One of my clients introduced me to racial talk during sex. I must say at first I was a little apprehensive. After he reassured me he wouldn't think any different of me if I engaged in that type of talk during sex, I obliged. I gotta admit it was very hot. I started to get into it and I could see his reaction and arousal. I fed off of that and the session for 10 times hotter. It was amazing and it lead to a very hot orgasm.
Since then I started exploring role playing more and while I'll admit that I love vanilla sex. Role play and dirty talk can make a session very hot. Do you guys or gals have any stories of role play or dirty that that intensified the session? If you haven't tried it, I recommend you give it a try. It's really fun. One more reason to see people from different ethnic backgrounds. It's so amazing how exciting it can be to taste different flavors.A few years ago I was seeing a beautiful, black UTR which started as a GFE date only for a few months. After sessions we would do lunch, dinner, whatevs and trust was built.
She was the subordinate type so we started to role play and that soon evolved into more and more complex scenarios and then she hit me with it....she wanted to do the slave/white owner thing....gulp.
To say I was hesitant would be an understatement so I asked her several times if she was sure over the course of a week and she said yes, but she was nervous.
She gave me the basics i.e. what she wanted me to do to her, say etc.
The day of, I arrive at her incall and she opened the door and the best way I can describe what she was wearing was like a sack, like one of those things people use for three legged races. Are they burlap sacks? Not sure. She was dressing the part of a slave girl.
But she was wearing it like a dress as she cut out space for her two arms and head. And that is all she was wearing. I was really stunned but she looked so fking hot.
She did something "wrong" during the session and, per our convo during the week, needed to be whipped. So I did what she wanted and whipped her ass while calling her the "n" word. I eventually put her up against the wall, with her facing it, after the punishment was over. I pulled the sack up and fucked her from behind, both of us standing.
It was crazy good, animalistic fucking. She said that was exactly what she wanted as it had been a fantasy of hers for a long time. No, I can't say I felt comfortable at the beginning but she got so into it and never used a safe word. It was better than I had hoped and she was very appreciative afterwards and we did that same scenario several more times, with a few added twists.
Not sure why she had that fantasy and she said she really couldn't explain it. I guess maybe because it is so taboo? It is probably my most unique and memorable BDSM session I had and she was an incredible gal who left the biz not too long ago.
I was supposed to be the wife of a plantation owner who was out of town and this light skinned black guy wanted me to come to him and treat him like a "house N" and call me all kind of names, slap him in the face and make him have sex with me. Yeh, NO WAY, it made me sick to think about it. It went against everything I stand for, NOT HAPPENING with me. Ewwww for me.
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I was queasy about it but I knew her pretty well, and had sessioned with her/dined with her a number of times. No way I would have done that without ever meeting, or only meeting once or twice.
Familiarity and trust were two big factors in my agreeing and the request came from her.
Without all of that, I would have passed as well.
But you are a guy who likes to dominate.
To playfully degrade someone than that ... my .02
My old GF called me her Italian Stallion ... not the same!
not even get myself to say the "N" word. It surprises me to think how deeply it affects me. Not only what that word represents, but the disrespect, ignorance, and injustice toward humanity it embodies. In my own personal sphere, words are compelling and the most extreme words, even more so.
and racial slurs flow off my tongue with ease, but quite frankly I have NEVER had the desire to call a black woman a nigger or a brown woman a spic while "doing it"
If I ever tried it at some woman's request, I'd probably ruin it by bursting out in laughter as I am sure I would feel ridiculous, but if others get off on it, so be it for me to judge, but for myself personally, I will pass please.
I think the closest I ever came to this was I had a civvie GF who was black and I would sometimes call her my little "Negress" just to piss her off.
I think? Again, not sure why, but that particular word and the circumstances that surround it are all in a class by itself, for me. Could be because have experienced firsthand, from people of color who are very close to me........how institutionalized racism has deeply affected them.
Being Caucasian, feel a responsibility to make sure I do not passively condone it. When in positions of responsibility I unhesistatingly take risks my peers would shy away from, to do my part to confront it and make our organization better. But of course we live in a less than perfect world.
Yes, you and I are quite different. But..........have noticed a much more gentlemanly, respectful you, than I did about one year ago on this board. What happened?
I am still the same arrogant, obnoxious, opinionated asshole I've always been, but what seems to happen when people read enough of what I have to say, and granted I have a LOT to say lol, is while I hate political correctness, I do stand up against REAL racisim, sexism and every other kind of ism you can think of. I simply choose my battles a little more carefully than many and having been subjected to REAL, overt racism, directed at me with no chance of fighting back and winning, picture the deepest of the deep south, Southern Louisiana back in the 1970's, I let most meaningless racism slide off of me like water off a ducks back, but yes, "some" battles are most definitely worth fighting.
I think part of where we differ is that being non white, I don't suffer from the "white guilt" that many white liberals seem to suffer from. I quit being a victim decades ago, and I have NEVER had anything to apologize where it comes to racism as I am not part of the majority.
I'd like to make a slight correction to what you wrote. You don't have "first hand" experience, only people who have experienced racism themselves can claim "first hand" experience. I have "first hand" experience, you have second hand experience at best and it simply does not compare.
profound and insightful!
I guess it's a step up from shallow and insulting, but don't think I don't still have that capability. lol
... I have a date with my ATF. I play Edward G. Robinson and she's my slave girl.
"Where's your Moses now? Yeah, see!!"
The movie is four and a half hours long but naturally I negotiate the JD discount. I ain't paying for all those commercials, just the running time of the movie.
Joanna Merlin (born Joann Ratner). Her father was Jewish.
And Yul Brynner was Orthodox. Oops. Russian Orthodox
What was some of the language(vocabulary) used?
Since then I started exploring role playing more and while I'll admit that I love vanilla sex. Role play and dirty talk can make a session very hot. Do you guys or gals have any stories of role play or dirty that that intensified the session? If you haven't tried it, I recommend you give it a try. It's really fun. One more reason to see people from different ethnic backgrounds. It's so amazing how exciting it can be to taste different flavors.
to each their own, i love being bossed around, but race play is crossing a line for me
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I saw this gal who had a huge crucifix around her neck. We got into a great cowgirl position and she made sure that the crucifix banged into my very Jewish looking face the whole time she was riding me.
I have to say, I found it very uplifting, and I think she was getting off on it too, though we were both very tactful and did not mention the fact
HUGE difference IMO!
Steph xoxo
....call me a nigger in pretty much any form I might punch you dead ass in the throat.
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Two of the great domme providers I have seen were black and one used racial slurs all the time, but the best was an amateur who was a great dominant playmate. She would include one or two of her female friends (all black) and use race as an integral part of the play.
A really submissive amateur playmate was black and liked to play black slave white master and for me to include racial slurs. She was also bi and loved when I included a white lady who had domme tendencies and would really get into the racial dominant thing.
One of the true loves of my life was a very competent, very tall, very beautiful Jamaican lady who loved to be told what a naughty girl she was when I would bring her to the edge of climax and keep her there as long as I could. Once in a while she would tell me she was the "house slave" and I was the master who owned her.
In the end it is like everything about sex, at the base what pleases the consenting adults and causes no permeant damage is OK not matter how little it would be acceptable otherwise.
My wife and I are swingers, and occasionally we'll invite a single man in for some fun. We met with a black man one evening and everything appeared very normal in the beginning. Eventually, he made it clear he liked being called the N word while she was sucking him or fucking her. It was the first time we had any experience with it, she was a little uncomfortable at first but found out fairly quickly the more she used the word, the more he liked it and the better he fucked her. Afterward, we all had a good laugh and there wasn't anything else mentioned about it until the next time we met up. It didn't change our opinions of him and he knows she didn't use the word with any type of hate. He's now a very good friend we see on a fairly regular basis. Yes, he still likes her using the the word while he's fucking her.