I've been through a couple different providers that offered BBBJ. Each time they perform, they wrap their mouth around your junk and just move up and down repeatedly, minimal tongue, and only their lips touching. What I've always been interested in is those BBBJ on adult videos where they use alot of tongue, like licking a Popsicle. I'ts wet and they kiss the thing from time to time. Has anyone gotten those type of BBBJs before? Is this something I can ask for or is the standard BBBJ just the bare lips rubbing. Any advice or experience would be much appreciated..

One answer is, of course, if you see a provider who really enjoys giving oral sex, she will be very creative, enjoying all kinds of different licks, sucks, touches, kisses, etc. The only limits are her imagination.

However, you may need to help someone who just does the basic in-and-out. Maybe put your hand around your shaft of your "junk" so that she can only put the head in her mouth. Maybe hold your "junk" against your stomach so that all she can do it lick the shaft up and down. Maybe you have to vocalize exactly what you want her to do.

In any case, when she does what you want her to, tell how great it feels.

Maybe that's all they know. Maybe they aren't sure of themselves. Maybe they want to hear from you what you want. There is nothing wrong with telling them how you would like it. Fortunately the ladies I have seen so far have excellent oral skills. But I wouldn't mind asking for something in particular if I wasn't getting it. Be nice, be polite and be responsive when they do something you like or when the do what you ask and it's working.

They are very customer services oriented and with a little feed back, they will rock your world.

but then you'd also be surprised on how few men really know how to eat pussy properly.

But i am an apt pupil! LOL
If the Box is clean and trim i have been known to pack a lunch and stay the day!!!!!

Give directions!  participate!

You get what you give..

We can't read your mind.

.... good amount of spit (you're not a bull dog don't over-do it) , lots of tongue (work it like you don't have fingers/hands lol), your throat is your friend don't force it unless he likes it and watch the teeth oh and don't forget the "boys"..... what'd I miss?

It's an absolute shame that some gals have never seemed to get a handle on how to give a gent an out of this world, toe curling, jizz squirting BBBJ.

It is key to involve licking the balls in a delicate and sensual manner......running your tongue all around them and if desired light sucking, licking the shaft like a Popsicle.....repeating these step as often as desired....and when they can't handle it any further......take it in your mouth and instead of using hands, use your tongue to massage their cock while it's in your mouth. The next thing you know, your gurgling their jizz and swallowing it! YUMMY.....your reward!!!

Some ladies are just going through the motions and some really know what the hell they are doing.Tell the lady what you want closed mouths don't get fed!

There ought to be some sort of instructional videos available to gal's so they can get up to speed !  By the way-wonder who teaches Korean gal's all the moves in the AMP'S?