How long would it take for you to allow a hobbyist to see you without makeup or your hair done up?

I don't mean when first starting the date...I mean before you would take a shower with them that would includes getting your hair and face wet where it would leave your hair and face not all done up.

Would it have to be an overnight date.
An Evening date or extended daytime date.
Whenever he asks you to shower with him.
Never.

I understand that many ladies want to look their best for every client they see and I adore a dolled up woman.  I also like the natural woman and think one of the sexiest looks for a woman is when she just stepped out of the shower, pool or lake and is sooaked from head to foot and all natural.

(waving my hand) "natural" girl here

When I first started, I used to be all "dolled" up! Hair, makeup, lingerie & heels, you name it!

But, with time, I did notice men LOVES the natural feel better.

Before each appointment, I wash my hair and I take a long hot bath with wonderful smelling salts.

I apply my favorite lotion all over my body, to give that soft velvety feeling when they touch me.

I wear nothing, just my skin, under a silk robe.

No stockings, no heels, no makeup --- and men LOVE IT!

Once in a while, I get guys who request lingerie & heels. But, most of them do not care when I tell them I am a "natural" girl.

Wearing just my skin never turned any guy off!

BDG

One night after I had been seeing my ATF for about three months I went out to get us some beverages as we were gong to hang out a bit (I was her last appointment) She asked me if she could take her "Big Shower" meaning wash off all of her makeup and get into her pajamas and robe...she was afraid that, even though it was "off the clock time" I would not find her sexy. Boy was she wrong! When I came back to her room and saw her in "civvie mode" I just about lost control.  I told her that I would really love to see her that way at the START of our next date, not afterwards...She hasn't worn makeup when we are together since that night about two years ago.

and all I can say is that on each occasion - I just wish that the ex-ms Superdude was a great lookin in the morning as the two ladies I've been with.... they were both better lookin in the morning than most women who do the do... all day long!!!!  

Only if I knew you would not have a heart attack

I understand where Ciara is comming from about reviews. I am so glad I have gotten past the looks numbers..I'm a mature women who never was a barbie doll. My pictures on my website are right on the money..If someone is not happy with me I will simply leave no questions asked

I agree that many men want that fresh clean natural look. I always meet my friends at my public outcall location until I get to know them. I am always dressed in office attire. Heels and a nice dress with little or no makeup with my long blonde hair free flowing. When the clothes come off most gentlemen tell me how beautiful I am. I am fresh faced other than a little mascara and this is the face of a 59 year old.

Now for the review portion my feeling is most men look for the performance numbers first. There are those gentlemen where age and looks are a very important thing. Ciara your gorgeous so you need not worry about that.

Are most ladies hung up on what gentlemen score their looks. I myself don't think it is that important as long as he was happy with everything else. Looks can be compensated buy a soft sensual long lasting kiss just as long as your pictures reflect the true you.

Kisses Haley

I recently started diving on extended appointments-
(*well, I found the most awesome little town to dive in- so I share it with good friends*)
so in answer to your question... once a gentleman is considered enough of a friend to spend extended time with, he can usually handle me with no make-up- so I have no problem seeing him "natural"

With first time clients and regulars. I like to open the door with my hair done and make up on because I want my guest to feel appreciated and know that I want to look good for him and know that I took time to look good for HIM. However, I routinely take showers with my guests, shampoo my hair and take off my make up. Shower play is Fricking Fun.

I definitely appreciate it when I first see a new lady, and it's obvious that she made some effort to look nice.  I also really like the fresh scrubbed look. Ladies that have gotten to know me and are comfortable with that, I ask them not to worry about dolling up. But that first impression? I appreciate the effort.

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That way I don't scare any overnight guest the next morning....lol

...she showers with you with her shower cap on!!!

And she was still damm cute!

the first date, cuz when we're done I have no make-up on and well forget the hair it probably looked like I just got out of a shower!

good post, sweetie!!hope you get the chance to see
xoxoxo
Terri

most of the time. I like the longer dates where we can relax, shower and wake up together. Women look beautiful to me waking up from an overnight . Casual civvie clothes can also be a turn on for me.  
You have given me an idea and I may request "civvie mode" from the start sometimes. Especially when I have a date that only lasts a couple of hours.

-- Modified on 10/21/2008 5:21:09 AM

Maybe it's me but I've seen many ladies recently in a more "natural" state.  I do generally request no hairspray, so maybe that's a direction they gravitate towards.  Last week I stayed to help my friend shower, pack, stop by the bank, and took her to the airport.  You really get to know someone on a different personal level when you are folding her underwear and packing her toys...  

I do enjoy that personal connection.  I get so tired of being treated like a piece of meat.

You ladies would even look good with "Throw Up" on you!....I mean that as a compliment!...You'd look better with me on you though!(lol).

What's right for one person may not work for another. I think people should keep some opinions to themselves and worry about themselves. I think you are beautiful, darlink'!

Hugs,
Ciara

Shower caps? Now that brings back memories of the 60's too. Geez! Those things hurt like hell when being pulled off, especially if you had long hair.

Hugs,
Ciara

there is no doubt that one of the hottest sexual encounters was with a young lady here in Philly who does not do her hair, no lipstick... just her raw talent... and it is incredible... when you finish with her, you are "finished!"  but... and here is where the questions come in...

She is bare at the Y.... are you?

what "Scent" do you wear... hers (because a fair number of her clients are married) is subtle at best... so what "Scent" do you wear?

I am totally bare...I mean, arms, legs, the Y.  All smooth like silk!

I am a low volume girl, meaning I only see two, sometimes three clients a day (yes, that's LOW volume compared with the touring ladies who definitely need to see double the amount just to break even).

I shower many times a day, reason I need a good moisturizer all over my body to protect my skin.

I do not use expensive products, all lotions formulas  are basically  the same.

My favorites are Neutrogena and Aveeno.

Neutrogena Sesame Oil has a light and subtle scent that makes my skin smells wonderful and  soft to the touch.

Aveeno Creamy Moisturizing Oil is also great and very light scented.

I think if a guy is married he should - always - take a shower before going home, no matter how much of a contact he has with a lady.

Women are like hounds, they have an uncanny sense of smell and even if you think you are ok, chances are you are not and your nose is not detecting the faint scents you might have on you.

Lets face it. All cosmetics made for women are scented to a certain degree. is always wise to take a quick HOT shower AFTER a romp, even if you don't use any soap, the steam will dissipate any feminine scents lingering on you.








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Re: "natural" girl here *** I second that!!!!! ***

I have never had any man complain about my hair not being done.   Sometimes, it's just not possible to be dolled up, especially when the gentleman calls 20 minutes before he wants to come over.   I try to accomodate last minute appts but it is hard to look and feel your best without a bit more notice!    That said, no one has ever complained about my straight hair as I am always clean and fresh!

I have my eye on you!

Re: (waving my hand) But I can't see you...

as you are hiding behind that alias...I wish I knew whom you was and where!  Pm me if you like...I is curious!

I usually like to dress up when I see someone to show that I have been anticipating our time together and as a way to "dress to impress"

I also take requests for dress and wardrobe: stockings, flat shoes, jeans and a tank top with no makeup.

I shower during a multi-day visits or after certain activities; a shower is always more fun together.  

I am open to ideas and am comfortable dressing up or dressing down.  Some ladies are not comfortable with this but a lot of ladies are...

I hope you find what you're looking for...

low volume is 2 or 3 ?

wow, different perspective.

xo lisa

I prefer to space my appointments, to leave me plenty of time for other activities.

I don't have big expenses, I own my condo and is where I entertain my guests.

Usually, I book my dates leaving 3 or 4 free hours in between.

Isn't that low volume compared to the revolving door system most ladies operate?

BDG

Butt...what if it was the lang hard ride that made my ticker flutter!

I do have a premise for the question I asked of the lady, and it has nothing to do with heart attacks...well maybe they ladies!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts...look for my thoughts below...cutting open a whole new can of worms!

Maybe you can share that in the second can of worms I opened at the bottom of the thread!

shower fun is fricken' fun!

I added my premise to this question at the bottom fo the thread.

I'll have to go look at the photos...I am hoping you don't mean a facial tatoo! wink ....kidding!

I did add the premise of my question to the bottom of the thread.

Reactive showers....they have many names!

Work up a sweat...give showers or take showers...can mean more than one illudes to in a few words!

Gotta like the ride em hard put em away wet mentaily huh!

I did add my premise to this thread at the bottom.

And fantasies, dress up to match imagination is always fun in my book!

I did put my premise to this thread below.

Since the hobby is all about fantasy...sex...and just pain having a d*mn good time...I love to partake but also with some reservation at times.

When I open the door and see the lady I have been waiting the entire day...week or month anticipation can get the better of me and can be hard to control at times.

I walk in and we chat to get to know each other a little bit.  She looks stunning all done up and dressed to kill in the manner that makes her hot and waiting to please her man.

I want to do whatever passion drives me towards.  Kissing her from head to toe, running my fingers through her hair...pulling her hair if the moment calls for it.  Riding her and having her ride me without any regard to limits or precautions.

For me I often worry, can I grab her hair, lick her ear, run my tongue lightly up her chin without messing things up and making her self concious about things.  It is hard enouh to read likes and dislikes physicaly, then we have to worry about emotions of messing up attire or makeup.  God forbid I ever pull out hair extensions in haste and the lady feed me a knuckle sandwich for being over zealous! lol ( I have pulled out a ladies extensions once as she was yelling for me to pull her hair dang it)!   there is that moment of caution waiting for the response.

So ladies...with all the great responses and preferences... are my fears legit in some cases of ruining a good thing or comfort zones by getting too involved in the moment?


My asking before hand about the willingness to shower and get her hair wet has been my way of determining if I can run my hands through or pull hair and other things or be cautious of her beauty during play time.

Thoughts!

-- Modified on 10/22/2008 12:37:11 PM

Some providers book numerous appointments in a day-  thus booking back to back clients. Understanding this, it is difficult to have a client completely wreck the room as well as walk out with the provider so disheveled that it takes another hour just to get things back to an appearance worth viewing.

After repeatedly making the comment:  this place looks like a sex party took place... I decided to extend my appointments to only multi-hour and that way I can enjoy myself in the manner in which you describe. Unfortunately I have noticed most providers haven't built enough of a client base to have the same ability. However, I am sure if you keep that in mind and are perfectly clear on your intentions that a provider will be more than willing to schedule her time accordingly.

While most providers don't take into consideration the amount of time it takes to prepare for the arrival of a client in terms of being compensated, most established providers do consider the recovery time when she is booking. This can have a huge influence on who might be willing to make appointments with you, the suggested gift donation  and how far she will allow your passion to roam.

Just remember it is a business and most providers are actually in it to be compensated. Best wishes in finding what you seek ~T

I've had the experience of a lady "smell" another ladies scent on me... how?  I'll never know... as neither wears much perfume or odors...

and I prefer ladies who operate as you do... they seem to be more comfortable with the experience and more willing to give something of their personality to the experience....  and that is what differentiates (at least to me) a great experience from a truly memorable experience.  

but there is a market for all types of service... and on that you can count.

There's an old blue comedy routine by Red Foxx entitled "Wash Your Ass."  Please, ladies, soak your beautiful bottoms in a bath rather than simply shower betweeen appointments. It really doesn't take anymore time.  Did you ever go 69 on a woman who didn't actually, thoroughly wash her ass?  I guarantee more repeats.