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Re: % net income for hobby
HansTheGlans 114 reads
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Lemme tell you somethin', Dr. Dato.  If you’re a .com baller like myself, 30k is blown in a month… along with my appendage.  Show a provider some green… they’ll bob extra hard while they weave.  And if you tell’em you’re a doc who only fixes breasts, they’ll be givin' you free half hours while you motorboat their chests.

And please don’t be separatin' gross income vs. net income and talkin' about tips and gas money while drivin' to Econo Lodge.  You know how strong a DATY cravin' can be.  If you gotta up your spendin' to calm your johnson… than do it, doc.  What will I hear next… you want a CBJ?

-Barry McCockinner
aka    HansTheGlans

Drunk_LasVegas_Tour_Guide459 reads

Mainly aimed at the pros who have done this for a long time...

I've been sticking to 5% of my monthly income allocated to Providers but I just popped up well over 15% with a recent incident hooking up with some bar fly's in Vegas that were too good to pass up. In fact.... they drove me home and cooked me breakfast (killer breakfast) before we had a session of well over 2 hours for a duo session. Total time together was over 4 hours and a really good time...

So... my question goes along the lines that I want to continue doing this for a long, long time and I was just wondering what other hobbyists spend on a % of their monthly income??

Probably more along the lines of curiosity but I want to keep this hobby healthy...

What works for you??

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HalfHour206 reads

Gross, taxable or net?

-- Modified on 9/7/2011 7:10:46 AM

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Drunk_LasVegas_Tour_Guide173 reads

Net.... even if you own a business you know your income after taxes... (or you should...)..

Posted By: HalfHour
Gross, taxable or net?

-- Modified on 9/7/2011 7:10:46 AM

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HalfHour183 reads

My gross income is substantialy higher than my net, so I don't consider that valid.

My percentage of taxable? So far, this year, it's at about 4.5%

But are we talking provider fee? or are we including related expenses, e.g. hotels, gifts, dinners, travel?  I'm including that.

Percentage of my of net? We can define that if you think that's an interesting point, and go from there.

The percentage I think is the most interesting would be against disposable income.

I currently have an unusually high after net expendature on some family related things.

After I take all that sort of thing out of net, I have what I consider disposable, which is "me" money. I can do whatever I want with that, no regrets.

This year, I'm spending a very high amount on providers. (I'm not including strippers there.)


The reason is that my youngest was traumatized by her mom's live-in BF during a visit last year. That lead to my decision to drop civie dating and take my adult fun on the DL for the sake of my daughter - no new adults in her life.

Right now my pecentage of disposable on providers is about 70%.

One of the reasons is that I decided to explore some of my more "uncommon" adult interests; the type that take a while to buold up trust with a civie before delving into. That has gone so well, I decided to skip my other hobbies for a while go down this path.

So, my normal expendatures on the ladies are up! But I'm digging it.

If you include strippers in the mix, I'm at $95% of my disposable. I've been experimenting (quite successfully!) with picking strippers I think might "come over to the dark side" as I'm refering to this as. It's fun, and a surprisingly refreshing change from established providers.

HalfHour

forgive the typos, aint proofing my hunt'n'peck typin today

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SplleChek203 reads

I budgeted 100k for the year in January and I'm at 85k spent thus far (including 2 overnights with ATFs through the end of the third quarter), so I'm a bit over budget; however, my travel schedule slows down during the 4th quarter and so does my hobby, so I suspect that I'll be at budget by 12/31.

Not to hijack, but another interesting stat would be what % of your provider $ went to your ATF(s) vs other providers...for me 50% split between two ATFs and the balance to others.

As to what % of my income $100k is, that's none of your business.

Posted By: Drunk_LasVegas_Tour_Guide
Mainly aimed at the pros who have done this for a long time...

I've been sticking to 5% of my monthly income allocated to Providers but I just popped up well over 15% with a recent incident hooking up with some bar fly's in Vegas that were too good to pass up. In fact.... they drove me home and cooked me breakfast (killer breakfast) before we had a session of well over 2 hours for a duo session. Total time together was over 4 hours and a really good time...

So... my question goes along the lines that I want to continue doing this for a long, long time and I was just wondering what other hobbyists spend on a % of their monthly income??

Probably more along the lines of curiosity but I want to keep this hobby healthy...

What works for you??

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Drunk_LasVegas_Tour_Guide173 reads

Lots of laughing... that's why I'm asking for % of the income and not your income.... ;)

Posted By: SplleChek
I budgeted 100k for the year in January and I'm at 85k spent thus far (including 2 overnights with ATFs through the end of the third quarter), so I'm a bit over budget; however, my travel schedule slows down during the 4th quarter and so does my hobby, so I suspect that I'll be at budget by 12/31.

Not to hijack, but another interesting stat would be what % of your provider $ went to your ATF(s) vs other providers...for me 50% split between two ATFs and the balance to others.

As to what % of my income $100k is, that's none of your business.
Posted By: Drunk_LasVegas_Tour_Guide
Mainly aimed at the pros who have done this for a long time...

I've been sticking to 5% of my monthly income allocated to Providers but I just popped up well over 15% with a recent incident hooking up with some bar fly's in Vegas that were too good to pass up. In fact.... they drove me home and cooked me breakfast (killer breakfast) before we had a session of well over 2 hours for a duo session. Total time together was over 4 hours and a really good time...

So... my question goes along the lines that I want to continue doing this for a long, long time and I was just wondering what other hobbyists spend on a % of their monthly income??

Probably more along the lines of curiosity but I want to keep this hobby healthy...

What works for you??

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DrDATO178 reads

On an MD's salary nowadays, one can no longer shoot the moon with impunity.  I budget 10% of my take home salary to my passion.  This  makes for a weekly or bimonthly frolic.  I don't exceed the one hour tour time but since I work hard for the money I seek kindred providers.  I have been known to blow the month's tithe in one day, but later control myself for several weeks.  I find that moderation and rotation keep the experience fresh and rewarding.

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Drunk_LasVegas_Tour_Guide195 reads

Thanks DrDato...

Wise words of advice...

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HansTheGlans115 reads

Lemme tell you somethin', Dr. Dato.  If you’re a .com baller like myself, 30k is blown in a month… along with my appendage.  Show a provider some green… they’ll bob extra hard while they weave.  And if you tell’em you’re a doc who only fixes breasts, they’ll be givin' you free half hours while you motorboat their chests.

And please don’t be separatin' gross income vs. net income and talkin' about tips and gas money while drivin' to Econo Lodge.  You know how strong a DATY cravin' can be.  If you gotta up your spendin' to calm your johnson… than do it, doc.  What will I hear next… you want a CBJ?

-Barry McCockinner
aka    HansTheGlans

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osklivi173 reads

McCockinner or shall I say Hans - your point is well taken.  If one need pay to play, then bring it on.  Save and splurge to quell the urge.  There is and never will be a reason to hold back.  It all does make sense when there is a properly waxed O looking you in the eye.

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robsul2004139 reads

I have a base home/family budget that remains untouched, spouse gets an allowance to spend as she choses, then above that is what I use for investment/play as I see fit - but my base pay covers the first 2 plus some of the third - but really my real play is dependant upon quarterly and year end bonuses.  In the current economy, those are down considerably (i.e down to about 10% of what they were in good times), hence my play is down considerably.  I sure hope the folks in DC can get their act together.

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baby_one_more_time132 reads

Similarly, I provide some freelance and consulting services, and that income is what I use to hobby.  The benefit is that many of these freelance gigs remain unknown to my wife, so I don't have to account for any "missing" income.

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I have a base home/family budget that remains untouched, spouse gets an allowance to spend as she choses, then above that is what I use for investment/play as I see fit - but my base pay covers the first 2 plus some of the third - but really my real play is dependant upon quarterly and year end bonuses.  In the current economy, those are down considerably (i.e down to about 10% of what they were in good times), hence my play is down considerably.  I sure hope the folks in DC can get their act together.

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