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PhillFree 2026 reads
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When a lad sends you an appointment request and he has a bunch of okays - let's say 50+ - what is the first thought that comes to mind?

A.  This guy is seeing too many other girls.  I am going to rock his world.  Then instead of seeing all of these other ladies he is going to want to see me every week.
B.  This dude is a player and suspect.  He probably only sees a girl once.  
C.  This requires closer examination.  Are these top ladies or lower tier ladies?  If these are top ladies, this guy has deep pockets.  Does he repeat with any of these ladies?
D.  I don't care one bit how many okays a guy has.  This is not a factor at all in my decision-making.  

coeur-de-lion133 reads

"E.  None of the above."

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Senator.Blutarsky146 reads

...that there aren't many ladies here. Just us drunks, WMPs, and malcontents. Besides, he's a slacker with only double digit okays.

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GaGambler141 reads

I stopped asking for an okay from every P 411 provider I saw quite some time ago, right about the time they changed the rules and required clients to "ask" for an okay before the provider could give one.  

 
I did this because of option "B". There really is such a thing as too many okays. Just like a woman with "too many" reviews a lot of women don't like "high volume" clients. Because of this once I got up to a couple of dozen okays I only would ask for a new one every month or two, just enough to stay "current".

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Senator.Blutarsky150 reads

...who are bothered by it. However, in my experience, I've only been turned down once because I had too many. So, I'd argue that they are the minority and not a lot like you've said.  

Like you I don't ask every time, but over time they add up, even with repeating with several who I've developed a relationship with.  

But then like PS, you really don't care, you just want me to post another pic. 😎

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impposter138 reads

Posted By: Senator.Blutarsky
But then like PS, you really don't care, you just want me to post another pic. 😎
Are you suggesting that some post replies to your posts just to goad you into posting more pics of incredibly beautiful women? Do you seriously think that some of us could be so guileless and transparent?

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Senator.Blutarsky143 reads

...I'm stating a fact. Once I posted without the eye candy and got a rash of shit. They made it clear they didn't read my posts, but only looked at the pretty pictures. Not that I blame them. I've been guilty of the same thing when checking out a gal's website. 😎

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trex44123 reads

I have to agree -- she has quite the attractive "web site." ;)

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GaGambler151 reads

It is definitely the minority of providers that feel that way, but with thousands and thousands of providers out there even a relatively small percentage still means that quite a few women feel that way. I might also point out that the higher your "number" is, the more providers that might see you as too high volume for them. A lot of women would see 100 okays as a positive, but might not feel quite the same if that number started approaching a thousand.

 
Please keep in mind that it wasn't really that long ago i would often see 4-5 women in a single day, I have had more than a couple of chicas point out to me that not only did I see "muchas chicas" but that I saw "demasiadas chicas"

 
And yes, I really don't care what you have to say, just keep those pics coming jaja

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Senator.Blutarsky131 reads

...and a matter of perspective. We certainly don't think we see too many, but the women look at it differently. Maybe I should think about deleting some of the old ones I don't plan on repeating with or have retired.  

BTW, be sure to tip your barmaid. 😎

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trex44130 reads

If I had a barmaid available who looked & dressed like that,I'd give her more than the tip!;)

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LynetteMarie147 reads

a combination of all of the above on some level or another.

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AngelinaDDD132 reads

which was great but then upon further research, had 8 bad boy reports.  I passed. Made me uncomfortable and would not give me his RL info. Okays are only good for part of screening. I like the total picture.

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jaydalee127 reads

about the number of okays a P411 member has.

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TurbayVeronica129 reads

of the screening process. Just because you have submitted your info for screening to P411 Administrators, paid your membership fee to them and may even have “okays” from other providers youstil have to go thru our individual screening process.  
I dont care how many ok's you have, I look for quality no quantity.

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coeur-de-lion119 reads

many "Layers" on P411.  That's why so many are getting laid there.  

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GaGambler129 reads

and I keep seeing women through P 411 who are more than happy to see me without me lifting a finger other than having them check out my P 411 profile and okays. If some of them are reaching out to the ladies who have okayed me, that's fine by me, but it's barely one P 411 provider out of a hundred who ever has asked me to provide any more information than she can find through P 411.

 
Just because YOU do things a certain way doesn't mean you speak for everyone else, although I can see why you would like to convince everyone else that YOUR way is the only accepted way. Sorry, but my experiences (and I have a LOT of them) just don't seem to coincide with yours.

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cashorcredit123 reads

What’s up bro, just wanted to say hello, I can only access my account because I’m in CR, check your messages when you get a chance

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justsauce16135 reads

Get NordVPN and use a non-us server. You'll be able to access TER anywhere.

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sensualnatalie149 reads

Is A. But I have heard of girls turning down high volume guys. I think some girls can be intimidated when they see you have seen some of the best or high volume, aka. Experienced. I myself welcome the challenge.

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Bucky11130 reads

To hear some ladies complain about 'serial reviewers' yet they have no qualms about seeing hundreds or more hobbyists during their career.  And who is to say that hobbyists with 50+ okays don't repeat with their regs countless times over the years?

Happy hump day!

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pronational112 reads

But I'm aware the following scenario happens more often (for me) with gents with a few dozen or more OKs:  

 
I receive an appointment request for a week out.  I'll check the gentleman's profile, then confirm my availability.  We'll exchange prompt messages, I'm talking back-to back within a couple minutes of each other.  Then when it's time to that final bit of info; like address, a phone number to reach him, a specific time...radio silence for several days.  

 
Day of the appointment.  "Hi!  I'm just seeing your last message, sorry about that :(  Are you still available tonight, I'd love to see you!!"

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