so a number of people on my other thread about review culture rightfully pointed out that i have no reviews so i am essentially that guy that pays the door charge at the strip club but sits and gawks without tipping or buying any dances….bottomline, i will participate in “review culture” when i have something to review! lol

It could be just bad luck. From your list, unless they ask, I would not share that your Asian. Most well reviewed providers in that price range don't care about your race. In fact, sharing that detail unpromted might be a turn off.

There is another theory:  the providers you have chosen aren't responsive.  It doesn't matter why, and in my experience has nothing to do with you  - they're just not responsive.  

already addressed that.  

If I remember correctly, you had opened a thread about your search for your first provider. You had a very peculiar set of expectations for the providers and also ignored lots of good advice from the contributors to this forum.

If you read the providers website entirely prior to reaching out with the contact details & 🆔 in hand with a selfie 🤳 why would any reputable providers ghost you?

…well, sort of. I’ve been cancelled on day-of and then haven’t heard anything when I’ve tried to reconnect.

How long has it been since the girls ghosted you? Days? Weeks? I am asking bc many times over the years I reached out to a girl only for her to get back me weeks, sometimes months, later as she was on vacay or bc it went to spam. I am guessing you will say you softly followed them all up 2-3 days after your initial outreach?
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You may just have hit some bad luck/bad timing. As PB said, that happens to everyone at times. If you want, pm me and I can do a deeper dive for you to see what may be the issue but from the sound of it, you are doing everything right. Just keep at it. Good luck!

I'm surprised a man who does research as well as you seem to do before booking laides has had many reach out weeks and sometimes months later.

First off do not think you have to have reviews to post on here, that is hogwash. There are yahooligans that post every freakin day and have not posted a review in YEARS. Nuff said.  
I only communicate via email and have no issues with a proton email. Some gals will have an issue with the burner phone, not a concern of mine. I do not screen for income, I screen for safety. I do respond to every message I get but some gals do not. Maybe prejudice? I guess to put it in crass terms it may depend on what "flavor" of Asian you are. Unfortunately we are just going to be speculating without seeing the messages you are sending or the gals you are trying to communicate with.

Got one to respond. Appointment set.  

What is the ethnicity of the providers you are trying to see?

Did you include any "activities" in your initial message?

Thanks for pointing that out Meena!! Do NOT ask for anything sexual or explicit in the message. "I don't want to waste my money not knowing the services she provides".  
Hogwash. There are several states now that soliciting prostitution is a felony. THAT is what should scare the shit out of you, not the fact that she will only give you a BJ with a condom.  
If you say anything explicit many gals will block you and not respond. The entire landscape of sex work has changed and we as a community need to stay up on the changes to keep everyone safe.  

I know better than not to ask. That's why I prefer to see women with reviews.  I want to know going in if she is GFE or not.  I understand the thrill of the chase when you see a good-looking women, and on occasion I break my rule and see non-reviewed ladies.  But that is also because I live in an area that has very few good quality Providers.  I usually have to drive 2 1/2 hours one way to Tampa or Orlando for my fun.    I read way too many reviews about the Mongers' bad experience because they jumped into the deep end without looking.  

It is far from an exact science and certain things are just out of my control. Sometimes ladies dont post on socials that they are on hiatus and prior to Twitter, and p4p girl using it, it was a bigger crapshoot. And emails do go to spam.  
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But "many" was probably a poor word choice on my part, but it does happen multiple times per year and I have been doing this for quite sometime, so it adds up. Good catch.

Excellent way to approach this industry. Do your research. I unfortunately just had a prospective client that I had to turn down for an appointment. Appointment was booked in 2 or 3 messages and then he asked if I took special requests. I do, and when guys ask this it is usually I wear my hair a certain way, I have one guy that always wants me to wear jeans and a tee shirt, some like red toe nails, etc. This guy sent me a bullet point response of the 10 different sexual things he wanted to accomplish in our 60 min appointment. Ug. He had sent me his screening and very unlikely he was a cop but I just could not take the chance. Nothing he asked for was a service that I do not provide, but all I am thinking is WHY? He even said he had read my reviews and that is why he reached out. Small head unfortunately led him to a big fat no and disappointment.    

I'm a little bit confused, you turned him down because the list of things was too specific, or it was unachievable?

Yikes

I have one unfortunate gent who has contacted me many times, and in every message he says he wants to "make love".

He obviously asked for specific sex acts. That's a red flag foriat women, but I'm sure you know that already.

Oh, got it.

Maybe it would be a good idea to get onto a local board and ask for recommendations for a newbie-friendly provider.  

I've never discussed anything like this before meeting. Any woman worth her salt will have all of that info on their website or in their ad. SOME will say "contact me for rates". Then I'd send a generic email just saying something like "your ad says to contact you for rate info so I'm reaching out".  

Jesus Christ Q. No. Just no. And this right here is why these stupid Asian agencies will continue to be super easy targets for LE. Do you not see me posting about this ALL the time? Please do NOT call me for bail money when you get caught up in this nonsense. And yes, it will happen. Best of luck in life. You will need it.

And it's not even a good comparison as it's not some potential customers sending that to the agency when they are trying to get screened.  

CAN call you for bail money if he is regularly sending you customers.  Lol

Come on, relax. It was just a genuine question. The few indies I have seen had all the rates outlined on their websites, but I know not everyone does this.

Some indy ladies I have seen only will do GFE packages with new customers. But once they have seen you, they open their menus because the best screening is having gone through with a booking. There is a difference between a rando and a repeat customer.

I am really unsure if you are being purposely obtuse here. Isn't that what YOU have said time and time again what reviews are for? Also I have stated multiple times that YMMV and they are dependent on multiple factors, hygiene being the #1 with the majority of sex workers. I am not promising jack in an email message. I need to see you in person and get a good look and smell before things proceed.

I'm not lol.

1. Yes, I will discuss things during and after the initial appointment but I always ask that they be done in person.  
2. I have no clue nor do I care what other providers write in their ads.  
3. I do not upsell and all of my prices are listed on my website.  I do not piecemeal, I find that tacky and low brow, although that looks to be something you are used to.  
And to be honest from your questions it seems as though you do not understand the difference between what is illegal (asking for a specific sex act for a certain amount of $$) and that which is legal. BDSM is legal as long as nothing sexual is discussed. Bondage, spanking, degradation, cross dressing, electro shock, wax, etc. are all perfectly legal to discuss. Once genitals or sexual gratification are discussed you are crossing the line. Massage varies by state, but in my state of Wisconsin it is illegal to perform a massage for payment without a license hence why I no longer advertise this service in my ads.

Appreciate it.