I personally love to have penetration with fingers (and other things too) while I am being orally pleased...it definitely intensifies my orgasm. However, there are a number of factors that determine whether or not or how it is pleasurable with fingers. Those factors include:
fingernails must be filed and short - otherwise they hurt and cut hands must be washed with antibacterial soap just prior No dirt under fingernails Stay connected to me ...pay attention to how my body reacts to what you are doing with your fingers. Don't just shove them in there with all your force and keep stabbing away ... OUCH! Be gentle, especially at first and work up into a more passionate rhythm. Study different techniques about how to use your fingers inside a woman ... there are some that give you direct access to stimulating her g-spot and therefore give you the ability to give her a g-spot orgasm along with the clitoral stimulation ...OMG!!! Ask your partner what she likes and what feels good to her ... she knows and can probably be your best teacher at providing her pleasure with your fingers and otherwise.
Thanks for asking this question. It is indicative of your genuine desire to please your partner, which is, in my book, the sexiest thing about a man.
Perhaps I am an exception? I don't know. I enjoy giving oral to my lovers. I let them move against me, she controls where I'm at. After she's had some small Os sometimes I can add a finger (at her option). Again, I let her guide me & move against me... If it's too much she can move to disengage it. skb
That every woman has a different preference where this sort of thing is involved. It may even be different at different times. My ATF doesn't care for fingers at all. One of my other favs loves two fingers sliding in and out of her while I'm licking her clit. Still a third fav that retired a couple of years ago used to go absolutely nuts when I slid a finger in her asshole as I licked away at her clit. One time she got so worked up that she banged her head into the headboard! All three of these gals are multi orgasmic but the one who general has the most is my "no fingers" girl.
The key to good DATY experiences is going along with what the lady likes (or is willing experiment with)Not trying to convince her to do something that she doesn't care for.
wow! Sounds like you have had some bad experiences! I know if a man does this right it can be very exciting, I also know if done crudely it is very unexciting. As for me, what ever makes you hit the big O is OK with me.
an appropriately shaped and placed and controlled vibrator. Again, it is important to find out what the lady likes. I had one civvie friend who loved a thin vibrator in her anus, my tongue on her clit, and a g spot vibrator in place. She would hold off with her O for as long as possible because she loved the feeling and didn't want it to end quickly.
It's already too late! I like someone to ask first. Fingernails are very dirty and I almost always get an infection from someone who does it, so I don't allow it anymore. I love it but I don't allow it.
I love the fingers and I used to love it being done to me all the time. However, I cringe now when someone puts their fingers into me. First, fingers (and any doctor will tell you this) are very dirty. I know know why, but I am prone to infections after men slide their fingers into me. So, because of that, I hate it when men just assume that I want their finger(s) in me. I prefer the tongue -- plain and simple. I get nervous just thinking about a finger now and the anticipated trip to the store to buy cream and be layed up (pardon the pun) for a week. It's no fun, guys.
Be courteous and read a woman's profile, but also ask. Sometimes profiles are wrong.
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