90% of problems are caused by 10% of customers.

It's always good practice to cull the troublesome customer so that you create space and time to focus on and find more good customers, and also to let you competition have their turn with the troublesome customer.

Just delete his number and have your phone reject any calls from it.  Same for email, etc.

"She's high maintenance." But, it can just as easily be said about a guy!

Another saying: "There are those who get headaches, and those who give them." Time to ditch this headache! There's no way to really know if he's just lacking the ability to observe social constraints or lacks the willingness to observe them. Either way, it doesn't matter.

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considerant of your time, and thankful you are there when they need someone to share some private time with.  Do what Mrfisher says, block his calls and e-mails.  Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.

"Sometimes you have to fire your worst customers, so you can take better care of your best ones."

you go email only and forget the phone.

Why is it ALWAYSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS the clients who are polite, smell delicious, will still take a shower, respect our boundaries, pay well,  show up and leave on time, are very sensual, and great guys.....why do they never ever brag about seeing people off the clock?.....and honestly I would GLADLY go out to dinner or hang out esp on tour if I have the time....and pay for my half with DRAMA free clients.....

BUT WHY DOES IT HARDLY EVER WORK LIKE THAT? IT IS ALWAYS THE PAIN IN THE ASS CLIENTS WHO STAY AN HOUR OVER THEIR TIME, SHOW UP SMELLING LIKE THEY JUST WRESTLED A WART HOG, HAVE BROWN TEETH, A PEE PEE THAT SHOULD BE ON THE BODY OF A NEWBORN, YOU REFUSE TO SHOWER, AND YOU HAVE BODY HAIR REMINISCENT OF A GORILLA? The kind when you open the door, you have to think to yourself: I hope I have my vicks to put UP in my nostrils to fight off this FUNK that just waltzed in my door.....AND WHERE ARE MY BANANA FLAVORED CONDOMS AND DENTAL DAMS? BC I DON'T WANT MY MOUTH ON YOUR BARE PEE PEE NOR DO I WANT YOUR YUCK MOUTH ON MY NAUGHTY PARTS. Why do they call/email all day everyday?....even when you have your provider phone turned off....you turn it on and have 20 messages from them bragging about which porn star or well known provider they saw for free?????

Oh really? Did you drug her? You had to totally give her a ruffie.....BC most women with a pulse would NOT put up with your shit for 5 minutes FOR FREE. Hell I aint doing it EVER again IN THIS LIFE OR THE NEXT and you paid me. So can it with the self inflated egotistical bragging about your fictitious free sessions with porn stars and well known providers.

will you listen to my voicemails again?  and how about that discount if I brush my teeth...

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If not get one and if you do use it. Eventually dense people get the message. Ignore button is essential for staying physically, and emotionally healthy. The great part is you are not pissing anyone off or expending energy trying to explain which is fantastic benefit. Voice mail delete button also works. If you have the ability to forward your voice mail, forward it back to him without saying a thing.

I am truly APPALLED by the behavior of these gentlemen sometimes. Failure to show common courtesy to a provider, shows a blatant lack of respect, and a perception of superiority. I hate what I'm about to say next but.....ladies, this is YOUR FAULT that these gentlemen act like assclowns. People, in general, like to test their boundries, it's human nature. When you fail to set clear boundries, and treat this business as an ACTUAL BUSINESS, you have now lost all credibility, you have shifted all the power to the other party, and respect is completely diminished. Then of course, the cycle will repeat....the next provider does the same, and he continues to to get away with poor behavior. When you do not COMMAND RESPECT, do not expect to be GIVEN RESPECT. Outside of the hobby world, I own a personal training business, and have done so successfully for over 11yrs. I treat my hobby clients THE SAME WAY I treat my training clients. I HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE.  They confirm their appointments
an hr prior, they are ON TIME, and notify me immediately if they will be late, or can not make it. If sufficient notice is not given, they are CHARGED for their appointment... And yes, I am very strict compared to most other girls, but I've never had a negative review, a nightmare session, and I thoroughly enjoy every client I do see. Yes, I have been known to be rude to problem clients, refuse service completely, and even considered a b*tch, and I could probably make twice as much as I already do if I could be more patient, more tolerant, and hold my tongue. However, I am in the hobby life bc I HONESTLY enjoy it, and there is nothing 'enjoyable' about being railed from behind by some douche who is drunk, 30 mins late, and smells like mothballs.....lol you get the picture..

 You as a provider will need to set your own rules/policies/guidelines based on your tolerance and patientce level, pet peeves, etc....The problem is not that these rules are not there, clearly spelled out in neon, the problem is YOU DONT ENFORCE THEM! Yes, this is a customer service job, and our job is to please, to create a fantasy, that men do not get otherwise in their daily lives. But you can say NO, and you can stick up for yourself if someone is 'out of line'. Yes, men love the fantasy of a woman that does not have the word NO in her vocabulary, but, that does NOT mean you have to be a pushover, compromise your values, be mistreated, or not be treated like a lady. When we start treating ourselves with respect, we may start to get a little back....So, KUDOS girl! I like to see a girl with 'balls' who will stick up for your self.....and if you lose that client, he's not worth having to begin with

Maybe because I'm Southern raised, but I've always been taught good manners means respect another person's time, personal space, and privacy -- whether in business, with a Provider or SO.

I think you are a reasonable person...I really really do think you are completely understanding, intelligent, and very reasonable, but I don't think you could wrap your mind around A TRUE MORON. I couldn't understand it either until I encountered this man. We are not talking about reasonable guys, or even dense guys, we are talking about people who have their photos next to the dictionary definition of "MORON"

Only a complete MORON would receive a text/email saying: "hey I see you have called me twice I know you are trying to contact me, I cannot speak to you right now, I am celebrating the holiday with my family....I will call you back when I get a chance.".....we know his text message functionality works on his phone, but even after he gets a text and an email saying we cannot talk, he will keep on calling. So we have to turn the phone off, only to be met with 20 voice mails when we turn the phone back on about how he is going to fuck us silly, he just saw so and so for free on Christmas Morning, he wants 5 cups during our next one hour session.....and blah fucking fantasy blah.


Most people would leave it alone. MORONS do stupid shit like this MORON does and they keep calling even if they have to call 20 times, they keep dialing. Talking about completely DUMB SHIT that has zero relevancy to me.

(I must admit the forwarding all his calls to his phone number is great....and his number is now on my ignore list for my phone)

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Be more frank and succinct on your website, ads, and after you have met them as to what level of contact is appropriate. I am not saying you do this, but sometimes, providers go too far up on the 'friendly meter' and give guys the wrong idea. I am not saying you can't be friendly, just saying that too many guys are looking for something and someone beyond the normal pay for play relationship and you have to nip it in the bud or be held hostage to bad manners and other boorish behavior. When a guy even hints that he's like more contact with you, gently remind him this is your business and the only inquiries he should make are for appointments. All say on your ads and website that LAST MINUTE requests be ignored.