I have dates set up with 2 well reviewed providers.  Whether it is due to guilt, fear of STD's, or some other reason, I just want a session with some lap dancing, groping, kissing with a lot of "manual" stimulation and manual release.  As a provider, does this type of session offend you?  Is it selfish of me?

From what I heard, most provider won't be bothered by it.  Feel free to ask for it *after* you've both "gotten comfortable" (in the hobby sense).  Just remember that the donation will be the same no matter what you choose to do.  After all, you're paying for time and companionship.

Hell no. As long as your gentle.

I can't stand to be booked by someone who has no intention of touching me.

It happens seldom, but when it does, it is the absolute pits.  I suppose some other girls wouldn't mind (after all, many do spend entire sessions dancing like Ali to avoid kissing, f/s and things associated with GFE).  However, most well-reviewed GFE providers like their work (it shows through their review history) and are deeply offended by someone who books them and gives them limitations.
The other night I had a first-timer who drove me nuts running to grab hand sanitizer every time he touched my pussy.

If you do intend on kissing at least and mutual masturbation~that should be a lot of fun for the girls involved.
Just don't pester them about your fear or guilt.

With all of that being said, no-it's not selfish.  After all it is your money.  Just make sure that your provider(s) of choice are into it before booking them.

expect to do what you would like with the "time" YOU are paying for.  How dare you not satisfy her with your manly gifts?

But seriously, make sure the reviews show that the ladies engages and enjoys the services you are looking for and you should also make sure that the lady dances, as this is not a usual service.  

As for the rest, have fun and when you get over your fears, consider expanding your menu.


BTW, in case anybody missed it, this was meant to be informative and a little funny.  Please no flames, unless they are given in the same vein.

attempt to interject some jocularity here!

This is life and death stuff we are talking about here!

We are talking about satisfying one of mankind’s most basic and oh so very important needs.

We are talking SEX here..

Oh sorry it’s not that. It’s an exchange of hard earned funds for “time and companionship”.
Sex is NEVER involved.     Nope, never.      

Never, ever.

So we’re really here to satisfy a need for COMPANIONSHIP.

Humor?  We don’t need no stinking humor.

LMAO

C_K


Oh and to the OP - take the serious advice given, it is your time - your dime.

my needs are met. Nothing like a good hot makeout session like in our younger days when sex was a real tabu. My panties would get soaked and i'd be squirming all over the place. Kissing touching licking in erogenous areas can be so enticing and not just on our sex organs.

Are you being selfish??? Heck no, I am going to be getting hot wet and juicy right along with you. It's you time and your fantasy and I know you will do your best to make your provider happy to.

Will a GFE be unhappy? Seems to me that GFE doesn't stand for sex it means you enjoy some pleasurable time with a lady who makes you feel like you belong together, like time stands still or just flys by effortlessly.

Now for the sad part ;-(  Being a mature woman i'm not sure if I know how to do a lap dance.

Kisses Haley

Please don't worry about no lap dancing.  Your posts show a bright sensitive lady with a great sense of humor who loves getting oral stimulation (my great favorite your pictures show a gorgeous lady. Your reviews are great.  Now why don't I need to get down to Orlando regularly?

I don't think a provider would or should have a problem doing that and I deffintiely would not be offended, what ever floats your boat. Just dont tell the reason you want another service is because your afraid she's riddled with STD's  that can end a good time quickly.

Dag, that's harsh.  Hand sanitizer?  ...What a jerkface.

Here's my thing.  If you are paying me an extravagant amount of money for just an hour of my time, I am more than happy to do what will bring YOU the most pleasure (within reason, of course).  That doesn't bother me at all.  I have had a date with a man who was in his 30s and still a virgin, and was too nervous to actually go "all the way", and I was more than happy to limit us to different types of stimulation with which he felt more comfortable.

However, I'll admit, I do start to feel unsexy and unself-confident when with a man who is making no noises, no motions, no attempts to touch me.  Nonetheless, that does not stop me from continuing to try to elicit the responses I crave from men.

So don't worry.  I would, however, make your intentions clear BEFORE you meet these girls... you never know who you will offend.

I have no doubt that many companions would relish an appointment such as the one you describe. Sounds very playful and sexy.

I do agree with one or two posters above though - don't mention your fears as that will only introduce an awkwardness to the date. Also, mention what you have in mind at the start.

Have fun!

Nicole

Funny story........ When I first started in this business, not knowing any better, I worked for a couple of agencies. I ended up having a session with a gentleman who would not kiss, wanted a covered BJ, chose to bring his own 'supplies' which in addition to covers, he brought along anti-bacterial soap, hand sanitizer, wet-wipes, and latex gloves. He said he "just preferred to be on the safe side".  Oh, and just to clarify, the latex gloves were so that he could touch me!!!!

A few of my best clients rarely partake of full service, but that's because they love my blow jobs, not because they are frightened to touch me, LOL!!! Having a session with someone who doesn't want full service or chooses to only partake in certain activities is fine. But I'd like it to be because they prefer and are more aroused by the alternatives, rather than them being guilt ridden and concerned or uncomfortable with the idea of being with an escort. Personally I don't want, and would elect not to see someone who is anxious or having concerns about meeting.  As a GFE, I just don't think someone who is apprehensive about being there in the first place is capable of really enjoying the experience. And in my opinion, whether you express your concerns or not, the way you feel will still be evident to a perceptive, experienced, well reviewed provider.

That would be kind of fun to watch the two ladies having fun with each other, and occasional participation from the guy.

You might want to consider the Massage Parlors, and just pay for the HJ upgrade.

That would be a fun session for me.  I like a lot of manual stimulation and it could get pretty erotic.

Alot is on my list of things I like to do, but giving lap dances, I'm not too crazy about. I'll give one if you really want me to, and on the extremely rare occasion, I'll just be in the mood to give one, but I get really nervous dancing in front of someone.

Kind of expensive for strip club action, huh?  2 no less!!