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ABosoxFan 16 Reviews 1333 reads
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As a newbie to the hobby, having only seen a couple of providers, I have a question which may have been asked before.
When other providers contact you for references concerning a past hobbyist you have seen, is there ever a time that you are actually jealous that he is interested in seeing someone else? Or is this a occupational numbness where you don't really even think about it? I would think if the guy really turned you on or you honestly enjoyed his company that there has to be some feelings of hurt, loss or even maybe a question in your mind concerning whether you satisfied him!
The reason I am asking is because I gave a touring provider that I am hoping to see, info on a young lady in my area that I saw a few months ago. We had a great time, or at least I did. That's also the impression I got from her! I guess I am feeling guilty. May have to do with my Italian heritage.
Or maybe this is a stupid question to begin with!!

sweetnicole1449 reads

I always give references no problem...and they always come back to play with me as well.
This hobby is about variety really, I don't own them They are not my BFs they are though a great deal of them, my friends and I have no misgivings that they are leaving me to play with their wives, lovers GFs, as well as other Ladies who may want a reference.
It's really not like that its a relationship seperate from others. We are together for a short time to share some great times and some Great Passions as well. We both know it will not be a commitment so there is no jealiousy to be had.
We All benefit from references so its a give AND take. My Atf may want to see another Lady and I gladly send my reguards as well as high praises. At the same time another ladys Atf may want to see me.  Its all good.

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Sasha_Emberdale318 reads

then where on earth can you.

I think of guys hobbying as a metaphorical, Flavor of the Week club.  Sure providers and hobbyist have relationships that may be close but if ever anyone was to feel guilty about seeing another provider then, honestly, what would be the point?

But on my behalf, no refernces dont hurt me they help a friend i had an prior experience with.

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xxanabella343 reads

Your a sweetheart ha!
This is not a stupid question,
Honestly, I have never felt that way but on the other hand you are totally right in the respect that- if he is a guy I enjoyed... then that would pose a different response! Also depends on the provider. Some enjoy it and some see it only as business.

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hope my response helps somewhat!
btw. I'm half Italian!

xx

Anabella

Related Link: http://eros-ny.com/files/ny-anabella4-anabella1-vip.htm

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sweetamanda371 reads

I would never continue seeing someone I felt was getting jealous over me, and I would never get jealous over a client. Were I to feel those feelings, I would need to take a step back and add some distance anyway.

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xxmeowbabyxx278 reads

I certainly would not call it occupational numbness. Has nothing to do with being aloof or numb. We/I don't get jealous because there is nothing to be jealous of. It's the hobby. Not the dating scene.

I am very reference friendly. I will even make suggestions if the gent is traveling as to ladies I would reccomend. It's all in fun. If a lady finds herself being jealous, she is in the wrong game.

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SexyMadelineShaw380 reads

Chooch.

No there was not a time I was Jealous.

There is no room for hurt feelings in this profession, and no crying in baseball.

Don't feel guilty and don't read to much into things.  

Remember this is a fun fantasy.

Is chooch short for chocha?  I know what a chocha is do you?
LOL

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ABosoxFan334 reads

Means Jackass in Italian slang..LOL A nickname my Grandmother from the old country gave me. I being second generation American thought it meant something sweet until I was around 12. Had a vet once with "chooch" for my license plate. Got a lot of beeps on the highway.
Thanks for answering my question. I never felt jeoulous but just guilty wondering what she was thinking. From now on, I will just love them and leave them and maybe love them again! My GOD, wish I had found this hobby long ago. Will be making up for lost time now :)

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