pre-exposure prophylaxis and you take it for 28 days and you won't get HIV. Of course, you still need a complete std screening.
The good news is US sex workers have great condom usage, actually, our recent research shows that they have better condom usage than the general public. 45% of the general public has never been tested. Another study showed that between 2003 and 2009 when Rhode Island decriminalized, gonorrhea went down 40% and rape went down 30% for the entire state. http://scunning.com/august_2017.pdf The most important thing is that people act responsibly when there is a condom breakage and go get tested and then retested again in 3 months. Most providers are experts on their sexual health and providers probably provide more education on the topic. Any local org can get free condoms from the health dept. Coyote RI gets 3000 condoms a month, plus lube and 100 female condoms and condom dispensers every month. We also provide free HIV and Hep C testing for our local community. This is why hobbyist should be supporting their local sex worker rights organizations.
With older tests, 3 months is accurate, as those test compose the bulk of what tests are offered and are antigen tests, which require the body to build the antibodies necessary to test for. However, there are a growing body of testing centers that are switching to NAT’s where possible, which detect viral/bacterial DNA instead of antigens produced by the immune system, within 72hrs (CDC currently lists these as accurate from 7-28days for margin of error) .
So it’s dependent on what specific test protocol was used..
I've had this happen twice and both times told the provider that I felt it break and that we had to stop ASAP. What's interesting is that one of them kept going and I had to insist we stop (she was on top).
I've had times it felt like the condom broke and hadn't, but I still pulled out to make sure. That's called winning the lottery and works well if you put a few drops of lube on your johnson prior to putting the condom on. Also, I agree with the other posters--make sure you have some room at the end of the condom--this cuts down on breakage dramatically. That said, my take is that if it's the agencies condom, it's there responsibility. You showed up, paid your fees, and acted like every other guy they see. I would have been willing to take the test, just not pay $650 for rush results. That's fucking crazy, and I'm amazed you did that. At the very least, they provided the condom and should have split the cost. Unbelievable...
You're completely right,. I was really suggesting the bare minimum of waiting a week, but HIV might not show up for 6 months. but is also very unlikely compared to other stds, which are more likely to show up within that week period.
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