I've always been a hound '

Of course, the definition of "a great sex life," is an issue. My SO and I have great sex, but it doesn't equate with a great sex life because it doesn't happen as near as often as I need it to. The older we get the greater the gap, between us, regarding the needed frequency.

every night of the year.  You name it, we did it.  

I hobbied extensively during the entire time we were together.

I've had several other SOs w/o such intense sex, and I've hobbied.

The only time I haven't hobbied is during times when I've had a provider girlfriend and that relationship has gone really well.  Sex with providers has always been better than w/ SOs or other civvies, but only in the context of a relationship.

when I am involved in a comitted relationship, but I have a very short attention span and I grow bored easily. It always ends up with me reverting to the hound I am.

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I hobby for variety. I get tired of being with the same woman all the time. My wife is on the heavy side and I like to be with medium and sometimes small women. Sometimes I like of them of different races. My wife does not do greek and that is why I hobby. Some positions she can't do. Some kiss better than my wife and like to kiss long.

My wife and I have a good sex life.  What we do together can vary from awesome to very routine.  She can give a great bj; cg and mish with her is wonderful.  She has a wondeful body and does dress up in lingere.

On the other hand we don't have sex often enough and there are things my wife just won't do.  No CIM (use to do that), no doggie, always late at night after everything else is done.  One and done.

I guess in the end I am a hound dog.

The nice thing about this hobby is that there need not be any games played. Sex with a SO is intertwined with all of the aspects of a complex relationship. It can be wonderful and terrible, sometimes simultaniously. This hobby is just fun, with a playful hour or two, some pleasant conversation, and a sense of a fair trade.

No. When I'm in a relationship, I find another hobby. I'm a very loyal guy to my SOs, and have never cheated at all (I was once "the other guy" for a woman, and that made me guilty enough as it was). Not that I look down on people who still do... it's just the way I am.

Don't have to come home to a SO with an attitude, or take out her work frustrations on me when we should both be winding down.

It might sound crass, or unfeeling, but the few experiences I had so far in the hobby were right up my alley. Gave the ladies an envelope, and had great sex. Talked some, but didn't have to put up with anything more than the lady being a few minutes late.

As a matter of fact, I can't remember when an actual 'girlfriend' treated me better than a provider that gave GFE!

As far as I'm concerned, the hobby is a great thing! The ladies know what I want, I know what they want, and we're both taken care of. Simple.

It'd take a VERY special lady to get me away from this. And to tell you the truth, the only ladies that would qualify are, infact, providers!

... No, I wouldn't hobby.


This is something that has also interested me.  I've always wondered why the married guys hobby.  It's way too personal & private a thing to bring up, so I never have - or would ask here.  But it's something that I have been curious about.

I want to beleive that a marriage or LTR with an SO would be "do-able" for me - without the hobby.

Thanks for the question, Kelly!!  
Manny

the reason i hobby its because i dont have a SO, with my last GF we used to do it on a daily basis so i did not have to go look else where but now days im not interested in getting into drama i rather hobby see dif women and have fun

I hobbied before I got married, so I was already bit by the bug.

I stopped when I got married because the (now ex) was real good at sex for the first few years, though I continued to get a sensual massage now and then because I loved massage and the Mrs. didn't do it.  I figure if I'm going to get a massage, I might as well get a release while I'm at it, but I didn't regard it as actual screwing around.  (Though I wasn't about to tell her about it either.)

Anyhow, when the sex machine got unplugged, I decided to jump back in with both feet.

It's hard to say whether I would have if she kept the home fires burning for me.

No I wouldn't.  If I'm getting it on a steady basis, there would be no reason to spend the money.  Because I'm single and have no sex life, it's money well spent but once I get the SO, I'm spending enough on the her and can't afford the hobby at that point.

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I have and if I was still married I would.  But I have a sex addiction as long as I can remember so I choose to stay single.  I have relationships in the civvie world but as soon as it gets serious, I break it off.  Maybe if I meet the "one", I'll get treatment, otherwise is the cycle of porn to strip club to hobby.  Oh well, I could have a worse addiction like drugs?

Hobbying is great for your sex life at home

Hobbying only serves to keep me emotionally faithful to my SO because it provides a sexual spark which otherwise would become very dull without variety.

There is no need to have a "mistress" or "other woman" to create problems with your steady relationship when you can indulge in NSA situations.

I typically stop hobbying for a while when entering into a new relationship, but will eventually get back to it to provide that spark.

I wish.

No.

I absolutely love eating Italion food.....just not seven nights in a row.

I have three motorcycles, one is a sportbike, the other a Harley, while the other is dirtbike...I love riding all of them.

variety is the spice of life

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Honestly I find it more weird when single guys hobby.  Just from my perspective.

I am married and feel my wife is still a true hottie after 13 years. She still gives me a fast-beating heart when we kiss and I also really love her.

That said, even if we screwed 5 times a week, I'd still have a wandering eye and be horny. Its just how I'm wired.

The main thing is I would never cheat on her... ever! that means getting emotionally involved with another woman, giving that woman a piece of my heart, sharing myself with that woman spritually and emotionally.

I'm new to the Hobby thing, but when I'm with a Provider, its all about physical fun. There is no lasting 'connection'. I'm just having some fun and getting a release like I do on my motorcycles, my mtn bike, or skiing.

I love my wife and that will never change. If I ever felt like Hobbying was beginning to change that love, I'd quit.

But that is under the condition that other aspects of any kind of relationship would be beneficial. Time spent together, time spent apart, etc...

When all said and done if I could have a relationship close to the kind I have with a provider, and not pay then I wouldn't have to hobby.

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