1.  Do you like your partner to be quiet or loud?
        Ether way. It is about the face with me.

2.  Are you quiet or loud?
        I am quiet.

Quiet and quiet

I love bedroom talk in a reserved, but audible, fashion.

Hard, deep, fast... makes me so bite a pillow!!! lol

1. I like my partner to be medium... not super loud, not so quiet that I cant tell if they came,
or are having a good time...


2. I am VERY loud when I am really into the sex, or the guy or they have hit a sensitive button with me...

I am extremely vocal during a big o in DATY if they are good, and when having sex from behind, if they pull my hair, and get me deep and hard, I get REALLY loud, sometimes I have had to bite a pillow loud lol

I also can be loud and been known to gush in missionary, because the mix of passionate kissing and looking at my partner's intensity really drives me wild!

Excellent question..an my answers are..

When I first got into the hobby world I expected quiet on both counts.  But as I spent more and more time with different ladies I was exposed to many ladies who would moan and very quietly encourage me.  I on the other hand would remain quite passive vocally.  One particular lady friend had given me a nickname of "ninja".  Just very recently I spent time with a lady who was quite vocal and spewed a whole lot of dirty talk during the session.  I was quite surprised at this, but at the same time was awfully turned on by this (and encouraged her to keep up with this).  As for myself, I am beginning to come out of my shell and am now verbalizing more and more.  However, not yet getting to the point of dirty talk, but that is my aim at this point.  I would be curious to know how the ladies like to hear it back?  Romantic chatter or bold and dirty explicit talk?

1) It's up to her; I definitely prefer some feedback, audible and other, and I want to be able to hear it. But consistent and sustained "loud" strikes me as being rather like the guys at the gym who have to make a LOT of noise while their lifting their weights -- seems like it more about noticing them, rather than focusing on the task at hand.

2) Audible, consistent feedback throughout our play time; maybe an exclamation or two -- but not what I would consider "loud." She knows that I'm enjoying what we're up to and there's no doubt about the outcome -- but I don't generally want the neighbors to know what we're up to. Especially if it's dark and we're in the pool!

I've recently been with a couple of ladies who were *way* too loud.....

for being in a hotel room with the cleaning staff out and about. While I enjoy the expressions of appreciation and the feedback, I admit that it makes me uncomfortable at times...

I know of one such lady who experienced coitus interruptus and was asked to vacate the premises forthwith by management....

And I've experienced double interruptus with a very loud but exceedingly fun young lady.

I *like* a noisy lady. I like direction, encouragement, and enthusiastic response.

However, it is sometimes not practical depending upon the situation....

1. Do you like your partner to be quiet or loud?

A: Facial expressions and body language are more important to me than verbal feedback.

2. Are you quiet or loud?

A: Very quiet.

I don't want to go deaf or make anyone else go deaf but not so quiet as to hear a pin drop either...

Re: Are you refering to HOW MUCH is uttered or HOW LOUDLY it is uttered?

escalating whimpering and moaning with gentle calls to the deities can be a major turn on.
However, one time, an excited partner loudly exclaimed "Oh! You Beast!" and I nearly exploded!!...
...with laughter! lol! It was so hard controlling an outburst, I went soft and couldn't finish. lmao!
I can tell when a woman is 'trying' to talk dirty... it's jusr too funny at any volume.
Now if she is speaking in tongues 'cuz she's filled with the spirit so-to-speak, then that's just hella hot!

"Who's yer daddy?!?" hahaha

HalfHour

1. I like my partner to be vocal but not loud. was surprised the first time a provider talked dirty, my ex was definitely the silent type.

2. I tend to be quiet, but with the right provocation can string together compound cursewords with the best of 'em.

Either or is my answer to both

Had some that were loud, some not so much. I can be loud, sometimes not.

Just as long as mission is accomplished, I'm all good!

Fake... I would rather she just shut up.

Real... I say the louder the better. Let'em hear it.

Me, I am somewhere in between the 2 extremes... whether I an faking it or not !!  lol

I like getting some vocal feedback but sometimes that's not necessary.

What I don't like is a lady who is loud even though she's not really that into it.

I'm usually kind of quiet but I've learned to open up vocally as well as other ways.

Whatever works is my motto!

When You find my magic spots...lol....

I can Not contain myself....and I am Very Loud...as far as with my partner...I don't care if they are loud or quiet...as long as they are having Fun

1. I LOVE when my partner is loud, if it is REAL and coincides with her physical feedback, it gets me going big time!

2. I can be loud when it feels good, but am usually VERY VERY LOUD when I have an explosion...

Quiet Is Ssssooo Boring..Hehehehe

Im loud and I love loud!!!! Ive tried so many times to deal with the silent treatment during....well u know. Bbbbbbooorrrriiinnngggg...hehehehe....I think being loud is a part of the passion!!! Dont know about you ladies but I love to hear a man ROAR!!!!! Thats just my little input...

Ms. CandyGyrlxxx

As long as she isn't doing a bad acting job.
Quiet or Loud if she's sincere.
If she is good, and she doesn't cover my mouth with a pillow , security will  show up.

I am loud, but it depends on what my partner sounds like when he reaches the O as to whether or not I like him being loud.

I had one gentleman that snorted when I helped him achieve the O. He continuously did it for about 3-4 min. afterward. It made me laugh but it made the manager come to our door. LOL!

I do like to hear a little something from the guy at least. I feel like he's not enjoying himself if there's silence on his end. I'm kinda medium on my own noise. I either get louder when having an orgasm or occasionally I get pretty quiet.

The answer for both is sometimes loud sometimes quiet, it all depends on my mood and location at that particular moment in time.

well...depends...

Im not loud, but I am expressive in when something feels THAT good, I can't hold it back..I'm not a screamer, but defiately a moaner..and I LUV LUV when the guy I am with makes any sort of sound, the more vocal he is, the more I get into it..Lets me know what I am doing at that particular moment is making him a lil nuts and I get so turned on by hearing a man..make any sound..

my 2 answers...

like to hear her moan

I myself am usually pretty quiet.  My partners I do like to make noise, some good moaning does turn me on. Just can't sound too phony.

1) I prefer any partner I'm with to be genuine in all her reactions. I don't expect a provider to actually be into it with me and that's OK, I just want her to be nice about it and to try to make me feel good. Fake moans turn me off since it's like she's announcing "I'm putting on a show now! And I expect you to think this is real since you're a guy!" I've also been with enough civilian gfs and FWBs to identify some things that only providers seem to do. Women's (and men's) orgasms are often pretty subtle things -- a whole-body tensing, rather than a thrashing seizure. I can't remember any civilian woman I've been with clenching her internal muscles when she came either, but I do remember providers who thought I expected it.

2) Depends. I like to talk dirty actually, though more so with a civilian who enjoys it too.

I like noise to the extreme so long as we have that "connection". I personally don't make much noise, but I love it when my provider makes some noise, they can make enough noise that the whole building can hear!