I am curious how many providers offer, or have considered offering "monthly arrangements"?  By that, I mean a set $$$$ amount upfront for a month with a general agreement on frequency and duration of dates for that time period.  Effectively, the hobbyist gets a discounted rate for becoming a regular, and the provider gets steady income stream for the period with a regular client she is comfortable with...  Some might consider it crossing more into the SD/SB world, but started here.

1. If sex is the primary reason one partakes in this, it makes sense than a lot of spending and trying out different people for sexual chemistry. Marriage goes on. Sex goes on. Efficient.  

I prefer to sample to goods and not get locked into a schedule.  I began this hobby to enjoy the variety of pussy available

Given the right person, I'd be for it.  I explore a bit, but still have one lady I keep going back to because of the sexual chemistry that has developed between us.  I would think that ladies would be in favor due to the guaranteed income stream.  Enough steady customers, they could go UTR from time to time.

It makes perfect business sense for many providers. It takes the guesswork and uncertainty out of the monthly revenue # for those who need to hit certain goals.

those very few Gentlemen who seek 'Quality' over 'Quantity' in this world. I don't mean quality in the 'type' of woman, but in the 'type' of experience he seeks. These gentlemen are not interested in fucking every pussy on the block to put it bluntly. You meet, the chemistry is there however natural, and he is interested in pursuing you further than the one or two or even five date scenario.  

With my right hand.

Pigeon-holing this into a "quantity vs. quality" box is silly.  For example, I have no, zero, zilch, interest in a LTR or SB/SD situation.  I like variety.  Even my favorites are seen only once every couple of months.  But that has no, repeat no, impact on quality.  All the women I see are exquisite. Why would anyone want to assume because I don't want a monthly deal the women I see are lacking in any way?
Yeah, I guess Rasha, Chloe Carter, Morgan Lane,  Viktoria Monroe, Devin Davette, and Samantha Good are just chopped liver.  Right.  I could go on.  Or you could just see who I've reviewed.
I love them all,  Each in her own way.  My way.  Sorry you don't get it.  And none of these ladies "discount."
Do us all a favor and don't respond to this.  You have fallen back into your previous, multiply judgmental iterations.  Too bad.  But, in retrospect, it was inevitable.

I entered into an exclusive monthly arrangement that ended up lasting two years.  I only agreed after knowing the gentleman for several years.  He was (is!) an amazing man.  The relationship ended naturally, and I believe we both walked away without regrets.

defines it I suppose. I sometimes (ok always) forget where I am most of the time. Be sure to lube those hands well, you'll need it. But I bet your bank is plentiful, so kudos to you. You could always make an 'arrangement' with your hands for each individual night.  

I thought it was just 'my opinion' on the matter and I thought all were allowed to post freely with our own opinions.......but ok, I guess not. Or maybe I'm exempt? LOL

...do as they're told.

to Vegas afterall. I do know you're upset. It's ok, I'm sure we'll pass in the wind somewhere in this small getting smaller even smallest world we all live in......how is that even possible? LOL Damn........Canada here I come.  

That would explain a lot.

So glad you checked with Mike.  And who sez it's only 7 "? And what does "girth" mean? Sorry,but I'm only 6'. Such a midget.  But a happy one. And I don't see mid-40s gals.  
So we're good for cafe but little else.  We'll both survive.
Muah!

P4P....  I take your point though, so going forward I will use a more TER politically correct term and call it a 'preferred rate' rather than a 'discount'...

Nicky, my experience up till now has been much like yours.  I have thoroughly enjoyed the variety of exquisite women I have met over the last couple of years.  Many of whom have put on terrific performances for my first time meeting them, and it is hard to imagine it could get much better after several more dates.  But then again, I wouldn't know because I have not tried it.

first off, let me just say how happy I am that you've found someone who filled your need in the 'arrangement' arena. No matter what people say on these boards, you have to do what is in your heart and what works for you as no one can tell you any different. I always told you from day 1...you will know when that time comes.  

a cocktail or 2 when I'm on dates. You know I hate to disappoint.

'girth' is....did I misspell it? It's the 'thickness' that counts silly...not the length btw and the 'curve' helps too depending on where her G spot is Length hurts for some of us tiny chicas. We don't need it coming out our throats now the other way....ewwwww lol.  

1) I was joking about not knowing what "girth" meant.
2) I do sport a wonderful "g-spot curve."
3) The MFM was fabuloous.  And HOTT.  She pronounced herself well satisfied.  I won't reveal her name but you know who she is.

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'girth' is....did I misspell it? It's the 'thickness' that counts silly...not the length btw and the 'curve' helps too depending on where her G spot is Length hurts for some of us tiny chicas. We don't need it coming out our throats now the other way....ewwwww lol.  
   
 Good for 'cafe'? Ok you lost me lol. You know I don't meet OTC with first time gents...and yes of course, we'll do more than both survive.  
   
 Btw, how was your 3some...I am dying to know. I hope it was HOTT with 2 T's........are you leaving a review then?

clue...I don't 'backchannel' like you boys haha, you'd be amazed. But feel free to PM me if you care to. My one experience in that arena, was indeed HOTT as well, no matter how many of you didn't 'understand' that post either hahahahaha. And again it wasn't P4P, not sure how that would've changed the scenario in all honesty. Interesting dynamic now that I think about it.  

I have a fav I see 1 or 2 a month. I have been seeing her for over a year may be 2. Sometimes we just can not connect. she is busy, I am busy. Based on this fact, a monthly commitment would end badly because of busy schedules and YOU the hobbyist would be unhappy because you did not get what you paid for.  But don't try to negotiate a discount until after you have seen her for a year.  But even if you cut $50 off her rate, is $ to $$ going to break your bank. Having a reliable provider is worth way more that what you could save. So rather than stirring the pot, Be happy! She will respect you more if you don't negotiate, AND I might ad there are a whole lot more free benefits to be had with a LTR.

I really did not negotiate the rate, just making sure we had flexibility on time, both in length of the date within an acceptable range) provided the average was X as some weeks we might have a little more time to meet, other weeks less.  On that note, and to your point, to the extent we are both busy one week and cannot meet, we can double up the next week.  She actually explained that to me.  I can imagine in these situations, as Mimi said, it is important to be clear upfront what the expectations are...  

Can't imagine why I would not see anyone because of you?  You have not yet achieved "kiss of death" status with me and I doubt you could.  I agree a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman and some age better than others.  Some of the hottest women I've seen say they're mid 30s when they're actually about ten years older than that.  I could care less, if they're hot and have game.
As for revealing who the object was of my recent MFM, sorry, but I'd rather not, even by PM.  It was a fantasy of hers I was glad to help fulfill.  If she chooses to bring it to this board (unlikely) that's her call.

of no interest to me the who's and what's that typically go on here lol unlike some lol. In any event, glad you guys had a good time. But if it was a fantasy of 'hers' and she asked you, did she pay you then LOL or was it 'pro bono'? How does that work exactly..........gimme a lil food for thought on this one.

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A good friend and I have developed a similar situation.  She refers to me as "her knight in shining armor" because I've been there for her when things were tough, asking for nothing in return.

But, no, sorry, I'm not sharing any details of our tryst.

Both inicky and GaG are the self appointed TER Gods. They can post their opinion but if you post yours and they don't agree with, they are accustomed to call you, a drunk, a dumb ass, stupid and what not.

That said, you are full of shit, as always.  Nobody appointed me anything, let alone myself.  I write what I think.  If you don't like it I could give less than two shits.  Especially if you're a semi-literate clown who 99.9% of the time writes so badly that it's impossible to understand what he means.  And the rest of the time is simply wrong

Only explanation for this post I can see.