I have to admit there is something about knowing I "control" this woman for an hour that is more sexually stimulating to me than actually penetrating her vaginally, orally or anally.

in my mindspace, sex is about power as much as anything else -

Contacting your ATF and ASKING her if she would "meet SOME of your demands," and settling for her agreeing to wear a dog collar and leash, is NOT power. Power is when you know she will do what you want and not having to ask her permission.

I actually feel that the women or providers I am with have the power.  If they ask me to stop doing something because they are not comfortable with it, I immediately stop and respect their wishes.  Forcing a woman is definitely NOT the idea of meeting a provider, imo.  Now, I have done roleplay where I act as though I am in power, but there again it is just illusionary because a "safe" word is agreed upon where both the provider and myself can stop the scene immediately.

I hobby to enjoy sexual variety with beautiful women.  I tend to be with women that genuinely enjoy what they are doing, and share that delight with me.  I don't feel "control" over them, any more than I feel control over any other woman in my life.  I treat them as equal partners, as I would for any woman outside of this industry. No difference. I know that these women appreciate my behavior, and our encounters get better and more intimate each time.  Some of you may scoff and say they are paid to do that, and that's your right. I know what I know.

You sound like a Dom. And, a fun One at that. Rawr! What else do you like?

Posted By: Ridgetucky

I have to admit there is something about knowing I "control" this woman for an hour that is more sexually stimulating to me than actually penetrating her vaginally, orally or anally.  
   
 Can't explain it but just knowing that I have purchased another human being and I get to use her for an hour is DAMN THRILLING.  
   
 Do you get turned on by giving a woman sexual directions?  Like OK now blow me, or now let's fuck or get on top.  The power inherent in ordering a woman around is FUCKING MIND BLOWING TO ME  
   
 I honestly think I could pay a woman $300 and just stare at her naked for the entire 60 minutes and not even fuck her, tell her no talking and don't look at me and I would be happy.  
   
 I contacted my ATF about 2 months ago and asked if she would meet some of my demands.  She only agreed to one (wearing a dog collar and leash).  But knowing that she at least considered the others (pulling her hair, calling her slut and bitch, writing on her body with lipstick) gave me a serious fucking hard-on.  
   
 Does that sound crazy or is it just me?  
   
 RT  
   
 

I think he is "hoping" that other people are just as fucked up as he is, so he can feel a bit less "fucked up" Unfortunately, even around a sick bunch like us, he still has more issues than ten average hookers/johns put together.

Why the fuck would I want to own another human being? Fuck, I don't even want to own a dog, too much responsibility, I'll stick to renting a nice warm, sexy body for a brief time instead.

He makes it difficult not to speculate on what's buried in his backyard (or, what might be in the future).

.. Your ATF if she would oblige, and she only agreed to a few of your requests.. Proves that you have no "control" over the situation or girl period. Glad you posted tho. Ter can be a very informative screening tool for girls.

But there is a lot of "power" play on both sides, especially on the provider side. There are many damaged providers who are secretly man haters and feel empowered by having males pay them for their often times only prize to compensate for their real life failures.  

But seriously,

There is a difference between having power over someone (And as an aside, you really don't.) and being empowered, which is to say, feel the advantage of using your faculties in a way that not only empowers you, but the other person as well.

The former is the power trip that strips one of their humanity so they end up an empty and pathetic shell.

The later is what makes a great society.

Now choose wisely.

What you do is what she allows you to do. How you do it is how she allows you to do it. That you feel like you're in control is simply a testament to her skills.

No. Power is when you ask for permission for what you want, and she agrees.  

Then of course you have hobbyists who crawl on their knees or are lap dogs in real life and it carries over into the hobby as well. Some men have forgotten how to be men.

I surmise that you honestly think that RT would give his handle if he was seeking a session...with you or any one else.

Maybe this will help those who don't know what being a good man is..

and yeah, sex is fun - as is meeting interesting ladies.  Sex first then chit-chat is a nice reversal.  I've already had a lifetime of great conversations, so nice to switch things up and have a good romp, talk a bit, then enjoy another round.  For the most part, I've met women who are truly engaged and just fun to be with and talk to also.  Good times.  No complaints.

I only popped that there because P12 mentioned some men don't know how to be a man and I wanted to know what it constituted. So off I went and found these two links.

My bad, didn't realize "hobbiests" could post reviews under an alias.  
And no worries about falling.. I'd jump if it kept me clear of your kind

Where do you find the links to this crap; The locker room wall at your local YMCA?

http://www.ehow.com/facts_5148499_qualities-good-woman.html and another

You mean a dude that isn't afraid to post here?

Posted By: TaylorLeighxxx

My bad, didn't realize "hobbiests" could post reviews under an alias.  
 And no worries about falling.. I'd jump if it kept me clear of your kind

Thanks for your researching it for all of us.  I noticed that self-respect and confidence are common factors in being a good man or woman.  Makes perfect sense.

The idea is to initiate what your partner will allow. Like if you want her to undress, and you take off her shoes. She'll either allow that or she won't. If she doesn't want to take her clothes off, well okay, you went for a power trip and failed. If she allows it, and takes off the rest of her clothes... That's something else. It's not about taking. It's about her giving. Just like for her, it's not about TAKING my money, it's about me freely giving it.

Something for everyone.

Were you been hiding?  How do I get you in the restraints with the ball gag?  

How she managed to bully all those guys into giving her damn near perfect scores?

As for her perfect scores... I'll guess BBFS.  At her age it's the only plausible conclusion.

She can def pass for under 50.

Taylor Leigh is a top notch provider! She is VERY beautiful, much more than her pic represent! BBFS???? REALLY??? Not with this lady nor many of the other ones you  try to insult! AGAIN I will ask WTF you are even doing here? AND AGAIN I will ask why you not just go fuck yourselves and save the ladies you obviously hate the trouble? I am at a loss for words really! I know all fun and games right? Wrong MFer's! You BOTH are totally fucked up individuals.  
TL AND TL

already.  But nice to know you confirm it!!!!

You know she doesn't do BBFS?  Are you there for each and every session?  

her services makes her your slave for an hour ... what does you getting paid by your "bank" make YOU?

It's difficult for me to imagine sex without companionship. Well, actually I CAN imagine it, but I can't imagine it being very good.

So you are sticking up for her b/c she is VERY beautiful? What if she was just "merely" beautiful? Or dare I say it but...average looking! Oh no!

A shitstirrer.

So cute for the sake of you guys not heading to bed all angry with your panties in a bunch, I'll just apologize.  
I apologize for being an attractive gal (in my early 30s, really) who charges 500-600 an hour for services rendered.. because my body is better than most in their 20s. I apologize for never advertising or appeasing jackasses, like yourselves, on Ter because my dance card is always full. I apologize for being able to psychoanalyze people from the posts they write (because my IQ is much higher than yours). Furthermore, I sincerely apologize for the poor decisions that you've made in life that cause you to go down a road where you feel the need to bash me for not being as BSC as you.  
Have a wonderful weekend

Is this the bizzaro world? Correct me if I'm wrong here, and I could be b/c it's a quarter to 2 in the morning and I'm liquored up a bit but...aren't YOU the hooker? LOL  

Nah, I'm good but I hear that TJ Maxx offers great discounts. Maybe not for pu$$y, but I'm sure you could find a discount on the side of the road close to one

And the banks says show up at x time and tuckster shows up, bank says do this and the tuckster does it......yep the banks bitch.

so yes, whoever pays you is not paying for your "time and company" - they are paying for performance.    And the quality of that performance - at least in the market sector of the economy - or maybe I should say, the value placed on your performance -  defines your income opportunities.

if it's on the menu,  and I'm in the mood for it, it's mine.  Now I give nice BFE and I like to go with the flow, and I'm gentlemanly etc but I am not into YMMV.   I'm clean and well groomed and very well mannered so I don't present any reasons for it....  and when it comes down to it, once the envelope has been dropped, I don't feel like I have to "ask"....

It really bums me out when y'all go on these insult tirades. Don't be lame.

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Thats one way to put it

Hope all is well in Chi town!

xoxo