You know, like when you're driving back from a date, or straightening up the room in the quiet afterwards, have you ever thought to yourself, 'damn, if only I....'  or ''damn, if only I didn't...' ???

What is something you kicked yourself over after a date?

Or even regrets about a failure to or an inability to sustain a friendship

 

 

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Call her ass back and schedule some more time.

 

 
Regrets, I have none.

my biggest regrets are about not giving a couple of relationships with SOs more of a chance when we hit inevitable rough bits.   But I really don't know to this day what I could have done differently or better - it probably just was not in the cards.....

as far as chasing provider tail, only a few regrets -    

in one case I was having a really good time with someone - mutually apparently based on details I won't go into here -   and neither of use knew that there were forces at play in her life that would take her away -  I think I would have liked to have known and to have done something special to celebrate that relationship a bit more -   but this is probably just hindsight....

in another case I found someone who was probably the perfect provider for me -  someone I would gladly have "adopted" :p  and who signaled that she would have liked that  -  but due to a stalker situation that arose she was scared into returning to her home country

yet another was one of those very rare (for me) atf sort of things that I suppose inevitably had its problems and ultimately petered out (no pun originally intended but it is good though - right?) I still think about her  - ironically not so much about the sex which was about as good as it gets but about her as  a person as I got to know her....  

but I have no regrets about particular sessions -   there is one young lady who is going to get a more proper seeing to when she returns to the area,   and there are a couple of providers I would have perhaps repeated with,  but there are always others coming along as well -

and at the end of the day, it is just sex for sport....

I've had some similar things that have gnawed at me, especially about someone I would have liked to have gotten to know better, but for forces that caused her to retire.  

And you're right -- this is more expansive than I first thought and should really extend to regrets about failure to or inability to sustain a friendship

That the comments are not related to the P4P sex session, but rather relationship-based.  You're all disappointed that the personal relationship could not be developed more.  I'm not saying that's bad, but it's not what the "hobby" is supposed to be about.  Maybe this is a "hobby" about people instead of bodies after all...

The times that I ever had "damn, if only..." thoughts on business transactions have usually been based on how much money.  No one is complaining about that here.

Or could book additional sessions, but finances are usually the issue so my real regret is not having more money.

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did or didn't do, however I do regret that many wonderful gals I knew over the years are gone and I'm not likely to ever see them again.
It sucketh, but that's how the rules go.

relate to what MrFisher says.  There are about a dozen ladies who I have repeated with who are no longer in P4P.  Memories exist for a reason.  New girls can be found.

I regret that I do not have more p4p money.
I regret that I have not booked more time in past session, see number one.
and that PYT in the past that may have really needed help and I did not.  

And no I do not mean rescue a hooker, I mean a little logistical and p4p help to get her on her own.
If she would have just gotten a good mentor instead of a bad one she might still be around.  

So my plan is take care of one and two and get three off of my mind.