there are probably as many reasons for seeking out companionship on a site like this as there are gentlemen who do so.
probably when you're younger and more of the raging-biology disposition, you just wanna slam something; get your rocks off. you'll likely even get aroused thinking about sticking your stiff one in the mud. in other words, a woman is just an object. but when one gets a little older, connection and chemistry become much more important qualities in terms of the companions one seeks.
counting all my encounters, I'd estimate that I've had maybe a dozen PSE's and many more GFE's. But in my experience, the two are pretty much _mutually exclusive_. and I have my own theory about why.
I think I've had only one PSE that was a true GFE. that was long ago and she's long since retired from this activity, most likely b/c she was such a great GFE that she got snatched up on a permanent basis by some lucky gent.
otherwise, the PSE's I've had, both past and present, have all been ultimately disappointing. these kinds of encounters may be ideal for certain types of guys, just not me. the reason? for me, PSE girls are all about RECEIVING. GFE girls are much better at GIVING.
a PSE, because of her experience offering herself in all different ways, will continue in that stead in the types of encounters facilitated by places like TER. and b/c these women are so high priced, they're generally open to most or all of the same acts/positions you see them perform on screen. they're usually "sweet" and "nice" people too. but to me, that rarely equates to GFE. a PSE may see her encounter as an act of giving on her part but in most cases all she's really doing is receiving.
a true GFE is not only a receiver, but a GIVER as well. she makes you feel special, intimate. she arouses you not only by her looks, her scent and her willingness to physically engage, but also by the intimate, unspoken connection she naturally creates and makes grow. as a bonus, she's most often less than half the price of a PSE, meaning you are much more likely to want to see her again and again to re-experience and reinforce that special relationship.
i share these thoughts b/c i no longer care to review my encounters, which are private and special. so unless b/c of business reasons a provider wishes me to "get the word out," i prefer to keep it private and special.
for gents who might be testing the waters here, or for those who may not yet have found satisfaction in terms of their provider experiences, i'd recommend deciding exactly what you want, what you're looking for, before opening your wallet and possibly becoming extremely disappointed.
not making any judgment about either a PSE girl or a guy who wants a PSE for the sake of the chase, e.g., "I did it with so-and-so." if that's all they want, a fantasy release, they'll likely find mega-satisfaction. but i'd hope they're not doing it out of unfaithfulness to someone else. because even if you think you're okay doing so, even if it's an occasional one-and-done, you can't hide from your own conscience --- unless you're a sociopath. it is not cool to create a circle of unwitting victims.
otherwise, single, divorced, widowed or unattached gentlemen who want an immersive, give-and-receive experience with a woman who's beautiful inside as well as outside, even if it's for a fleeting hour or two or on occasions, will be far more pleased by seeking out GFE's instead of PSE's.
IMHO.
