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I have been reading the boards a lot lately, and I have noticed a few questions regarding how many clients a lady will see in a day. I have a question for the hobbyist..
How many girls do you see? Are yo the type to want to see all of the newest "talent" to your area?

Do you stick to traveling ladies or do you have a regular girl/s?

Desiree of Portland wants to know.

Loved your web site! To answer your question:  I see perhaps six providers a year but always return to those who know the difference between sexuality and sensuality.  It appears that you so understand.  My best.  Lencho.

I prospect: I will try new girls who seem appealing or are well reviewed and if I find a "keeper" I will see her as long as she remains a "keeper" and not bother with other girls. I am incredibly picky and almost impossible to please (oh well) so when I find a suitable provider I want to see her exclusively. So, in that sense, I guess I am not technically a "hobbyist": I favor quality over quantity... perhaps the term "connoisseur" is more appropriate.

For the above reasons, I will NEVER see a travelling provider... what would be the point? If she is suitable, a "keeper", it matters not since she will leave anyway. Besides, travellers don't have the incentive to provide top-notch service: their appeal rests more on novelty than satisfaction, and I have little use for mere novelty... the traveller is definitelymore suited to the pure hobbyist.

The flaw with my approach is that after I have seen that "perfect girl" maybe 10+ times, she starts to regard me as less a client and more of a kind of "boyfriend" with the attendant tendency to provide less "service"... I wonder if others have a similar experience with this phenomenon.

O.

I like to see different women plus I have my favorites.  There was a period of time last year where I exclusively saw only one
lady for a period of about 5 months.
If I truly "click" with a lady I will enjoy the pleasure of her company as often as I can budget it, and I also like to see other ladies in between those visits.
I really enjoy meeting new "friends" in this activity\hobby and will see travelling ladies if there is an attraction and we establish some sort of rapport through emails or phone prior to her visiting the so cal area.
I have popped out to your website and if you are planning a trip to the SoCal area... ink me in!
Regards
LM

the answer is YES... to both.

New ladies are always interesting. I'ver met a few ladies that travel and two of them have totally knocked me out.

I love to spend time with Felicia Foxx, WowNikki and Sonya.

I saw three in one night on a recent "binge" but usually try to keep it to one woman per month because of budget reasons.

Forgive me if the following novel gets sappy. It'll answer the question on about page 473.

I suppose I'm an anomaly because until a few months ago, I was in a very long-term monogamous relationship.  Very long term meaning over two decades. (Please don't ban me from this site because that admission makes me a freak of nature.)  I was admittedly a madman at strip joints and had the same animal hunger for variety that any guy has, but never broke my word. Unfortunately, my partner betrayed me, not sexually but in another awful way that ended everything for all intents and purposes.

I then considered myself a sexual free agent (to use a sports term) and enjoyed a number of escorts, but never had a real GFE. Never, that is, until I met a very special escort.  That was only a short time ago, but I've stuck with her exclusively ever since.

I will eventually be mixing in some other escorts, possibly in the near future.  After all, it's not like my special girlfriend isn't cheating on me.  

But she's given me back that "extra-special something" I had back in the good old days of my old relationship. She's filled that void.  She has me walking around with a smile on my face days after we've gotten together.

I have an overnight session planned with her for sometime soon. I can't wait to go to sleep that night with my arm around her, my hand cupping her breast.  (Actually, I'll probably have to ask her to bring flannel pajamas so that we can actually get some sleep. )

I know, I know.  What an emotional cripple I am.  I've fallen in love with an escort. I am totally f*cked.

But look at it this way.  Last time we kissed for maybe close to 10 minutes with our clothes on before we moved on to the next step. Nonetheless, by the time our hour was over, I'd come three times. What 40-something-year-old guy wouldn't have an extra spring in his step after that?

So I look at ads and say, "Oooh, baby, she looks great," and read reviews that put lead in my pencil, but for now it's difficult to imagine having a better time that I do with my special girl.

I can sympathize with you absolutely in this, and there is certainly no need to apologize...you are onlydemonstrating that you have a capacity for emotional attachment that can transcend what is commonly viewed as "acceptable" and you should be commended, I think.

I too value quality over quantity, and will see a variety of women before finding "the one": I will see her semi-exclusively until the glitter wears off, or she leaves "the life", etc.

Actually my first provider experiences were a case-in-point... after grad school I had a stint with the World Bank (those villains, I know) and wound up spending a year in Bangkok. At this time, an all nighter with a GoGo girl (and they were vast in number, universally gorgeous, and too willing) cost $80 US, so for the first few weeks I was there it was literally a different girl a night (sometimes two, if they were into it). Then I happened to see a dizzying vision in the Patpong market after hours: Sirilak. Sometimes there is that rare and perfect combination of chemistry, personality-match, and physical attraction that is just otherworldly, and this was it. The first two weeks, I would meet her at her club (Kings II), pay her bar fine and we would just spend the evening together, then the night. I worked as little as possible so as to spend more time with her. Finally I got my corporate apartment and I moved her in with me, she took a hiatus from the club, and I took care of her the rest of the time I was there. We both knew this had to end when I left (US execs and Thai gogo girls just don't work in the long run) but my memories of spending time with this girl (19, alas...I was 24 myself so it wasn't that big an age gulf...) remain as some of my happiest even seven years later. Was it love? No, because the end would have been tragic, me leaving and never coming back. As it was, we corresponded for a time, she finally saved enough money to go to college (her goal) and last I heard was studying IT and business. She is a strong and exceptional girl, and I am sure things are going swimmingly for her.

The cautionary aspect of this tale: it is a happy, sweet rememberence because what I felt was not so much love but pure adoration... she remains, literally, my dream-girl. Love is complex, an emotion that must evolve to accept all the non-adorable parts of a partner along with those that are. Sirilak and I never argued: the depth was never there. But we laughed a lot, played erotically and intensely, shopped and went dancing at Rome Club and 2001 and ate at Normandie and Regency Grill. But we never heated up leftovers, and I never saw her in "old underwear"... you see?

The ultimate level of experience with a provider is that: awe and adoration. It sounds like this is what you have (luckily) achieved with your friend.

I personally see the best reviewed in my hometown as well the best reviewed traveling providers when I don't fly them in with the help of my other buddies that partake on this hobby. In a year I could see between 15-35 providers of which some are repeats.

I do have two regular ladies I meet several times a year in threesomes since we do have a good chemistry and know what to expect from each other besides them being real good providers and highly ranked.

I don't like they idea being the first to "Test Drive" a new talent until I can see some consistent reviews in public or private forums or via back channel.

Hope this helps,

Seth A/K/A The Doctor

thanks goinblind, that motivates me. I would love to find someone I could see once a month on a regular basis.---
still looking, havent seen anyone since ("sorry")- Sept 11th but I needed to get my mind off what happened.

thanks, sasha4love.