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Junk-Yard-Dog 874 reads
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he should ask BiB he gets rejected all the time.

escalade19642524 reads

Are you upset or do you just try to book with another?

Your thoughts if any?

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CaitlynKennedy944 reads

move on to the next lady!

Posted By: escalade1964
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BigPeterJohnson634 reads

but it's nothing to get upset about.  

this is the most personal of all impersonal transactions.  in essence, a provide who rejects you is telling you "i'm not interested in being your fantasy, whether it's because of you or the fantasy, but count me out."

but so what?  you haven't (or you shouldn't have) invested any emotional energy towards her, and she you.  it didn't work out, no big whoop.  move on.

if you find someone that you click with, then by all means see her a lot and enjoy her.  but after a while if she stops returning your email, again, no big whoop.  there's tons of women out there that are willing to see you.

i have just had the 3rd provider is a row cancel a date on me.  am i upset? no.  are my balls blue?  yes.  but i am working on seeing another lady soon (review to follow, boys!)

the worst that happened to me was a provider that i thought i clicked with, whom i had seen twice, suddenly stopped returning my emails and my texts.  i was considering her for my coveted atf-status in my head when suddenly she stopped communications with me, while still posting ads on the board (so i knew she was in town and available).

it stung a little, but then i thought back and remembered that indeed she was a little hard to get a hold of, and actually missed a date once (with excuses and a make up date, so i didn't think a thing about it).  looking the whole situ over, i decided the red flags were there from the beginning, i just didn't bother to see them.

another man wiser than me on these boards said "this is the land of 'next!' " and he is right.  it ain't like she's your girl friend or your wife or anything.  she's a good time and that's it.

dude get a girl friend if you want someone to get hung up about.  in the end they are more satisfying emotionally.  this stuff here is just shallow good times (not that theres' anything wrong with that).

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CaitlynKennedy910 reads

Why would you want to see a woman who doesn't want to see you? In the back of your head you will know shes faking, and it is not real... how can that possibly be fun??

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AwGoFuckYourself906 reads

He has some rope for you.

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Junk-Yard-Dog875 reads

he should ask BiB he gets rejected all the time.

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GaGambler791 reads

I am sure I can find a short rope for a long fall for the OP.

Now if we could only get the Dungbeetle near one of those open windows the day would be a complete success. lmao

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AwGoFuckYourself688 reads

But I'm sure he'll be back soon, addicted as he is to abuse.  Even so, I have no wish he use the rope as he's fairly harmless and merely pathetic and annoying.  Unlike the toxic Sirpenis/herpius.

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SinCitySinner698 reads

So Dungbettle might be in hibernation...

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GaGambler625 reads

But he wasn't the rope type anyhow, he was more of an "available fourth floor open window" type of guy, but he needs to hang out in taller buildings.

Of course if the stars aligned perfectly he could land right on top of herpius at the very moment that the OP chooses to use his length of rope, Now that would be hitting the trifecta.

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lungman702 reads

Say what??

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Alex_Lombardi958 reads

Aside from her rejection... I'm sure you didn't send her a vulgar e-mail or nasty voice mail. Did you check out her Awareness/Etiquette page? Men would be surprised at some of the ladies Do's and Don'ts before a first time introduction. If that wasn't the case, move on. Its a buyer's market. She just fucked herself out of making money. No pun intended.  

Regards,

Alex

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ArthurDent848 reads

... don't take it personally and move on.  There are way too many great ladies out here to obsess over one.

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sympathyforthedevil901 reads

You can beg for pussy, you can pay for pussy but don't EVER beg to pay for pussy.

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Crazy Diamond837 reads

Just doesn't respond to e-mails or calls?  Best to just move on either way.

Last time I got "rejected" was a last minute cancellation in NYC via text.  She sent this while I was in transit, and I didn't see it until I had parked.  It was a rainy January evening, and there was little I could do except drive home.  When I got back, I had received an e-mail from another friend in response to a post I had made about it being doubtful that I would be going to AVN related M&G's the next day in Vegas,  She said she hoped I would be going, and to contact her ASAP.  I immediately reconsidered, as the lady in question was one of my ATF's that I had not seen in several months.  Her reply to my text was almost instantaneous, and an hour later, hotel and flight reservations were set.  Two great M&G's that week-end, and I spent two delightful evenings with my friend catching up.  

Looking back, getting "rejected" in NYC that night was a blessing, as I would have stayed home had that not happened, and missed a great week-end.  So, getting "rejected" isn't necessarily bad, it's how you respond that matters most.

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derkommisar904 reads

I've never met a provider that rejected me; it was the providers that never met me that rejected me. Cancelled too early, cancelled too late, got lost...

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mistressjessica969 reads

1. The chemistry is just not there. 2. There could be to much chemistry on one side or both. 3. your reference did not check out. 4. YOUR just a pest.........

In any case.. Don't take it personal.. We get rejected all the time....
Actually,, if you think about it. Isn't the variety part of the reason why most of you hobby anyway...
We like variety too!

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FIDCUOF667 reads

Like CIvvies....many others out there....like a bus, when you miss one....one will come around in about 5 mins.

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quadseasonal728 reads

Nothing to be upset about .
 I  save $$$$$$$$$$  for a provider with  better taste .  :-D
   

Posted By: escalade1964
Are you upset or do you just try to book with another?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

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Posted By: escalade1964
Are you upset or do you just try to book with another?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

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Jacque_Jenesais690 reads

Everyone has a choice. If she's rejecting you, consider yourself part of the rest of the world. You'll get that anywhere you go, no matter who you are. (Speaking of the general population only).

Move on and let it roll off your back. If you're getting too attached, consider it a good thing she's ending the attachment. It's never good to become attached in a situation where the outcome will never end the way you want it.

Move on and find a rebound.

Good luck.

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Panthera12779 reads

I haven't been rejected yet. However, if the time comes I will count it as her loss, not mine. There is plenty of pussy to go around.

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GaGambler836 reads

but it is possible that I was and just never noticed because I am not exactly the "wait by the phone for her to call" kind of guy, so it's possible that I've been rejected, but by the time she rejected me i had moved so far down the road I never noticed. lol

Now in the civvie world? Yes, lot's of times. Anyone who says he hasn't is either lying or just never tries.

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SinCitySinner830 reads

In Hookerland, I get rejections too.. Mostly because of my big mouth, and most are afraid that they will get review from me that's bad.. I don't write bad reviews.. I just write honest reviews...

I have learned in life that rejections are part of life.  

NO just means New Opportunity...

The game from baseball should teach everyone anything they need to know about rejections.  If you get a hit 3 out of 10 times you are doing alright.. If you get one 4 out of 10 times, you are out of this world.. If you can sustain that your entire career... Hmm.. No one has done that yet.. :D

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GaGambler603 reads

Rejection is simply part of life,I've never believed in "playing it safe" so I've been rejected thousands of times, I've also scored more than a few. lol

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Panthera12642 reads

Yes, in the civvie world, many times. I set a high bar in real life too, and have been rejected. I expect that when I consider that I am hitting on civvies who are usually at least 10 to 15 years younger then me. I don't get insulted, I just move on to the next and say, "oh well, I tried".

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GaGambler649 reads

so I am in even worse shape than you. The oldest acceptable age for me is still a good 20-25 years younger than me. So yes, rejection is to be accepted in the civvie world. As for hookers, I can't really imagine being rejected, I have all of my teeth, most of my hair, I know how to wash my ass and i weigh well under 200. I can't really see a hooker, unless she hates me from this board of course, every turning me down. but if it ever happens, I doubt that I will spend more than a minute pondering the why of it. Who knows, it might have already happened and I was too busy fucking someone else to notice.lol

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quadseasonal928 reads

I agree except I'm over 200 .   In the civvie world ,  half my age + -  five  years is a good range .  As long as she  doesn't call  me Daddy I don't care if she's  searching for a Father figure .
   
  If I make it to eighty I'll be content  with forty year old providers  , no sense  wasting my energy on civilians at that age   .  :-D  
  I don't imagine many forty year old civilian women looking for an eighty year old  Father figure ,  unless he's Daddy Warbucks .  
   
  If being turned down by a hooker is her not returning my call or email  ,  it's happened a few times .  
   With civilians it's happened many  more than a few times .  
  Civilian or provider  I leave one message  , unless I'm really interested I might call back in six months .
  Like you , I have other things to do besides redial . :-D
   
     

Posted By: GaGambler
so I am in even worse shape than you. The oldest acceptable age for me is still a good 20-25 years younger than me. So yes, rejection is to be accepted in the civvie world. As for hookers, I can't really imagine being rejected, I have all of my teeth, most of my hair, I know how to wash my ass and i weigh well under 200. I can't really see a hooker, unless she hates me from this board of course, every turning me down. but if it ever happens, I doubt that I will spend more than a minute pondering the why of it. Who knows, it might have already happened and I was too busy fucking someone else to notice.lol

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GaGambler677 reads

I promise not to tell anyone else, except for the entire board. lol

Bashing Asscalade is one of our favorite pastimes, don't hold out on us if you have something relevant, and juicy. lol

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