if there is such a thing?

for a better experience! I would recommend using female condoms, that way you won't have to change condoms when you switch ladies. I would just go with the flow of things, if the women know each other and are really-bi, they will know what to do and will treat you very, very good.

In my experience with threesomes, multiple condoms were not used.  I found that one woman will be more dominant than the other.  It will generally be that one dominant woman who is driving the experience.  Don't even worry about awkward moments, if they happen, they happen.  So quit worrying, have some fun, and just act like you have a million dollars, god damn it.

I would say that the most basic etiquette rules, that will work for most everyone, would be to be open to letting what happens, happen, and be careful what you stick where.

It makes the experience a bit more fun . Try the female condom and you can go back and forth between them without all the changing . Just let the ladies direct as you will be along for the ride !!! Lol

Oh I'm sorry, I didn't know I was paying for you to have a good time! What happens when the two women don't click, and I'm stuck with the bill? Are you going to say, "keep the donation?"

WOW, another woman that can't read. Just as you said, you must be the exception, because not all women work well together. If the two women don't get along or aren't into each other, "The EXPERIENCE" that "WE" are paying for is not worth it. I've had doubles before were one women was really-bi and the other was not, and it felt like there was a third wheel on the bed at times. Not worth the money to have that extra women there that was not enjoying herself. And that is why a lot of women will only work with other women they know. I believe we, the client, is the one paying for the fantasy, are you going to reimburse us if we don't have the experience we desired?

And just understand that just because a girl is Bi does not mean she will be that way with just anyone!I thing I have learned is to get casual info when were in that cool down stage, some are choosy on who they let between there legs,while others wont go down on a girl unless they are really attracted to  them.
When I find a girls that have  similar personalities, (I'm looking for playful, genuine,open minded and of course something close to nympho status)then I show each the others pic... if I get a "she's cute" or similar then I suggest a lunch date, the best times have been when they meet and I see that "twinkle effect", or playful side appears easily.
I'm rarely the one to "push" for a threesome that day ,although every occasion where they wanted to come back to my place has been "off the charts!"Chemistry is a fickle thing, as some ladies I was convinced would hit it off were chill/disinterested (often it seems more to do with territory sadly).
One  was an out of town trip and it was loads of fun, the girls actually got real close sexually and the great part there , they had never met (just spoke on the phone a few times), but the hot tub was the key.Both girls sported D's and they never put a top on for the days we were there!
The girls that are "really Bi" when we have went in search of a partner, it just has never clicked  & the times where I have tried to orchestrate threesome's ...god what disasters they turned out to be lol.
When it works best , I'll suggest seeing them kiss , asking one to suck the others titties ..then I shut up and become focused on getting the girls hot & horny & once that occurs the flow becomes animalistic !!

Most duos are simply not worth the price.  Most hookers are NOT bi or lesbian.  So for the dudes who are expecting the hookers to "play with each other"...they are disappointed.

Sexual attraction has very little to do with chemistry, and the very same women guys have said were "squeaky clean" had a smell. Not always a bad smell, but one just the same. I am very picky about who I go down on, so I will not work with anyone I have not "tested" beforehand.  

When a client wants a double with me, I will suggest one of them that I think would be most suitable as a playmate for us. These are girls (and boys, and TS girls...) who I have played with privately and professionally. This way, I know that not only are they really bisexual, I actually have chemistry with them. I sometimes even rum slightly discounted doubles specials with a friend because I like threesomes so much. I think it makes a huge difference in the guy's experience to be seeing two girls who are really into playing with each other.  
 If a client wants to see myself and a provider I don't know personally together, I'll chat with her through email privately a bit to get to know her first.  

I've read the comments from the providers in this thread, and they make perfect sense.

There are still many of the same concerns, but not all of them obviously. I personally don't work with anyone I don't already know, but many providers have no problem with it. Some of these people have issues, as in mental issues, drug problems, or any other number of possible concerns I do not want to deal with. If a guy wants a 3 way with me, I pick the girl. He is free to not include me at all.

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I'm shocked to hear that  LOL

Maybe that NYC.
I'm in Alabama....things are a LOT different down here.
I do wonder what life would've been like growing up someplace that  
wasn't so sheltering as Alabama.

I'm with you all the way on this one. I have had at 18-20 3-somes over several years, all with two women I have been seeing for several years (but never the two of them together) and only once was I the one who chose the second girl and sure enough, they didn't really click. Not a bad time, but just not what I'd hoped for. The rest, where my friend brought her own, were usually top-notch. Most of the time they were really into each other (so to speak) and well worth it. I love watching the two of them (almost) as much as my own non-spectator participation. As for as non-bi threesomes; not worth it. You're missing an important element.

I'm very involved in the kink/sex positive scenes here, and luckily found them early. You should come up to NYC sometime!  

I can say that chemistry between the girls is SUPER important. Honestly, if you want to get your money's worth, you need two girls who work together. Even if you're not into seeing the girls enjoy each other, there WILL be some interaction between them, and a two-mouth BJ is great...or so I've heard. Now, that doesn't mean I'd have to pick the girl myself, but I'd definitely need to approve any suggestions, and either meet the girl or chat with her ahead of time to make sure we know each other's boundaries.  

Dear Ms. Rayne:
Now I know what you have in common with a porn star. You both reserve the right to interact with whom you want sexually. Also are you getting the instant Hiv test from CVS and Walgreen's? That should be your next question.

If all you want is the sensation of being in a room with two hot naked women whom you will diddle serially you can probably arrange that easily and the women may well play along even if they don't know each other well or are even bi. But for ANYTHING MORE you absolutely have to find ladies who know each other well enough and are into having sex with another woman. After you cross that major hurdle the rest is even easier--just tell them what you want in the session (girl-girl DFK, DATY etc.), make sure you understand and are ok with their boundaries,  and get plenty of rest and drink lots of water beforehand.