You have been reviewed by so many of us, now in the name of continious improvement - you can let us know what we can do to make our time better for you - and in the long run make it better for us as well.

What is that a client can do that will make the time better for you as well as him? Some examples may be - flowers - respect of your time - what has your favorite client done to make him your favorite client???


I am sure there are things we do that just turn you off and piss you off. Let us know what these things are as well. What did the client that pissed you off the most do to get you that way??

Can't wait to see the responses - any takers???

#1 Don't haggle over money, especially on the first meeting. I am very clear about my rates upfront; this is not the swap meet, don't bargain with me. I do give a substantial discount to repeat clients and have been known to discount even further for guys I get to know and like

#2 Respect my limits. As a FBSM provider I feel I am very upfront about what I will and will not do. Most men are fine with this. Actually, I don't even mind someone asking for extras in a playful or hopeful manner - I take it as a compliment that you want more and it doesn't hurt to ask, right? It the guys that continue to whine, wheedle or cajole me that irritate me. Also guys who are demanding and pushy. Please don't be that way, it's scary.

#3 I don't care how old you are, what your skin color is, how much you weigh or what you look like. No need to try to send me naked pix of yourself beforehand or tell me you workout daily and can lift 300 lbs - or whatever. Doing FBSM is not as personal as full service, therefore I am able to make a connection with each and every one of my clients and give equal service to all without prejudice. But yes, I DO care if you are not clean. Please shower, use deoderant and brush your teeth before you come over. If it's been awhile since you freshened up, please ask to use my clean well-stocked shower. I won't mind giving you the extra five minutes it will take.

#4 This is a hard one for most guys. Don't call at the last minute. I know a lot of providers don't mind, perhaps they're just sitting around in a hotel wearing a bustier and garterbelts fingering themselves just WAITING for your call. However, I am not one of those providers. I have school, another job, family and with that comes limited scheduling time. If you are a new client, PLEASE try to give 24 hrs notice. I you are a repeat client, give me at least a few hours. I know it's hard to predict if you'll be in the mood tomorrow. I know you have a hard-on now! But it's much easier for most of us if we plan ahead.

#5 Please be polite and respectful. Please be persistant if we don't call you back right away, call again. Be clear on the phone, give us all the info we need. I've gotten calls from a guy at home for the day; by the time I call back the wife is home and answers the phone. Oops! Tell us the timeframe when we can call you back. Don't balk about giving us screening information. In this day and age, we need it - check the boards and you'll see providers from all over are busted each and every week. Be honest about what you're willing to give: will you give a work phone? A reference from another provider? What are you willing to do to ease my mind you're not LE? Work with me, most of us WANT to see you, we don't WANT to be intrusive, we're willing to compromise, just give us a chance.

Here here Girl I couldn't agree more...One other thing I would like to add is that we are not mind readers...if it isn't going as well as you would like speak up make suggestions...and do it politely...most of us would rather you added your two cents to the occasion than just lie there and take it then write a so-so or bad review later...

return my call, why should I bother trying again? There are many others who will return calls or answer the phone "live."

I understand you may not return the call until the following day because you are busy, but even if I have already taken care of my needs, I can assure you that your courtesy will be appreciated and I will remember you the next time I am in the mood for a FBSM.

There are times the message doesnt come through clearly and the number is chopped off, that is why I ask on my message for the number to be repeated twice.  Well, potential clients dont always do that, so I cant return those calls.   Of course I dont expect you to "care" when I dont call you back, but if you called back (assuming you are still interested) you'd find out that that is often the reason why, not because I dont "care". Other than that, please dont keep calling back or I'll think you are someone with an agenda.

Btw, As an independent, answering a phone live is something I wont do anymore.  TOO easy for LE to get info from the phone co.  Why should I have to keep changing my number and moving my incall locale because of feeling nervous that my number could be traced?  Pager/voicemail  do the trick nicely, and I NEVER have to change the number, thanks to caller ID blocking.







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Please be a gentlemen and call if you have second thoughts or just couldn't make it. I myself need to set up sitters and then  a no show, or someone else called looking for some activatity and we'll tied up waiting on you and now I'm out sitter money and the adventure the other cleint would have taken me on.


I think I can talk for most of us providers we wouldn't leave you all dressed up with no plase to play without a call.

Thanks,
Tammy

Yes, sometimes the message is cut off, the name/number is unclear. Sometimes as I said, I try to call back only to be met with a female voice on the answering machine or worse - an actual female person! Sometimes I am in class or out of town, etc. Sometimes when I'm going through my voice mail I accidentally delete YOUR message instead of the guy I've already spoken to.

My recommendation: if e-mail is available, call and e-mail simultaneously. If no response try again the next day. I wish all guys would do that, then I would know they were really interested. I've called back the next day only to hear an abrupt, "Sorry, I don't want you anymore! BYE!" which can be really disheartening. At least chat with me for awhile so we can open the lines of communication for future meetings

there are those who triplebook and then go to see one of the other girls because she became suddenly available, was cheaper, their atf, or whatever, and the hell with me and the other girl they booked.  Those clients will NEVER call to cancel.  They are the ones who call you six months later and expect you to have "forgotten" the incident, and when you do ask, they say they got into a car accident

If someone doesnt have the consideration to cancel, off with his head, meaning I will NEVER book him again, unless he makes an almost immediate effort after the incident, to contact me of his OWN volition.

In other words Tammy, either they are the type of person who do or they don't; why should we have to potty train clients?





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I just want to add onto what you said about cancelling....

Gents (speaking to the ones who DO bother to notify of cancellation.)  

Please try not to cancel by EMAIL 10 minutes before or 20 minutes after your scheduled session.  


xoxo

ff



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personally, i do most of my communications thru email and i have folders for Those kind of people:  ditherers, losers, creeps, keepers and confirms.
if i get a mail from a no show(loser) i am sorry, but i am not taking new clients at this time.
if i get a mail from someone who wanted to dicker over price(creep) i am also, not available.
ditherers are the fellows that wont be in town till end of july and it is may, or those fellas that say thanks, i'll let you know when i come into town.
if i have a slow month, i'll see a ditherer, but never a loser or a creep.
keepers and confirms can get me on same day notice, IF i am 'just sitting around in garters diddling myself'
LOL
Nicole

Personally, I never, never return phone calls.... UNLESS I know for a fact the gentleman in question is not married OR if he just called and my cell phone died while we were speaking, I won't call back, ever never. I don't know who is standing next to you when I call... I do not want to put you in an uncomfortable situation where you are unable to talk but scared to say so... and darned if I don't feel, for me, that that goes part and parcel with my policy of DISCRETION at all times.

I prefer to do most of the communication ahead of time via email, and in terms of email I feel the same way this lady posted... if I don't answer your email, please write again! I receive about 400 emails a day, not all related to this 'biz..  I run many domains, so I get LOTS of mail. So I may miss your email by accident, or your mail might bounce my reply for some reason, or I might look at it and honestly just forget to write back... write twice and I'll remember, "ACK! I forgot to write that poor guy back!"  It doesn't happen often, but it does happen... we're human just like you are, and I'll be the first to tell you... I am not perfect!  Honestly if you get all offended because I miss an email, you're probably way too sensitive to enjoy my crazy self anyways... hehe! RELAX

Hugs*
Nicole

1... ENTHUSIASM is darned near everything to me. If you are the "lay there like a lump" type, I will probably NOT have fun, and because I won't have fun, you won't have as much fun.  Be responsive, let me know what you like verbally and physically, be enthusiastic about our time together!  

2... You've heard it before... SQUEAKY CLEAN is the way to go. Almost all of us have a shower available and I cannot imagine anyone getting in a tiff over allowing you to use the shower for a few minutes. Shucks I might even jump in with you!  But... squeaky clean!

3... If I offer you a breath mint, TAKE IT!  I don't care if you just left the dentist where your teeth were scrubbed, soaked, and you were drenched in mouthwash. Take the darned mint! It cannot possibly hurt! Just TAKE the mint! =:O

4....Be CREATIVE!  Tell me allllllll your deepest darkest fantasies... fantasies are for LIVING, not just dreaming about! I am impossible to offend... I may or may not partake of your particular fantasy, but at the very least I'm happy to discuss anything (Yes, ANYTHING) with you!

5... Have FUN! This is all about FUN! Don't comment in a derogatory way when you can tell how much I enjoy it. Of course I enjoy it!  I am not here to make myself miserable. I LOVE it. So there, now you know

Hugs*
Nicole

On your voice mail, tell the caller to leave the phone number first, because sometimes if the caller is long winded his (or her ??) phone number will be cut off at the end.. This has happened to me..

After reading all the crap you ladies have to put up with, I can only say one thing...God Bless your pee pickin little hearts...

I have been a provider for 5 years.
I love a client who offers to daty and will do
it according to my instructions.
I am easy going and enjoy my work.  I often go
over on the time.  I never or rarely (3 times in
5 years) receive a tip in appreciation of the
extra time.  
Since I have been seeing TER hobbyists, I have
noticed that they are much more considerate in
regard to the time. Thank you guys.

Please take all the time you need and read my site. READ EVERY PAGE. It says what my availablity is, shows you what I look like and tells you how to contact me and the information I will need from you to set up an appointment.

As for phone calls, I tell you when I am available, so please leave a message and when you want me to call you back. Oh and leave your name. How many times do I get no name and just a phone number.

Out of towners, Los Angeles is a big city and I do incall. I can arrange an outcall, but please be familiar with this city. San Diego, Irvine, San Bernardino are not Los Angeles.

As the others mentioned, please be clean and polite.

That's all!

Rose

I like a client that makes suggestions on what will please him most sexually, while respecting my limits that I state upfront.
Especially with a new client, I value clear communication, because I am very versatile and do many different types of sessions and present different personas. So I like to have a good idea of the context (psychological, visual, everything) that will really make a session very memorable for both of us.

Flowers or fruit are always nice, but mostly what makes a session good for me is the other person's attitude. And of course, extreme personal cleanliness. Being prompt, and all the usual politenesses that will make for a good long-term relationship.

"Please be persistant if we don't call you back right away, call again."

You have obviously never left a message for Kaliana.