I am wondering how a girl with no reviews gets a chance to get a review if everyone is only choosing girls with good reviews. The guys sometime joke about us taking one for the team. So I thought I might do just that. Here is my real question. Should I tell the girl that I post reviews about my providers performance when I'm scheduling the appointment? I see this improving my chances that 1-she shows up and 2-she makes it one of her best performances. Money's tight these days and I want to get the best bang for my buck but also want to help a kid out.

if you tell her AND "she makes it one of her best performances" because of this fact.

That in an of itself defeats what this board is for. You will actually be doing her and all of us a disservice since your review will not be a true representation of what it is like to spend time with her.

She has your real name and contact information. Although it is unlikely, if you ended up saying something in a review she didn't like, or didn't post one at all after saying you would, she might end up contacting you and/or making your life difficult. Unless you know the person very well, and know she is mature and stable, it's best not to let on about your reviewing activity. You'll be better off in the long run.

There are gents who hold posting reviews over a ladies head to either get better rates and/or to get them to perform "better" aka additional services.  You don't want to be mistaken for one of them.

If you are planning to TOFTT, then do it as any other client so that you can post an honest and objective review of what any ol' Joe would experience in her time.

A much better way to go about this is to simply give your TER handle in your introduction.  It can help her with her screening.  It might make her more comfortable, hence, a better session.  If she wants to go a step further to look at any prior reviews you've written so that she can tailor your session, that may help your experience as well.
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Let me just say that your concerns on a TOFTT should be MUCH more serious than the quality of your time.  There are gents who love the potential danger and adrenalin involved in the unknown... let those gents post the first reviews, then you can safely come in "to help a kid out."

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Thanks for all your thoughts this is why I always ask first

If you want to take one for the team, do that because you want to. But don't you still have to screen her?
Now if you want to help a provider out who you know is providing but still does not have a review, and you like what you see. Make an appointment. Enjoy and then write a review. Don't open up any other cans of worms. otherwise, the review system beomes flawed.
Don't ever use your personality or being a review writer as a credential. I appreciate knowing that ter members schedule appointments with me and I share that with them. But I would never let that get in the way of anything else. Ever.

"If she wants to go a step further to look at any prior reviews you've written so that she can tailor your session, that may help your experience as well."

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Assume, for the sake of argument, that -- even if a review board attempts to keep the content of reviews secret from the ladies -- most ladies can, if they wish, get around that and read the entire review.

I've always assumed that the ladies may do that for reviews someone writes about THEM.  Do some ladies really read reviews written, by a prospective client, about sessions with OTHER ladies, as part of their screening or preparation for said prospective client?

I'm not bothered by the concept; it just seems like more effort than I've assumed more ladies put into the screening process.

Just curious.

Since becoming a TER member I do let my potential dates know my review handle.  I invite them to check out my reviews going back the 2+ years I've been in the hobby.  
I never mention that I will, in all likelihood, write a review of my experience.  I never mention it again.  
I seldom TOFTT these days.  If I was to, I'd see if she was a TER member.  If she has a web site.  These indicate that she is serious about being a good provider.  
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If you paid for the hour you should get the hour. The least she could have done was keep you company and offer you a massage.

If you tell her you're going to post a review, so she "makes it one of her best performances ever," then you'll review her based on a performance she's likely not to repeat too often with her other clients. So the review won't be accurate -- it won't reflect the level and type of service she normally offers. So it won't be particularly useful to other hobbyists, nor to her, because people will soon figure out what level of service she actually does typically offer and it won't match your review.

You seem like a smart and thoughtful person so I know you didn't mean it like this, but it reminds me of my days as a bus boy in the Catskill Mountains outside of New York City during the summers in the leate 50's.  The work was harder than when I was an intern in Montreal, which was a real killer.  We worked for 14 weeks straight for very little money but very good tips.  We each had three tables of 8 to 12.  We could count on a tip of $15 a week from a family of two or $25 from a family of four.  This meant $400 a week in tips with all our meals and room covered.  In other words, if we didn't gamble, we could go home with enough money to pay our tuition and room and board for the whole year!

Unless we pissed off a customer in which case, no tip from maybe half the table for the week or maybe we got fired.  

So it always was a "delight" to have some new guest start his week in paradise with the reminder that I was his slave, had to dance with his ugly daughter, had to set up his pinochle game every afternoon or NO TIP.

I know it might not have occurred to you, but the way I felt about guests like that might be the way your new provider might feel about you when you tell her about the coming review.  I believe she should like you for you not a threatened or promised review.

I was raised that you had to earn respect and to work hard for respect and you would truly be rewarded. I'll bet its hard getting started in this buisness because of those who take without earning. I know before I discovered Ter I threw away a lot of money away on girls that are out there scamming guy's But I can't help feeling sorry for those new girls that truly want to succeed in this buisness. Oh and thanks for the comment Doc you got me pegged

I met a UTR girl through a well reviewed provider , who could not book me but she reccommended her friend, who only does this part time.  She was great, when I offer to review her, she said no because she thought it was raise her profile ( I am sure she met it in a humble way) but she wanted to be a "weekend girl" to make ends meet.  So ask if she got friends and contact them - a reverse reference.  Chances are she would not be a scam artist

If you find a girl you are attracted to (maybe from her posts on TER), then you may TOFTT.  Let your gut feeling make the decision; not the little fella.

Do not tell a lady prior to the session that you will be writing a review.  This compromises the validity of the review.  Regardless of how the session goes, write a review to let other hobbyists have the information they need to make a wise decision on who to see or not see.

If a gent is very fond of camel sliding and BBBJ and one hour hit and runs, or if he shows disrespect towards the ladies, I will ask him why he feels that we are a good match.  If there is no good answer, there is no session.

It's also a way of checking to see if I should bother to ask him for his references or if another screening method may be more useful.