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what's a turn-off to one person is likely to be a turn-on for another. I like being called pet names!
Very hard to predict an individual's pet peeves, but I bet your fav provider will tell you what hers are if you ask 
Asking what turns off a lady is like asking what food they like or what color they prefer. It's a matter of personal preference so there isn't gonna be a catch-all answer.
I've seen ladies who would slap me if I tugged on their hair while taking them from behind but the last one I saw loved doggie so much we kept escalating things to include me pulling her hair hard, calling her "My little slut", slapping her butt, and holding her hands behind her back. That's just one example of how what turns off one lady can make another impossibly randy.
And sometimes a turn-off might not be the case all the time. I know I find it somewhat of a peeve myself when someone calls me "baby" or "love" or "sweetie" like it's some throwaway generic term for everybody but it can be a real turn-on as well when a gorgeous woman says it in a sultry voice while in the throes of passion. I know when my ATF kept saying "Fuck me, baby!" while staring at me with her sexy eyes I didn't mind it at all lol!
That's why I prefer to ask a lady as I get to know her better what she likes or dislikes and also why I tend to repeat with a few ladies because we both get to know these things and have a better time with each session 
Individuals are quite different. So turnoffs are different. There is no golden list.
For instance some guys like gorgeous submissive spinners who always let you do as you will.
I'd much rather spend time with an attractive intelligent woman who can politely assert herself when I make a misstep and vice versa.
I don't care how beautiful a woman is, if there is no one home, I'll gnaw my arm off to get away. 
Turnoffs? All mileages might vary.
1) For my money I get to set my requirements and satisfy my tastes. By the same token you get to spend the way you want. Only an idiot debates taste. So while you may find my taste inferior to yours and vice versa, I'm not going to debate it. As long as it works for me, I'm doing as I do.
2) I certainly don't intend as you imply. I do prefer to have friends or 'friends' that I can repeat with. Once and done is not suitable for me. It simply isn't worth the money. For me the cost benefit of that is crappy. In any continuing relationship, even a purely business one, there can be misunderstandings. The ability to get those out of the way smoothly and clearly is key.
My whole point is that everyone has different turnoffs. Thanks for providing additional evidence that's true.
