I have never asked a provider to "white list" me.  

'how things work' and 'getting into the minds of the providers'

I feel that "posting" topics and discussing them is both
entertaining as well as educational to both the hobbyist and providers

Some form of green light that yes the guys pays my rate or higher I met him for an appt n made my money.
With our her havn to email n cross reference ladies.email guy gives check her site be sure email correct hav him give her courtesy email if he has not before I message person individual introction my lunks my proof it email onMY site.
As we must prove its ourselves not a.nosy accusational wife of client.
Its a total run around pain in ass.  
I dont even bother screening now.
I meet only guys w good reps on here only outs at ritz weston hilton seaport, n I carry a jack knife mace n meet in public before I I.vite guys in my place.
My intuition n animal like instincts n which I liturally smell the psycho on a man uf any. Has been how n why I still am here speakn to u knoe.
When u rely on your intuitiin n vibes
Hunches pre conceivve notion
For seventeen years like an animal its sharpened n u can count on it brin precise.
Trust n believe.
I also believe.
When your time is up.
Your fuckn time is up n god gonna take your dam ass by nok or by crook one dam way or another.
Hell u could get als n cancer n be a gonnner in twelve month.
Uu could relapse n od
You could get in fatal car wreck.
It be nice to wear a helmet pray non stop n never leave housr.
Live in fear.
What good is that .
One saying...
Every day above ground is a good day. You wanna do two xtra fucks a month to pay an,assistant great I trust my screen mmore than a typed crock a bs.
U can hav harvard efucation. Have seen top hundreds .
But if u contact me more than a few times about a appt.next week. Red flag.
Fuckn stalker or just possible mental n. Prone to b a head ache.
Not always case but thats one personal screen via intuition I live by.
If u annoy my n are selfish enough to think I wanna miss work n personal time to spend it typing or calling you. Begore u even booked or met. Thats a deal breaker. Inconsederate . And plain dumb.
  If they cant find a major landmark such ad an ocean . Also time to cancel most guys I have to spend thirty min w directions who I text email detail instruction. Then they want me to repeat myself affitional thirty min whilst attempts to wallk dog flush out asshole sit on butt plug in preperation. Eat hav a bath.  
Then they want verbal detail instruction as well. I have outright canceled on those grounds. Some have called from addressss ten digits beffore mine.
I had to walk them thru pullin out driveway drive a door down read addy n get bearings straight then head in appropiate direction.  
If some one is that un traveled n socially in ept.
Its always a bad omen

Huh. Interesting.

Wow Angel, what's going on with you?

I suppose if you wanted to press the issue you could ask the ones who didn't WHY they didn't but putting pressure on a woman to do something she probably didn't want to do seems counterproductive to having a good time in the sack with her...

I asked.
She had NO problem with it.

When I had a nice time with a reputable lady, I ask for a whitelist.
Most worth providers will see you with at least 2 TER whitelists or just P411 membership ( some ask for 2+ OKs) without asking for references

I think it would be awesome if a long-term hobbyist *did* write a book (or TV show, or something).  There have been plenty of books written by retired providers/madams, and there was that UK show that played on this side of the pond on Showtime, "Secret Diaries of a Call Girl", and wasn't there also another one as well?  But all of this stuff was from the provider's point of view.

I'd love to see a recurring weekly series focused on the hobbyist:  He sees different women in different cities from week to week (traveling CEO type, naturally).  Hilarity ensues as he also has to juggle things with his wife back home, who constantly calls to tell him that Junior has a fever or that the cat piddled in the bed.  Occasionally, we'll see our hero back in his hometown, where he can't operate as freely, although (of course) women, both provider and civvie are falling all over him (after all, when you've been with a lot of women, you start to know what to say/do and what not to, pretty quickly).  He has a couple of male friends who run the spectrum between total losers in the women department, and the guy who has been happily married for twenty years, and just doesn't understand what is so attractive about hobbying.

I think a show like this would be a great "adult comedy" like Californication or Weeds.

I'm offereing this idea freely to anyone to steal and run with:  I know I'll never have the time, discipline, or Hollywood connections to get a show like this made, so I'd be happy to let someone else have a crack at it, and just see if they coudl get in on the air.

Not interested in any of that nonsense.

Posted By: devindavette

Not just because I saw them. I would always give a ref for someone I saw and was 'safe' but whitelist I have to like you a little bit  
 I gave one to someone and then took it away. I didn't like that he pressures girls into bare back. I thought he was gross for his tactic and don't want to support that carelessness.  
 

And here I thought we were "friends"

But in lieu of that you can use these instead  

I don't know why but I enjoy whitelisting on ter and giving okay's on p411 haha. I usually whitelist a man if he's pretty new to the hobby, if he asks me, if I've become friends with him, or if I notice that he reviewed me.  

Don't get me wrong, I have no problem getting dates but the rule on TER is that we have to ask?

Or try to keep me all to yourself. Your problem is you need to lay off the Wand and have a real man make love to you, then perhaps fuck like two insanely passionate lovers! ! U don't know me xoxoxo have a nice day Devin d.

Posted By: devindavette

Not just because I saw them. I would always give a ref for someone I saw and was 'safe' but whitelist I have to like you a little bit  
 I gave one to someone and then took it away. I didn't like that he pressures girls into bare back. I thought he was gross for his tactic and don't want to support that carelessness.